I can't shake that nice guy attitude off because I've been doing it for so long and it feels awkward doing anything else. So what i'm asking is how do you develop an attitude where you are attractive and in your experience how long does it take to attract woman over naturals if your super committed and a little bit better looking than the natural?

just always do what you want to do, always, sounds simple and like unhelpful advice but some day you will understand, just think, what would I like to do right now, then do it, don't care what people think, if you think during a situation how could I make this situation more fun for me, what would I like to do, then do that, and if people react negatively don't react to them

it all starts in your thoughts, changing your thoughts and be conscious of your behavior. you have to break through the awkwardness. Its a part of growing up. You can't let " feelings" get in the way of what you want to accomplish. Im not sure what you want. Theres no magic pill or ancient secret technique. You just have to STOP!

This is a paradox:
You are being nice, because you are afraid you will lose her. And because you are nice, she thinks that you only want friendship. And she will take your nice attitude for granted.

Mr. Nicequy is a risk-averse role guys play: you don't take the risk of being rejected as a potential lover. But his also means you will never win.

So my advice is:
- change your mindset and take the risk! No risk, no glory!
- girls have to prove themselves first, before they deserve your nice behaviour
- you still can be nice, but you have to postpone it.
- Mr Niceguys won't get laid, take this in mind!

Be bold.

It's the first duck you need to get in line.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

just be sexual.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!