Hey guys,
Ive been hanging out with this girl for almost a month and im pretty sure i F'ed it up.... But if her and i hang out again, how should i go for the kiss?

Background: We've hung out, she invites me into her place to watch a movie every so often, we've both made it clear that we dont want anything serious.

I just dont want to fall into that bloody friend zone.

im thinking i should ask her "how would you feel if i kissed you" while looking into her eyes. Yeah?

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Try the triangle trick. Look at her left eye, then right, then lips. I love this trick, I'm not a real PUA but this works if you use it at THE RIGHT moment. The right moment it's when you feel that is something going on, not while talking about what movie you want to watch. Make her feel special and you're golden.

Have fun and good luck!

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

...A month? My friend, I'm afraid you may already be in the friend zone. I hope not. You need to make sure that you demonstrate that you're interested soon, or else it will definitely be too late!

Kissing is a fine idea, and will definitely gauge her interest. Good luck.

if youve never hung out then when you do make sure you bust on her a lot C&F style, escalate kino throught your whole time together and take it from there. If you see that she's giving you ioi's and she's receptive to your touch, try one of the many kiss close routines you can find on google. Just dont try kiss clossing her if youve never even touched her.

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Thanks guys....... I just needed some good info and you all you guys gave it to me. Thanks again

P.

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Im new to the forum but my favorite thing to do is (after negging a respectful amount) to display a bunch of value, show skill sets she wants to learn, offer to show her, and either she will say something like "I don't know what I could give you in return" or you just neg her again by saying "I don't know what you could give me in return". Then run the triangle thing (as stated above) and move in. Its worke for me every time since I started using it. I hope you've already closed but if not I hope this helps.

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1st thing, she will be alone with you? if the answer is yes then 2nd thing,
2nd thing, try to qualify her e.g. what is it about you that makes you a special person?, or beauty is common but what what qualities are important are a great energy and outlook on life, what do you have going on for you more then your looks? or what is it that makes you a special person? (make sure to come off congruently genuine for that last one) if she qualifies you can assume attraction, if you don't want to risk just going for a kiss try the WOULD YOU LIKE TO KISS ME ? line
yes = do it
no = well i wasn't going to let you, you just looked like you had something on your mind
anything elese = well lets see (then make an attempt)


and remember a failed kiss is not a big deal, don't be pouty or seem like you got rejected be persistant and try a few more times, but try to avoid comming off as needy, just blame it on her if she over-reacts

good luck i hoped this helped

Don't ask her or any other woman that. Ever.

Now, you both made a conscious decision to never let it become anything, which in her mind dumped you into the ''friend zone'' as you call it.

Live with your decision now. If you tried to kiss her out of the blue, you'll probably be thrown out of her life.

If you want to become more than friends, press the reset button. Cut all ties for a while, take a break from her, reinvent yourself and then approach her again.

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