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He basically tells you to be forceful until she tells you no, but not too forceful because that's rape. If you're skating that close to the edge it's easy to cross a line. A guy can get carried away or maybe the chick is a little nuts, and you're in deep trouble. You might get laid but it's hard to imagine a woman coming out of this experience feeling positive.
He never said forceful, he says sexual. You are adding the forceful nature to his teaching because you cannot imagine that a woman might like a guy to escalate sexually. He explicitly says to never force yourself upon a woman, and differentiate between what he is suggesting and rape. Re-read what he wrote, and what you quoted him on. He is basically saying, take a chance and make your move, she will either enjoy it or reject you. Live in the moment.
He never says to over power a woman or move directly to sex. Hell he talks about french kissing and 30 minutes of foreplay; then adds to back off if the girl is not ready for sex and go back to kissing. What part of this is rape?
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Use persistence not force, and you'll be ok.
He is basically say that women aren't an on and off switch when it comes to sex, they are a dimmer and need to be revved up slowly. Just because she isn't ready for sex right away, doesn't mean she won't be ready for sex after 30-45 of foreplay. So he's saying, don't just give up right away if she's not ready. Try some more foreplay, revve her up a little, and see if she's more into it later. But he definitely warns not to be forceful or do anything that she's uncomfortable with.
Other than using the catchphrase "make the ho say no", where does he imply to act in any violent or forceful way? Where does he say to act rude or controlling? Where does he say to overpower a woman or molest her? Where is the negative feelings you referred to?
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I don't think you can separate a man's mental state from his philosophy on women, especially when he shoots one in the face.
I would agree with you if we knew more about this terrible incident. The fact that he shot a woman, might have nothing to do with his philosophy on women. More than likely the crime was specific to the victim, not an expression of general hatred toward women. And anger management issues may be completely unrelated to his sexual behaviors. His crime was not sexual in nature, so it's hard to judge his philosophy on women based solely on this crime.