Openers I have liked to use over the years. Credit goes to various PUA's! Wrote this to help fill demand for openers from AFC's. All may not be for you, so pick some you like and practice. Enjoy!

Opinion Openers
1. Is it normal for girls to snoop?
The only reason I ask is that because my buddy has been dating this girl for a while and they finally just moved in together. And she went through his stuff and found an old box of letters and pictures of his old girlfriend. He doesn’t even look at it. He just has it. Well she found them and now she wants him to burn them or throw them away. Is this a little over the top? Shouldn’t he be able to keep them?

2. Who lies more men or women?
My buddy and I have a joke bet going. He thinks that guys lie more but girls are better liars. And I think that girls lie more because they’re better liars. Solve it for us, who do you think lies more?

3. How do you guys tell if a guy is gay or not?
The only reason I ask is that we’ve gotta a buddy coming out to meet us tonight and we can’t really tell if he’s gay or not. I wouldn’t even care if he was gay, we just want to know. He hangs out with tons of girls but he never dates any of them. It’s weird. But how do you guys tell?

4. If your dating a guy and kiss someone else is that cheating?
What if you kiss another girl? Is that cheating. The only reason I ask is because my buddy over there has been dating this girl for a while and she likes to occasionally make out with other girls. My buddy doesn’t like it and says it cheating but she says it’s not cheating. So what do you guys think?

5. Omg…..did you guys see the girl fight outside?
Yea these two girls were fighting outside over this guy named George. Yea they were really really white trash. And as they were fighting one of the girls grabbed the others’ blouse and her boob popped out. But it was nasty white trash boob

6. Hey guys I’m throwing a bachelor party next weekend for my buddy and wants to get strippers. which is fine with me. But I get a call today from his fiancé and she’s like “you cannot get him strippers what so ever. So I’m torn. Shouldn’t a guy be able to get strippers before he gets married?

7. If a guy were to propose to you and give you an engagement ring. But then after you are engaged he cheats on you and you break up with him. Are you still entitled to give back the engagement ring or would you want to keep it just to spite him. The only reason I ask is that this happened to my buddies older brother and he is all pissed she kept the ring. Would you guys keep the ring?

8. Hey I have a question for you guys and it might be the most life changing question you’ve ever heard. Do you floss before or after you brush?

9. Hey do you guys know the theme song to family matters. We’re trying to remember it but we can’t figure it out.

10. Hey if you guys were dating a guy and they decided to go to overseas for a few months how long would you guys wait for a guy before you broke things off. The only reason I ask is because my buddies girlfriend went abroad to France for a semester and they decided to stay together but now she’s over there and decided a year long internship. He doesn’t know what to do? Do you think he should break it off with her? Hey maybe you guys can help me out, what’s the best way to end a relationship with a girl without hurting her feelings … cuz this right here just isn’t working for me. No my good buddy, is trying to cut things off. But he’s doing it right now by just kinda ignoring her and not answering her calls.

Direct Openers
Direct openers are often used when inner game is solid and intact. Recognize that too many guys come in direct, with lines like “can I buy you a drink?” or “you are so beautiful!” These are pointless, overused, and simply do not work.. Additionally, because so many guys approach women with these kind of lines, women are often skeptical of direct approaches. However, as mentioned previously, with the right internal game and confidence, you can come in approach directly. You might say something like “I can’t believe it, I’ve been standing here for like 2 minutes and you haven’t even tried to hit on me or grab my ass or anything. So what’s the deal?”

1. Did you save this seat for me?

2. Did you miss me?

3. Hey my girlfriend thinks your really hot

4. Hey pretend like your talking to me, my ex is over there.

5. Hey which way is ______ hall(somewhere she walking in the direction of)

6. You look fun, what’s up

7. Omg you look exactly like a girl I went to school with

8. If I weren’t gay, we could totally hang out. And swap guy stories, and eat ice cream over sex and the city. And say “god I feel so much like Samantha right now”

Situational Openers
Another way to open indirectly is to comment about something in the surrounding area. “omg… This music is sooo loud!” is a good example. These types of openers are termed situational openers and are optimal for preventing a “non-creepy” vibe while at the same time coming off as spontaneous conversation. However, it must be noted that when using a situational opener, you get a much smaller window for creating conversation. The girl is likely to only respond to your comment which leaves the rest up to you to keep it going.

1. Ohhh my god, I bought my girlfriend a shirt exactly that….I guess that means you have good taste

2. OMG…You look really familiar…How do I know you?

3. You should get the (name of drink)…it’s money

4. Hey can I have 5 bucks?….

5. Weren’t you at the (other bar) last week?—-

6. Looks like the parties over here

7. Those boots are awesome…where did you get them?

8. Omg its so fuggin loud in here

9. It so hot/cold

10. Ahhh there are too many sloppy drunks out here

Miscellaneous Openers
1. Tattoo Opener – Hey I was thinking of getting a tattoo what do you think I should get? What about piercings, should I get my eyebrow done? (even better if you have a picture of several tattoos handy)

2. Nice ass opener – Hey a girl just commented that I had a nice ass; it’s hard to tell myself. Give me a look at your ass. (make her turn around, might not be a good idea if you have a hole in your back) What makes a good ass?

3. Shoes opener – Hey they say you can tell the exact mood a girl is in by the length of the heel on her shoe. If it’s really tall, even if she doesn’t realize it, she wants hot sex, and if it’s really low she’s not feeling very sexual. Hmmmm…. (Continue and 100% correct by the way), hey look her shoes!

4. Eyes opener – Hey let me look at your eyes, they say that you can tell everything by someone’seyes. The small lines in someone’s eyes tell you how strong their constitution is. If they are weak and far apart they tend to get sick often, and if they are tightly packed and strong they are a leader type of person. Let me look at your eyes, hmmmm.

5. Hey guys, I need you all to help me settle an argument my friends and I were having. Is fish considered a meat

6. Is pork red meat or white meat?

7. Ok.. Just tell me, what possible reason would you have, to hide your panties in a mans freezer?!? I had no idea what to do with them, so I just put them back… There still there.

pretty much all text book openers. How about your own openers that you use? You should also be generous and give credit where it due. Like Style or Mystery you know.


Also, there is no way a guy who spends a lot of time in field would know that many openers. I been sarging for almost 2 years. I use the same opener over and over. When I get in state, it just random openers I come up with. (proving openers don't matter)

But I will tell you one thing, all those openers, could start great conversation thread.

Your right I Forgot to give credit to all the PUA's that have helped the game evolve over the years. I put a disclaimer at the top. Hope this post helps people overcome approach anxiety

all classic openers =)

NB for newbies

you only needa know like 5 openers. so choose them, like ones that work for different types of set. eg. mixed, big group, girls only, etc.

once your opener works for you stick with it and experiment with others. dont go into the field with 20 openers in you head cos you bound to screw up something

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great post thanks for sharing

Great openers! I will try some of them out next time I go out.

For the record, though, women don't base their sexual prowess on the height of their heels. I wear flats all of the time because they are more comfortable and they are really in style right now. Still very sexual!

lol, I would narrow it down to 2 openers. Infact, out of the 2, your probably gonna use 1.

I always use the same opener all the time. But in the end, you can open with pretty much anything you like. It's all about your energy.

pretty good list nice work

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