we were both lying on the sofa watching a film, and i was kind of tickling her by lightly move my hand over her around her stomach and stuff. At first she told me it was tickling her, she then started twitching and stuff and it got worse the more i did it, she said it felt really nice and wanted me to carry on. She was heavy breathing like every minute or so when i was doing it as well. What does this mean exactly? Was she really turned on?

Totally! You were doing absolutely nothing wrong! A light touch between the crotch and stomach area is one of the most sensitive areas in my opinion. Girls love it.

It wasn't that the twitching got worse, but got better. Seriously, from the sound of it, had you kept it up the whole movie, she may have had a small orgasm just from that alone...

Wait, so you just kept doing that and then... nothing? You didn't kiss her or even say anything? I'm honestly having a hard time imagining how this didn't turn into fingering within like 5 minutes. How long were you doing this for? Maybe she was twitching cos she was falling asleep out of boredom cos you weren't going any closer to her pussy.

I'm being harsh but you gotta see the funny side. You were running your finger over her belly and she started to breath heavily and... fill in the blanks here man, did you just keep doing that until it was time for her to go or what? Please tell me you're a virgin, then you have some excuse. Not much of an excuse, mind you, but anyway. Next time that happens, move in and start kissing her neck or something at least.

Yeah, Solomon, I assumed Lukey was pretty young and a virgin, too, since he was asking about whether her heavy breathing and twitching and saying it was nice was a good thing or not.

I'm assuming that you didn't (for some reason or another) want to turn it to sex or making out or anything. Why not, I'll be damned if I know. If you would have been fine with that, then YOU DEFINITELY SHOULD HAVE GONE FOR IT! Nearly impossible for her to say no to, especially if this was her first time having that done to her.

no i went down all right, but she wouldnt let me, she said she had something to tell me but wouldnt tell me to my face (all this happened last night and has yet to tell me what it was). She is a virgin, yes, she was unbelievably nervous and it took me a while to get through to her and start making out and stuff, i tried to slip my finger down twice but she stopped me. Although, she was loving everything i did. We were making out for a long time and she was on top dry humping me but i was so annoyed she wouldn't let me take it further.

I think the problem was either she was on her period or hadn't shaved. I wouldn't of said it was her being on her period though, more likely to be she hadn't shaved considering she's a virgin, too(my friend told me this problem occurred to him before also with other chicks). how do i tackle this problem in the future?

I was more curious on the fact of whether it was a really good thing, i instantly thought it was when she started doing it but just wanted to make sure

Then you don't have anything to worry about. You took it as far as you could, which is the best thing to do. Every time you push the limit just a little, you fill the dike a little more, which means she has to build a higher wall of tolerance. Do you understand? The more you push it, the more she will become unsatisfied without going the whole nine. Just keep doing what you're doing, and respect when she says no. It will end up driving her crazy.

good point man, ill keep to the limits next time cheers

You should have asked her not us!

Don't overanalyze every movement and word a woman makes, it'll make life way harder than it needs to be. If it isn't obviously negative, assume it isn't a bad thing