i would like to keep this as short as possible. this weekend i visited my old neighborhood and saw a girl from my highschool sitting all by her lonesome across the street from where i was. i approached, we catch up and have great convo over a J. over the course of the conversation she said she hates pets, so i ask if she wants kids- she replies no. not immedialy after but soon after i ask to take my number she refuses, very politely but she says no. i ask to take her out sometime, she again says no. we hug and she goes on her way. now i know that ppl have good days, bad days, and sometimes prior relationships, but this happens to me alot. i could be having great convo complete with eye contact and flirting but when it comes time to close i get nowhere. what could it be? i believe i am very attractive, and i think they do too. im tired of guessing. somebody school me.

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I mentioned the answers to her questions regarding pets, and kids because it gave me the idea that she may be a lesbian. but i couldnt bring myself to blatantly ask

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long story short. The girl form the posting calls me around 1130 on sat. i guess she got my number form one of our mutual friends. needless to say we both had a GREAT night. im afraid of her tho. shes beautiful, cool, and we have a bunch in common. may have to keep her at a distance. i would like to have made it happen all in one motion, but think im a fan of the game of chase that she made me play.

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Yeah, play it cool.

Don't lay it on thick. Asking her if she wants kids in your first convo? Not that good of an idea.

Keep things simple.

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dont normally ask that but remember style mentioning a link between kids and pets. will keep in mind to scratch that seqway in the future. Thanks for replying.

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