my girlfriend and i are really close for about 2 years now. but, we do have arguments. well the last argument she told me she can't deal with a relationship right now because it is adding stress to the already stressful life she has right now. she does tell me she still loves me but, is uncertain about the future with me. she said i was smothering her. i gave her space and time i didn't contact her but, she ended up contacting me saying she can't live without me. i told her i don't want to be her friend and we're more than that.she said she doesn't know what she wants right now. not sure if that's because she wants to see what else is out there and have freedom to talk with other guys without having me to think about. or if it is just space that she needs. we are talking but, it's less now. she says she's busy and doesn't have time but i see her on social networking sites and such. and i have a feeling she's talking to more guys now and getting the attention i used to be able to give her when things were fresh. and she doesn't feel obligated to talk to me as much because we aren't together. i think she is keeping me around until she loses interest in me and her feelings go away. i do love her and i do want her. she did treat me well when were dating. i know she still has strong feelings for me. i am keeping myself occupied with working out and such but, still she is on my mind. should i just not contact her anymore and let her miss me? what should i do when she contacts me and asks to see me? i don't want what we do have to start fading away and i just become a friend and no longer an attraction to her. any insight would be much appreciated. thanks

I'm no pro but if it were me I would go no contact and try to move on. Get new hobbies and try to do everything better.Get othe girls interested in you. She will contact you. If not then it was a waste anyway. Just agree that y'all need space and it's best for both of y'all. Then no conact and try that for a while. If anything it will also help you move on.

I would advise you to move on, she may already have or be seing another guy, but still misses you, you can still get her back, if so Get David Dangelo Double your dating(i think is the best book out there if you want her back), but once you break up in my experience and get back you will end up breaking up for the same reason...Usually after a break up for about 6 months people can not handle it emotionally so they end up, being friends, sleeping together, getting back and then breaking up when pain tolerance is lower..The reason i tell you that is i have been in more than 6 relationships of 2 years of more, so i am not pulling advise out of my ass... But if your goal to get her back double your dating David dangelo will help you a lot.

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