I am currently trying to change a few parts of my personality in order to become the person who I want to become. I was born with a severe hearing loss in both ears and had to go to speech therapy for 16 years. So now I talk really fast and sometimes slur my words.

Recently I have decided in order to excel in the career that I want and in order to associate more effectively in life, I need to change various aspects in my life. These are the things I am currently working on:

1. Talk slow, clear and PRONUNCIATE
2. Maintain an overall lower energy level (I have ADHD and do not take meds/very energetic)
3. Start making more eye contact
4. Lower tone of voice/more seductive tone

I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to change these things effectively forever? I am trying to concentrate on them everyday but it is really hard and I seem to forget a lot. I am constantly reminding myself but it is near impossible for me to consciously think about it for a decent amount of time (maybe due to the ADHD).

Any tips? Anyone else going through something similar?

practice and stick to it until it becomes a habit.

I had to work on voice, is hard, just gotta stick to it. Same with body language. Had to stick to it. Same with other pua tactics, stick to it and it will become a habit. You will do it naturally.

+1

Pua isn't all about high energy levels and talking a lot.

For example, if you rock up to a depressed girl with high energy levels and talk a lot about yourself, you probably won't get too far.

Body language can probably demonstrate more attractive features, than verbal language. Eye contact is a must, great of building sexual tension, plus its more polite as opposed to letting your eyes wander, for both pick up and day to day life.

You'll get everything to stick eventuatlly.

your not alone, i have ADHD or i think i do. i am always jumpy too much energy lol and talk really fast which is not clear to most people.