Hey Everyone,

I recently went clubbing with some mates. I saw a two set of girls and so I thought I might as well try and talk to them for a bit and get their numbers, which I did in like 30 secs or so.

But the problem now that I have is, trying to get, in particular, the fitter one of the group to just solely hang out with me and go to the park for a walk or have a coffee instead of going clubbing, where she'll be hit on my other blokes as well.

So far, the conversation through texting has gone like this:

Hey, It's Vay, how u doing? Last night was fun btw, but sorry that I had to leave early though. So when you next out? x

Then she replied:

Friday, you?x

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Now what do you think I should text her next in order to set up an instant date with her and I, because she is really, really fit, I'd say a HB 8/9, and making this work in terms of an instant date and a kiss close would be a dream come true.

Any Help Would Be Very Appreciated

Cheers

Vay

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Insta Date is a date you set up the same day or night you meet the group. Is when you bounce her to a different location.


Your thinking of day 2. In your case, 30 second is way to quick. Is easy to set up during comfort building and finding out more about her. Is call time bridging.

But she is still responding to your text so is good. I would just go and hang out with her at the club.

hey dude.

Ok, good you got her number, that means she is in some way interested. That is the good part. But shame on you on the texting .

Lets me try and get you out of your thinking box: you walk in and start talking with two girls. After 30 seconds (can you believe this guy?) you already get a number, which is good, because you go after what you want.

Then you pussy out. You want to meet this girl, alone, just the who of you, but instead of asking if she is available to do something, you ask: when is your next time out? This is a nice start of a walk.... around the bushes.

So you present yourself as a confident guy but when u got your number, all of a sudden you this confidence?

So friday she is out again. You can either go with her or not. I would suggest to go in there, talk to her, make fun! Then, tell her you wanna do something together, lets say next thursday or whatever day you are available.

Now more general: I think you did good with the number. I used to be like that as well, and it felt great too!! But as it is today, i would do it a bit different. You got the balls to approach a set, so next time, when u approach, instead of asking for numbers in 30 seconds, go talk, have a bit fun then ask the one you want to do something together in the near future, like next thursday ( i like thursdays). then exchange numbers, just in case something goes wrong, but you only text when it goes wrong.

Dont lose your balls in the middle of the process.

Still, nice work amigo!

cheers

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agreed 30 secs is way to quick you need to spend more time building up some sort of bond. remember girls get hit on by heaps of guys in a night and you need to be the one that stood out.

i met this one girl out the front of a nightclub she tripped over so i through out a funny line to her. spent 2mins talking to her, didnt even know her name til she put her number in my phone... sent her a msg the next day and she said which guy is this? apparently she had given her number out to 10 guys that night. i played along to find out which one she would remember and it happened to be me