So I went to a party at a friend's place last week and met this HB7. Had some really good talk and been txting, talking on the phone almost every day since. We hung out 3-4 times since but always in a group. I played this cocky funny really effectively and got her laughing all the time. Also built up good comfort and connection. But couple times she gave me this LJBF crap whenever my jokes escalated a little bit.

On one hand, we have a really good connection. She actively txt me, asked me to help with her homework and came over once by herself. On the other hand, she's always pushing back and gave me this really strong LJBF vibe. Everytime I got a bit closer, she pushed back.

WTF am I supposed to do now? Should I just confront her? I was thinking of just straight up telling her if she keep behaving this way then she'll get no special SPAM from me and we'll just be friend, something along that line

she doesn't find you attractive, go find different girls, freeze her out, no more attention to her

I think there are tactics to -prevent- the situation from going there, but if it is not avoidable, I will say go for it (be friends), and then exploit her social network, attack on her friends in parties, gatherings, etc.

It's better than nothing, she is giving you a change to enlarge your game territory

I agree with pumpington. I think this is purely that she isn't physically attracted, and has already made that judgment, regardless of your game/personality.

Tektolnes makes a really good point about making the best of the situation, though. I wouldn't waste time trying to game her, but she very well could be good for meeting other girls, gaining social proof, etc.

talked to her every day on the phone?

what are you 15?

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freeze her out

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freeze her out, dont reply to her text, move the fucck on! let her know that you aint gonna take this LJBF crap with her. Let her know what you want. You are playing this High school game crap

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Forget about her. Don't talk to her or call her or message her or anything.

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Ok, thx guys, ur giving me courage to cut this shit out and stop this AFC crap

She txted me some stupid shit again last night and i just ignored her completely. She is supposed to come to my house again tonight to get help on her homework (we agreed to this last week). Should I blow her off tonight as well? If so do I give her some excuse or just completely ignore her when she call/txt later?

That's a good idea. She's pretty good looking comparing to the girls around here so I can def use her to increase my chance with other chicks. And she does hang around with a bunch of other pretty good looking girls as well so that's also a plus. Maybe I should just stop giving this girl attention, keep her on a lease as friend, keep it cool and use her for social proof?

Just be her friend. You can't win them all. I mean you could game her and either pull it off or lose a friendship. Like Tektolnes said, she would make a great pivot, social proof, contact. Or she might turn out to be a great friend. What's wrong with that? She might even come around on her own but she won't with your attitude.

Another thing. Don't react to the ljbf. Say ok and change the subject. Then legit forget about it.

Text her this and then don't text her anything..


" Can't do HW tonight.. my friend came in from out of town, im going to hang with her tonight"

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Or do that. lol

Definitely this.

Im sure if you just keep her as friends and use her as social proof would be a good idea man. Eventually she'll see you picking up all these chicks when she around and she'll come around. By then you probably get over her.

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