stop focusing on a single girl and start focusing on how to get any girl

If you think that you'll get any girl, than sorry dude you need to recalibrate your brains

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Kupid, you're reading it out of context. he's asking WHY do you "stop focusing on a single girl and start focusing on how to get any girl".

My simple answer is if you have been AFCing it up over years, partying in the friend zone, etc in order to score the girl you want you need to show her that you aren't Asexual. Vocalize your interest in other girls, dont go into detail, but talk about intimate encounters with her, escalate, build tension.... a lot of times people have to break through years of built up disqualification to get the girl they want. in short; sometimes you have to get a bunch of other girls to land the girl you ultimately want in the end... and when you land the one you want, you'll have the confidence and skills to keep her around. Who knows, maybe you wind up with someone you're happier with.. or you just play the field... its all up to you.

No Kupid is right. Read the question again. The op is asking for a one size fits all type of deal when in reality no such thing is possible.

I really want to disbelieve that... lol... that just seems too naive for me to comprehend lol

So you really think it is possible to get any girl? lamo. Let me know when you reach 100% closing rate.

No, I don't want to believe that he seriously means that. i'm at roughly somewhere in the 50% range... I'll feel like a success when im in the 80%'s lol. I have a LOT of work ahead of me XD lol

What did you think he meant? Good luck getting to 80% because your going to need it. Because your just fooling your self if you think you can pick up 4 out of 5 girls let alone any girl.

first off, I don't know why you're coming off so hostile... I didn't do or say anything to offend you, so I'd appreciate it if you chill. so I have a goal, 80% success. should one not strive to do the best that they can? I understand getting upset if I just said I was at 80% now. That would be an obvious lie. No, i'm humble, and I told the truth... 50% isn't much to brag about (it's hit and miss at best). so I suppose I'll just leave you to vent your frustration. have a good day/night

Didn't mean to come off hostile, I was more trying be sarcastic more than anything actually I guess I failed.

What my point of my posts more was that you have to be realistic about your closing rate. And being able to close 4 our of 5 girls is pretty much unrealistic as far as a steady closing rate goes. I am not saying its not possible to hit that rate, but to keep it is another thing. Personally I think its more realistic to shoot for 3 our of 5 which is 60%. That may not be ideal to you but I think most people can keep such a steady closing rate. People that say you can close every girl or almost any girl are bsing. If it was true I think we be hearing it more.