There is going to be a lot of metaphors in this post regarding the Earth's structure, so don't get too confused.


THIS IS HOW I VIEW INNER GAME


Briefly inner game is about not being a pussy, I think that's all there is to it in terms of PUA, but if you look into it more deeply, I believe that there are certain elements that are the base for questions like who you are as a person, how do you present yourself to the world around you, what do you wanna become ?

You have certain characterstics as a person and those characterstics are based on another set of characterstics which are based again on another set of characterstics and so on and so forth... Until it brings down on only like 5 or 6 basics, that are foundation to your whole inner game.

This is how I precieve INNER GAME





QUICK EXPLANATION: For those that aren't exactly familiar with the Earth's structure: Inner core (diameter: 800 miles) is a solid sphere which consists of solid iron and nickel, Outer core (diameter: 1400 miles) is a fluid rotating sphere which consists of fluid iron and nickel, Mantle (diameter: 1800 miles) is half liquid and half solid sphere which consists of different metals and Crust (diameter: 25 miles) is solid sphere, which presents the surface we see (continents and oceans). Some concepts of these are used in next lines.



OK maybe it's a bad example by comparing it with Earth's crust , but I think it's an awesome concept.
In your "inner core" you have those 5 or 6 inner core values, on which you can built your "outer core" values, on outer core values you have your "mantle" characterstics and on top of that is the crust. Now if you have foundations build one on top of another the bottom foundation holds up the rest of it.
So for example if you destroy the inner core, the outter core, mantle and the crust will also be destroyed (in other words in you don't have your baisc set of values fixed in your head it is unlikely that you'll be able to express yourself to the outter world in a confident way.)
Let's get into details.


SIDE NOTE: This values (characteristcs) that are listed below are my personal values (characteristcs), you have your own set of values (characteristcs), that's what makes people different. And I nubered values (characteristcs) from the more important ones to less important ones, since sometimes you must choose between the 2 of them.



INNER CORE

Inner core (which is solid that means, that you don't change those values for anything in the world) is composited of values that are most important to you and they are base for everything you believe in and everything that you do. Every decision of yours in life, goes through this filter and if it doesn't match those characteristics, you don't pass the decision, if it does, you pass your decision.





MY INNER CORE VALUES: I haven't numbered those, cause those are the one that all need to be passed through for as far as my perception goes

- I'm persistant & I'm a winner in life
- I don't betray people & I take care of my friends
- I help other people & I keep my promises
- I'm not an asshole & I'm polite



OUTER CORE

Outer core consists of values, that are derived from inner core values, they are accualy more detailed values for what you believe or what you do. So inner core values are the base for outer core values. Outer core is liquid, so these values also have a fluid concept that's why some of them have advantage over another.

MY OUTER CORE VALUES:

1. Don't talk shit about others behind their back
2. Don't let other people to take advantage of me
3. I control myself
4. Standing up for myself
5. Not intimidated by others
6. I take care of myself
7. Respectful to the person that deservs it
8. Don't let others to control my feelings (simply I just don't give a fuck)
9. I don't let others to have influence of my clearly wrightful decisions
10. I'm not causing drama
11. Non reaction seeking
12. I'm modest person
13. I'm humble when necessary
14. Expressing yourself with your feelings
15. I'm not bragging
16. I'm smart
17. I'm the coolest person ever but also I don't let that to fill my ego and blurs my mind
18. I take action when necesarry
19. I have my own style
20. I'm aware of the enviroment
21. Non judgemental
22. Be able to take critisism



MANTLE

What you wanna become, what do you wanna do, what do you like ?... questions like that are based on your outer and inner core values. There's a lot of characteristics that fits in here, for example here's one.

MY (LIFE) GOALS: (I keep those updated once in a while)

1. Complete my education with diploma
2. Be happy in life
3. Consistantly getting good with women.
4. Constantly emproving TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON
5. Train Taekwondo for my own purpose not for belts or medals (cause I used to do that)
6. Be totally independant from others
7. Helping other people with my knowledge
8. Helping others to to achieve their happiness and improvements in life
9. Do what I know best and do it FUCKING GOOD
10. Do a skydiving
11. Do a bungee
12. Do airsoft competition
13. Do drifting with a race car
14. Travel the world to see things and widen my horizonts
15. Live abroad for a while
16. Try a threesome
17. Getting good in Parkour





Now there are also other characteristcs, but in my opinion, there are just two things when it comes to game, that drivens you forward to progress.

MY LIST OF WHAT ATTRACTS ME IN GIRLS:

1. Good sense of humor (funny)
2. Smiling
3. Optimistic
4. Loving and enjoying life
5. Erotic & Sensual
6. Interesting
7. Confident
8. Emotional
9. Honest
10. Loyal
11. Doesn't talk shit about others behind their back
12. Not causing drama
13. Respectful to the people that deserve it
14. Standing up for herself when necessary
15. Polite
16. Passionate about something
17. Non egoistic
18. Sense of fashion (unique style)
19. Modest
20. Expressing her feelings
21. Calm and relaxed
22. Doesn't let herself down easily
23. Helps to those who need help


REASONS FOR DOING GAME:

1. I love it
2. It sets me free in a way
3. The adrenaline release is amazing
4. It makes me happy
5. You got potencial (someone told me that not long time ago)
6. It's good for life in general
7. You've got the chance to change your life you make people around you (especially girls) happy and enjoying your company
8. It is raising your self-esteem
9. You're showing others that you're a good person
10. By doing it you embrace and enjoy life
11. You deserve it for being a good person






CRUST

The top layer is how you present yourself to the world externaly. This si maybe not a real concept of inner game, but it's something that is based on it and inner game feeds those things with your values (characterstics) and in return by doing that you remember yourself of your inner values, so it's mutual.

HOW DO I SHOW MYSELF EXTERNALY

1. I train Taekwondo
2. I'm good in school
3. I love hanging out with my uncle and my cousins
4. I have my own style of dressing (surfer/rapper/rave)
5. I don't do drugs
6. I don't do any illegal things
7. I like to swim / ski / dance (jumpstyle&shuffle) / drive / …
8. I love trance / rave / techno music
9. I like comedies / thrillers
10. I hate horrors
11. I love to travell
12. I only get really drunk few times a year
13. I'm very educated on technology
14. I like pasta
15. I like cocktails
16. …

Now this are just a few examples of course our external world is very large and every action that we do could fit in here.

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Since this is a new concept comments on it are more than welcome

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wow cool concept man!Very thoughtfull post!You where spot on,it's hard to say more.Hope more people read this!
Thank you!

I really think this is a great basis to build a strong foundation off of.

I'm taking time to do my own individual analysis.

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I like the layered idea instead of Inner vs. Outer. Nice work. Definitely will be thinking on what you've said more.

Thats a cool posting!

Great post man, thanks!

That is fucking beautiful

yeah no offense to kupid, but i couldn't focus on the rest of the post with those huge knockers on my screen\

good post man! it's always good to write down what you value and what makes you valuable

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Love the post Kupid. I just disagree leaps and bounds with not being a pussy part. I believe that's part of inner game but it can not sum the total of inner game. One thing I think inner game is definitely about that I don't see mentioned much around here is being real and genuine with your self. I see so many people trying to "fake it" till they make it that they lose themselves in this quest to become this great guy. I think that you can still be your self if you understand who you are. I view inner game as a person getting to know themselves and their bodies on all levels.

Everyone has innate talents and I think so many times in PUA we focus on creating new stuff that we forget to recycle the old things with in our selves that work.


Other than that small part I dig the post. Definitely thought it was an insightful look into the complexity of human individuals. But don’t forget part of the journey of inner game is to found your self (how you are? What you’re about? And what is your place in this world?) I believe it’s when humans understand these factors that they live on the highest plain of human existence beyond what even most individuals could fathom. Courage is a great quality to have, just don’t stop asking the hard questions about your self on the journey.

Thanks for the post.

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Thanks for the replies guys, haven't checked this topic in a long long time

But really, I believe, that this is just a bare idea, something that imo still needs some work, so if you guys have any improvments or something to contribute / comment, I would be glad to hear it

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