A lot of guys on this forum said, that the best way to geto ver this is to go out, fuck 10 girls and then move forward (I haven't accually tried this one, so it might work), but I've been experimenting with something else.

Here was my situation:

I broke up with a girl about a year ago and haven't called her since. My last 2 months were a real mind blowing / depressing and I putted my game into hybernate and we all know what happens, when you do that, you fall back into old habits and start thinking about thea past.

Well I know my ex hates me, cause I haven't made any contact with her for like a year. So in my ''worse'' state, I said I'll give her a call to see where I'm at, she'll make an instant decision, to like/hate me and I'll know my ground, if she likes me, good, i can progress from there, if she doesn't also good, i can move forward, cause I can't fucking force her to like me.

I called her, she was pissed and angry and… something that i can't even describe I can see, that she tried to manipulate me through the phone, but I called with a point, said that and she wasn't for it.
OK no problem, I move on.


What I'm trying to tell with this post is if you're affraid of forcing YOURSELF to look where you're at with your one-it, if you can't call her and ask her directly: ''I wanna know, where is your relationship to me is standing right now.'' Then you probably won't ever really go over her. Don't be affraid of her saying no to you, that tells you exsactly what you need to know.

That's something that helped me out. Give it a try OR you can go and fuck 10 girls, give a try to that too

Peace

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Dude this is not oneitis this is a break up! you are not a robot, it is ok to go through what you are going through, best thing to do is CLOSURE, after closure no contact period...Keep busy and date, do not get into another serious relationship for at least 6 months...

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I always thought that old idea of just gettin laid a bunch to get over one-itis isn't too good. It's no different from a rebound relationship. Rebound sex is just trying to fill the void.

My belief was always slightly different from that. By all means, go out, but your goal shouldn't be to add proverbial notches to your bedpost. Instead, just have as much fun as possible with your friends. You gotta remind yourself that life rocks without that girl, and by trying to get laid to feel better you are only adding to the belief that you need a woman in some capacity to be complete.

Indeed. It can be anything.
Amongst the things i did was

buy a new video game. This is SUPER EFFECTIVE because it will eat ypur entire day. I played 10 hours per session.

Another time what i did was watch a new anime series. Preferrably a few of them. This got me fat gained like 10 pounds of eating chocolate and junk shit.

Another break up was right before class so i took a bunch of classes. So i was busy all the time.

The best one and the most recent break up, what i did was started waking up early and working out a lot. Also started to study boxing drills and techniques. Got hella ripped and gained muscle.

I suggest you have fun and hang out with family and friends as much as you can whenever you get time so you dont get any idle moment to ponder about your "good times" with her. If you get to fuck girls during that time period thats good, but the main goal is to occupy your thought process with new experiences.

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This doesn't really count as one-itis, but I say it's an idea that I'll have to test out.

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