I've had at least 2 girls in the last couple of weeks mention something about a player vibe that I gave off to them. One stated something to the effect of: "you look like you have a lot of experience with women". And another for example said, "you have no idea how smooth you are. if you aren't a player, you should consider a career change".

For whatever weight these questions are worth, how should I perceive them? Are they IOI's or really a Neg directed to me? Does being known (or at least rhought to be) to be good with women actually DHV?

How would you respond?

Keno...

You can say, "Football player?" Other than that just ignore it.

The real essence here is that the "player" concept is all bullshit. It is all bullshit created by the human mind. What it really means is, "You turn me on very easily" but the conscious mind attaches other shit to that such as, "But you also turn on other women easily so I can't trust you." Believe me, it's all bullshit. 10000 years ago females didn't take into account if a caveman was a player or not. If that guy mated with a lot of females, she would gladly be next.

However, becoming civilized comes at a price.

Great perspective and noted. I appreciate the response and it gives me a bit of clarity on how I will respond next round.

Depending on how it's delivered it could be either a complement or an insult.

Replies: Player? no no, we don't use that term anymore, just call me 'the ladies man'

Me? a player? you know your the third girl to tell me that today *with a big cheesy smile*

I'm the player? You're the one seducing me over here.

Theres tons of replies to this, just completely flip whatever comment she makes.

If a girl ever calls you a player, it either means your game is working and she is blaytantly admitting it outloud, or she is a hater and trying to cock block.

If it comes with IOI's, just ramp up escalation till she is screaming your name at 3am. If it's haterade, just laugh out loud and say "thank you" with a smile and freeze them out perminantly. If you really don't give a shit that they are poiting a finger at you (and you shouldn't) technically you are gaming them too and they know it. Half the time the haters will end up fucking you in a club bathroom or some shit anyway.

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Thanks for the feedback. The first one, I ended up f-closing and now she won't leave me alone. She actually sent cupcakes to my place of work

I think when I encounter this again, I will try flipping the subjects as mentioned above and look for the outcome. I love to see the way these encounters unfold, especially when you get to that point where you are in the driver's seat.

Keno...

Girls like to connect after sexual things, especially after an f-close. Perfectly normal. They want a relationship more than we do.