Ok so I text a HB6, I'm new to PU so thought this was a decent standard to start at. The text convo started because I left my phone unattended and my friend text her saying 'Hi fancy a three some'... Reply was cold, so we'll pick up from there

Me: Never leave your phone unattended around jokers!
HB6: haha idiot x
Me: Haha! Still with the boy?
HB6: Never had one lol x
Me: I agree, casual sex is best
HB6: Your right! Still with the boyf?
Me: Boyf? Cant say I swing that way, you should know that
HB6: haha I meant girlf!x
Me: How do you know about my relationship status? You FB stalking me? Dont worry its cool, I get a lot of weird girls stalking me
HB6: Ok babe (I know her and I can imagine just how shes saying this, cold .. very cold)

So what do I reply? Im new to this and its thrown me off big time!

DFM

you could reply back:

"But a awesome girl like you checking me out on facebook is always a plus."

You just pushed, now is time to pull.

From what I've noticed lesser looking girls don't like being pushed hard like that. You need to do a lot of pulling especially if she thinks you have a lot more value than her and can get better looking girls. Play it cool and just re-initiate in 3 days or so by telling her of something you're doing.

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I don't even need directions from you, but I'm gonna get an erection from you.

If "casual sex is best", why do you have a girlfriend? And are you just trying to get a couple of girls on the hook before you dump her, or are you planning to just keep her around and cheat on her? Either way, not cool... but whatever you wanna do man. It's gonna bite you on the ass bigtime in the long run though.

Also, chatting up girls you don't really find that attractive cos you're "just starting out" is a completely backwards idea. I know you're thinking it won't matter if she rejects you cos you don't like her that much, but that's weak sauce... it'll actually be worse if she rejects you, cos then you'll be thinking you can't even get average girls and it'll fuck your head up. And if you do get her, well... you're not really feeling it, so what was the point? I don't understand guys who think like that. Go for gold, man. You'd be surprised how well the girls you really like respond to you, you actually take a lot more shit from the not-so-nice ones.

Last thing I'll say is this... bragging to her about all the girls you have stalking you on FB isn't a good move either, in my opinion. There is a right and a wrong way to do that kinda thing, though to be honest I'm not sure how to take the way you worded it... which isn't good... doesn't look like she took it well, so yeah. You're most likely pegged as the guy with a girlfriend who's a bit full of himself and trying to get her to hook up. If that's her thing, happy days... but if not, it's not gonna happen with her. Personally I'd just leave my cards on the table with this chick and move along, if she's into you then you'll be hearing from her. You can push it if you want though, but since you're not that into her I wouldn't bother pushing for the yay or nay. Go find some girls you're properly attracted to eh?

I dont have a girlfriend, I just didnt feel the need to answer seriously.

As for the rest of the post, your right, going for a girl im not even into is a dumb ass idea. Thanks for the honesty and advice, I appreciate it.

DFM

Ah, I gotcha. She probably took it seriously lol, then again she might just facebook stalk ya and see that you're actually single. At any rate, go after some girls you really like instead. That way you'll be more comfortable going after the ones you want and it'll all feel a lot more natural and easy, as opposed to moving up the ladder one hotness rung at a time lol. You'll thank yourself