yesterday i went to the bank to get a new debit card cause i lost my wallet. the girl who helped me was a beautiful indian girl. since we had business together it was easy for me to open and flirt, she played hard to get, said she was too old for me(which we both knew wasnt true) and wouldnt give me her number. i hit on her until i left and i came back today to finish up some business. she knew i was coming back and had dressed up alot more beautifully than yesterday, an ioi(short dress, heels, makeup, etc) and i continued to game her. we playfully talked about moving to california together and she liked the attention. i know she'll remember me, i definitely made an impression on her(i told her about how i lost my wallet - a long story which let her know how exciting my life was). i found her on facebook as soon as i got home but i have yet to add her. dno how long i should wait and what my next move should be. i already have her wanting me, i was very suave and i got infinite iois. what should i do next? the only thing she probably doesnt care for is that i dont have a job yet but thats not really an issue....

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A week, because you're way too busy getting your dick sucked.

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hahaha lmfao. okay if you say so. i was considering adding her now and asking if she'd like to come over since i have the house to myself and a bottle of wine at my disposal. i never get this house to myself and it seemed like perfect timing. in reality, i have no others to come over and suck my cock SPAM but i guess i'd come off as desperate by asking her the day of meeting her. im sure you're right and she'd prolly say no but if i waited a week and slow played her, all the while displaying my value, maybe i could get her ... what do you think?

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Give it a little time before you add her and then just strike up a conversation, get her number, and then try to set up something. Another option is to skip facebook completely, go back to the bank, and ask her to coffee after work. It's really up to you on this one.

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Ok, i am going to help you i am trying to expose that bmaster has not game and no biz giving advise but anyways, bmaster this is the correct answer:


When you go to the bank ask for her number, if you do not get her personal cell phone, you got nothing, this is a dead lead, she gets paid and points to open accts. etc... I was a bank manager, so you got nothing... Go back game her ask her for lunch or her number, if is a no is a dead deal... You got nothing here...

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So if you don't get her number your saying it's dead? That's pretty AFC, the girl is clearly just testing him.

You're basing this advice off of the fact that your mom let you be the banker once in a game of monopoly.

This guy is an idiot, go look at his other posts.

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Bmaster you got no game, he got nothing, here dude, and that is a fact... so if i like a girl i will find out her name and last name and add to facebook, that wood dude, bmaster you are a true afc...You got no game dude, and you are in Florida lets go on the field come on... lets see what you got!

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All you're telling me is that I have no game, my posts reflect my knowledge. If you're going to say I have no game back it up.

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In case you want another opinion instead of just an argument hijacking your thread...

Just kidding. Seriously, I personally hate Facebook. I have an account, but hardly ever go on. Some girls, it's the only way to contact them. But if you can do it any other way, then do that instead.

If you add her on Facebook right away, you run the risk of her thinking you're stalking her (on some degree). I would go back to the bank, have a routine set up, and be helped by her, then let her know that actually you don't have any banking to be done today. You just came to see her. Tell her you understand that she's at work, and you don't want to distract her, bu you would like to talk with her outside of her work setting. Ask for her number, and if you don't get it, then grab a pen and paper, scribble your number on it, and slide it over to her. Tell her you know she can't just give her number to all the guys at her work that ask for it because they may be psychos, but you'll give her a chance to see that you're different. Her call. Then just smile and walk out.

If she doesn't call you after all of that, she wasn't genuinely interested, and adding her on Facebook wouldn't be a good idea anyways. If she does, then who needs Facebook?! You got her number, and probably a date as well!

I'm sorry about that, skills360 has been hijacking basically every thread that I've posted on trying to start something.

TheFreshPrince, you did an excellent job answering the question, and between the both of us I believe the question has been sufficiently answered.

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I agree with TheFreshPrince... I would avoid FB and just go in straight with her. You gamed well so FB would just be a support tool anyways.

Fresh prince as i said the girl is kind for a "higher gun" but not really, those tellers/reps girls from the bank get bonus points, they have goals that they have to meet every month opening accounts etc... I been running banks all my life, anyways, i remember my employees bragging about how the show clivage etc... for the afcs to open an account etc... And they give EVERYBODY the biz card... Now for the poster to go on facebook, that is DESPERATE he got nothing he got wood, that is creepy, you need to go and get her number and make sure she does not give it to you out of obligation because she feels bad... Bmaster you got no game what so ever dude you are sad...Please post when you lose your virginity, so we can celebrate, where are you in Florida lets' go on the field...

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Go on the bank sign up the sheet: when she says you are back how can i help you:

pua: listen today i did not come to open and acct. or to do biz, the reason i came is because, there is something about you, i do not know what it is, but i am dying to find out, write down your number i am going to call you... Lots of confidence! some bullshit like that GET HER NUMBER or ask where does she usually go to lunch and when is her lunch hour and say oh shit i always go there lets go and i will let you pay for me and i promise next time i will open an acct. with you some shit like that, confidence confidence confidence...Calibrate...

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haha i would have totally added her on facebook but i forgot her name lol so i guess im gonna have to go in. im sure she was interested, she did me a favor in approving me for a credit card with a high spending limit even though i dont have a job... when i go in should i bring her some flowers? i think ima wait until my card comes in before go in so i can offer to take her out. if the card doesnt come in soon ima definitely go in and try to figure out why its taking so long. would it be bad if i went in with a purpose or is it completely necessary to go solely just to flirt?

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I think everyone's agreeing that in your case, it will be better to go in solely to speak with her... And let her know that! Good luck, man!