hey everyone, i'm in college and i see HBs all the time, and it has become so easy to pick them up outside on campus & in the dining hall thanks to everything i've learned about PU.. however i'm having trouble with the classroom

theres this reaaaally cute girl in one of my smaller classes (only 20 people).. im not sure how to open with her, but i was thinking about writing on a small piece of paper "why is it that i know everybody's name in this class, except for yours?" and pass it to her like we're passing notes in high school. this is kind of a neg (idk her name) and DHV for me (i know everyone's name).. what do you guys think?

thanks a lot

this has really been covered so many times i think you should use the search button, theres so many ways to go about doing this

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i know there are lots of different openers, but i was wondering if you liked THIS ONE..

its not bad. it could deff work, but make sure you can follow, and recover if she shit tests you right off the bat. otherwise, follow it up with a couple negs, and maybe a compliment, and then suggest a setting change after class.

good luck,

PB

it could work, i rather save note passing for later on though.

just open with anything... be confident about it and make it seem natural. walk into class, maybe say whats up to whoever you know, talk about casual stuff... what's going on, maybe DHV with some story... or ask someone a question with an interesting subject. it doesn't really matter what you say at first, just open.

if no one else is talking in the class it makes you look more attractive if you're acting this way... if everyone can hear you talking it's your time to shine. the spotlight is on you because everyone will subconciously eves drop in. think of an interesting question to ask your friend or someone close by (maybe someone you're not afraid to talk to) then ask another person, or maybe her the same question/what she thinks.

after that, you're basically in... especially if you're sitting by her. then you can pass notes saying you're bored... lets play tic tac toe and just draw it out... she'll know what to do. or you can neg her on the note... etc....

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This has various ways to work out, and I am a fan of the note passing.

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thanks a lot guys, i'm using this monday, probably followed by the some DHV routines.. i'll let you know exactly how it goes

you could pass notes, or you could just end up taking a seat next to her and asking her the same thing up front and neg her a little bit. or come up and say hey stranger! and take a seat and do the whole "i know you but i really dont" routine and neg her a little about being too shy to say hi and all this. just elaborate on it