I always like to pull the, "Do I know you?" message (message, not wall post) so they think they aren't very special. They will likely respond with a, "I met you at the party blah blah." To which you respond a simple, "Oh, thats right. Hows it going?" This prevents you from looking needy, but also shows some interest. Take advantage, she is most likely into you. Just don't take it overboard with the conversation. You should get her number within the first few messages.
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