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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 1:29 pm 
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Last weekend I invited a girl to watch a movie with me. First she was quite enthusiastic about this and asked me to book tickets. Later she informed me that she also invited two other guys. I wanted to make this a date, but of course with the other dudes this was impossible. Also, after the movie she suggested to buy something to smoke, knowing that I don't smoke because I'm pretty serious about my sport.
Does this signal she is not interested in me or what should I make out of this?
When they smoked their stuff I left early, showing that I don't take her shit. Was this the right reaction?


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 1:37 pm 
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sounds like youre in the friend zone man, shes def not attracted to you, i guess you did the right thing cause she was prolly using you for social proof and to get other guys jealous so it is cool that you dont let her do that but as far as attracting this chick id say forget her, but if you want a chance with her id say cut all contact become alpha re-initiate contact and take it from there.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:17 pm 
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Last weekend I invited a girl to watch a movie with me. First she was quite enthusiastic about this and asked me to book tickets. Later she informed me that she also invited two other guys. I wanted to make this a date, but of course with the other dudes this was impossible. Also, after the movie she suggested to buy something to smoke, knowing that I don't smoke because I'm pretty serious about my sport.
Does this signal she is not interested in me or what should I make out of this?
When they smoked their stuff I left early, showing that I don't take her shit. Was this the right reaction?
Yeah, it was a good reaction. You don't owe her anything.

Also, she doesn't seem interested.

Cut your losses and move on. Good luck ahead.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:31 pm 
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Later she informed me that she also invited two other guys.
This is a very clear IOD.

This happened to me too lately: I invited a girl for a bite & drink. She agreed. But she invited two other people. Luckily those two didn't come, but I find it very rude that she invited other people.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:46 pm 
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You could freeze her out for a while.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 3:33 pm 
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yep iod


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 9:16 am 
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Thanks guys! The only "excuse" might be that I was already pretty friend-zoned with this girl, so she might not have thought of this as a "date". Do you guys think I should completely give up on her or are there still chances?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 10:00 am 
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Thanks guys! The only "excuse" might be that I was already pretty friend-zoned with this girl, so she might not have thought of this as a "date". Do you guys think I should completely give up on her or are there still chances?
ok here is an idea, say to her, hey, i think im starting to like you would you like to go out on a date, other then this, your fucked, and only other method besides cutting your balls off and dating up, is EPIC FREEZE OUT, and actually become sexual


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