So basically theres this girl at my old school she is beautiful and she is one of the most kindest girls i know and she came out of a long term relationship about 2 months ago but even though she had a bf even during there relationship i think she may have a bit of a thing for me because since i left my old school whenever i go back to see my friends she always is excited to see me and stuff like last christmas she had a mistletoe and came up to me and and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

anyways today i went back to my old school for this charity event and i hadn't been back to my old school for a few months so when i saw her earlier at this charity event she's was like really happy to see me and she was asking how i have been she even said i was looking good but i got a lil bit nervous so i just smiled a lot and talked a bit with her.

but i am going to send her a message on Facebook saying something like Hey it was great seeing you today hope you had a good time, we should hang out some time.

could someone tell me if what im thinking of messaging her is good or needs improving.

my only problem is that i live an hour and a half from her.

bro,

good to hear that you know someone who is beautiful and nice!

This is what I think:
- she is a nice person, and she is nice to everyone. You think she is only nice to you that way, but this is not true. She is nice to several guys.

- These kind of girls are approached by lots of men. You are not the only one who is admiring her!

- She gave you a kiss on the cheek _> friendszone

- your FB message is too vague: 'hang out sometime'. Now what? You expect she will propose a time and date and place? No, she won't. The best respons (if she responses) is: "yeah, we should do that sometime'. And you are as far as now, and that's nowhere.

- Be direct, concrete and leading. Build in a false time constraint. Be not needy

- say this: Hey [name], I will be in [her town] at [date] for some meetings. I won't be back for a while. I need a listening ear for crazy things (good things )that happened lately. Let's grab a coffee & sandwich at [pub].

Goodluck!

Well, your definition of this sounds innocent, pure or something.

Anyway, an ideal message would , "It was nice seeing you today."

Just that.

Short, simple messages have a profound impact on women.

And you can always build on it, depending on her kind of reply.

Good luck.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

so i inboxed her saying 'hey nice seeing you today' and she replied 'nice seeing you too hunny

Now, go have a normal conversation with her. Don't be too eager or excited in your replies. Be formal and polite.

And, if you feel it's right, then at the end ask for her number.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "