8.7.2011 / 9.7.2011

OK initially I had my Field report thread in this subforum, but I'm closing that one, cause I don't post so often there anymore.
Oh well look at this it's my 300th post, I can't believe it has been so much now yay

Anyway this is what last night looked like




When I woke up in the morning even before I opened my eyes I was getting AA (strange ha), probably, cause I said previous night that I'm going to go and daygame today, but I didn't I made all kind of excues not to go out.

Most that contributed to that was the thing that I just had a shitty 2 months, where I putted my game into hybernate mode cause I just didn't have the time to game (exams and shit…) and plus I just had a disastres vacations in Grecce (for the first time, each previous year they were awsome), so yeah I was getting a kind of depressed.

A friend called me in the evening I haven't heard in months, so we went out to game, unfortunately the city's nightclubs were empty dry, cause all the chicks are on beach parties at the seaside, which is 200 km of driving away, so we were searching for a snow in the desert.

We founded a few sets and I don't really know what is happening with me, but I got pulled in, opened with no feeling of AA (strange cause 6 hours before, I had that feeling when I wasn't even in field). I opened with a few C/F openers, but the girls weren't interested, but I didn't give a fuck (Oh yeah also the only good thing I learned in Greece was to how to REALLY not give a fuck on people's view of you, I was drunk 24/7 ) and I applied that to home ground.

After enough screwing around, I opened a 2 set with a more non shitty opener and my friend instantly took over, so we were both introduces into starting convo.
We talked for a minute and then we bounced for a drink together.
This was a really one of those ''learning nights'', cause I realized, how time is flying by, we were having a conversation with them for like 3 hours btw.
I saw that when it comes to midgame I really don't have any problems in keeping the conversation, a long time ago I putted up together a list of topics to talk about, just for fun, it became useful now

NOTE: I didn't made any sexual comments at the beginning so I got dragged into a friendzone.
NOTE: There were times, that they becan to bullshit large on a certain topic and that got my eyes to drop to my brains and my head falling back (well not really), but I got that handeled, changed the topic

We bounced to another club, where me and my wingman, thought, that kino would be more achievable, cause when we were for a drink, they were sitting together on chairs in front of us. But the other club was even more empty than the first one, so we went to sat down again and just when I wanted to sit next to my girl, her friend beated me and she got there first. SHIT. OK so we talked a little more and when we decided to split up we number closed them, so we'll see from there.

NOTE: I also noticed, that when I'm telling stories / DHVing it works great, but it works even better if I'm animated, do things with my hands, funny faces and funny sounds, it gets them laugh more.

Oh yeah btw IOI's were not the problem they were there (hairtouching / smiling at everything / leaning in) and I was bodylanguaging back the IOI's.

However I've got a few questions ofr you guys:

1) How could I prevent to fall in the friendzone in the firstplace, I know I should make sexual comments (I risk little creepy by that), but if you have any extra thoughts on this.
2) How could I get myself next to my girl to do kino with her and if you have any extra tips on initiating kino.
3) Any tips on how could I isolate her.
4) If you have any thoughs on how should my day 2 with her look like, I'm planning go-karts

Thanks

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Kupid, I'll start out by saying I like your style lol

but here are a few pointers I can give you. Take 'em or leave em.

1) How could I prevent to fall in the friendzone in the firstplace?

Break rapport. seem disinterested, walk away, pay more atention to her friend... basically anything to get her to start working for your attention. if she is seriously putting effort into interacting with you or keeping you around, she more than likely wot FZ you. she may do that to 3-4 guys a night who she just meets.. effort equates to DHV, the more effort she puts into you the more value you gain in her eyes. you become something she is working for.

2) How could I get myself next to my girl to do kino with her and if you have any extra tips on initiating kino.

this works for me 99% of the time. if you're working a 2+ set, ask the whole set if they wanna dance. then use dance game/kino. kino is SUPER easy on the dance floor (think about it lol)

3) Any tips on how could I isolate her.

do you smoke? if she does as well make the universal "wanna go out for a smoke?" gesture dance floor can be considered isolation. when you're done dancing lightly hold onto her wrist (VERY LIGHTLY) and kino lead her wherever you wanna go.


4) If you have any thoughs on how should my day 2 with her look like, I'm planning go-karts

sounds good, I prefer water parks in this weather though. get her in a bikini and kino, sexual escalation works so much faster when there's less clothing. more area is exposed to use kino etc. it also wont look like you're doing much, you'll be using all the kino, etc when moving from one attraction to another, and while in Que. but go-karts are always fun

I wasn't able to execute your suggestions on points 1, 2 and 3, simply cause of the mode in wich the enviroment was (there were like really wierd conditions), but they are useful in other situations.
Also I like your suggestion on waterpark, I haven't thought about that one, but you gave me a good idea.

Thanks man

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

.. why are you judging your emotions ... is this really fear ? try to found out what you have dreamd about - do you still remember ?

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Is it just me, or is the game dynamic completely different in Greece??
Im here now for a month, and i feel like everything is backwards.
Negs have an awful effect, everyone takes them seriously and the girls have NO sense of humor. Im from New York, and before i left my game was SOLID! I was able to approach and at least number close every time, but here even the slightest suggestion of kino escalation is met with a dissaproving face. Even the ugly girls have bitch sheilds? Everything seems very group-of-friends ish, so im thnking perhaps college game applies? But im on vacation... and i dont want to waste a month building a social circle instead of doing work.. Thoughts?

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Some girls i meet are quite savage. Always tryingta grab up on my package. They say i look yummy and they want a taste, but im a human not a sandwich.