Hi,
I've been looking and learning PUA skills for a while now, so in theory I'm good, but when it comes to actually sarging and approaching I seem to stumble over my words alot - basically I'm not as smooth as I want to be!

I know what I'm going to say, and am prepared, but I think this is my downfall - I'm too busy thinking ahead to focus on what I am actually saying at that point in time.

I was just wondering if anyone else had this problem, and what I could do mentally to overcome it.

Thanks,
RKaney

You've done the hard bit and approach but you would like to keep the flow and consistency of your game so here's what i would suggest....

When you feel you can't speak or your nervous just take a step back and breathe, if it's obvious to your party that you feel this way take the girl by the hands and be open and honest bout it am sure however you feel will change and your confidence will heighten

This is part of the NLP theories. I am not familiar with this, but in general it says the following:

If you want to have impact in a conversation, talk slow and keep the tone low. More important is to divided a sentence in short commands. According to the theory, this will make girls more responsive ('unconscious' she will 'obey').

For example (don't focus on the content, but the structure!) :

"Hey, what's up? I notice you and I just want to get to know you and introduce myself to you"

NLP:

"hey....what is up......you....noticed me...and I....want to know you....introduce yourself.....to me..."


In a convo, you can not start with NLP. There is build-up phase, after this phase NLP is ok.

Maybe NLP will help you get over you stumbling

Are you using stacks?

If so, memorize it like and say it over and over again. You wanna be able to say it flat with no emotions in it. Also, say it really fast without stopping. Once you get this down, add emotions to it. I had acting classes and this is how we memorized our scripted. It works well because getting up on stage gets people really nervous and even under extreme nervousness, people can still perform.

IMO you have nothing to worry about, it'll just go away if you keep sarging.

Good luck!