You are asking for tips???? Isnt that what your jakal is there for?

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FR Friday the 17th of June 2011

So lets begin, the night began as usual,I met up with Jackal and waited for the rest f the crew to come, I was really pleased to hear from jackal there there would be a new recruit coming today, so I had to put my A game on and start immediately with a bang, after meeting with Ice cream, I immediacy approached sets, I knew that people are trying to get home from work and are at time no mood to communicate withe others, but ehh, I gave it a shot.

There was a one set I approached and this set involved with me being lost, using the wait aren't you famous routine, and opinions. Her we go.

Me: excuse me do yu know where the nearest Starbucks is from here ( I was at the jam house )

Her: erm, it's pretty far from her, bu if you just walk down here, take a left and keep on walking you'll be in town, there people can help you.

Me: ah ok that's great, it's just that my friend told me to meet him first at the jam house and now after getting here he's changed the meeting point to Starbucks, and since I struggled to find this place, lol I now have to find starbucks lol.

Her: ah ok, it's not too far from here you'll have no trouble finding your way into town.

Me: cool, well since I've got to here can I ask your opinion on something,

Her: errrr, sure

Me: well the reason why my friend had called me over is because his girlfriend had found pictures of his ex on his phone and he wanted my advice, I've been trying to think about what to tell him, but I think it would be better if I had a women's opinion on this.

Her: ok, well how old is the ex

Me: I don't know

Her: well just tell him to asked her why was she going turlough her phone

Me: ah ok I think I can work on that

Just as I was talking Ice Cream came in to DHV me, he started to say that wait you're that guy from that Indian movie, I started acting shy and bashfull, to look embarrassed, she immediately commented,

Her: is there a camera here, are you playing a game

Me: no, no

I tended to ice cream and signed an autograph, I knew that she was locked in, it was raining at the time so I pulled her under a tree,

Her: what was that?

Me: nothing much, I was in a Indian movie a while back as an extra,

Her: ah ok

Me: I was the guy tending to a hot dog stand

She started to laugh when I said that, so I said to her,

Me: do I look like the kind of guy who works in a hot dog stand

Her: (laughing) I don't know maybe, hmmmmmm, no

I knew that she was coming back from work and so I asked her about what she did, and I knew that she was locked in as she didn't try and leave, so I decided to close this set.

Me: well, I stopped you because you had a really good energy about,

Her: (giggling)

Me: ive got to head off and meet my friend now, you know what I liked talking with you so why don't you put your number in my phone and we will talk another time.

I handed my phone to her, she did a 360 just to make sure that she wasn't being filmed and then proceeded in typing her digits into my phone.

It had only been 30 mins and I had a number close, after meeting up with diamonds we headed off into town where we would meet Leonidas, from there I started to approach sets and really didn't have much success with them on new street and outside the bullring, but eh it's a learning curve that needed to be destroyed. in reality I didnt have much street game success today, so I'll move on to the next part of the night.

Night game/club game.

I had been out the night before at Rocco so we decided to start there, I walked in and started to gauge the place as the night was still young and wasn't at it's peak we decided to just dance it out on the dance floor, and wit till the cores came in.

I had seen that just simple eye contact can start to initiate simple IOI but ididnt have much success on the dance floor, my success for the night came outside in the smoking area.

Me and Leonidas sat outside and then two lovely ladies sat on our table, I started to approach one of the ladies.

Me: I like your lip peircing

Her: thank you I'm a bit naughty that way

Instantly I felt that this conversation was going in a seamlessly good direction,

Me: well that's good cause I like naughty girls

She started to flick her hair, wouldn't break eye contact with me even when her friend was caressing her thigh. She then leaned in close to me where our faces met.

Her: what's your name?

Me: my name is XXXXX

Her: how old are you?

Me: I'm XX

She wouldn't break eye contact and she didn't want to let me go, bu I wanted to or wove to her that I wasn't an easy guy, so I forcefully ejected out of the set and asked Leonidas that we're going back inside, the as I was going back in, she stopped me and gave me a fucking deep kiss, I gave her a wink and told her, I'd she her again. I was back on the dance floor where I waited to she if she would come so I could kino escalate, but i didn't spot here, I only saw her friends, so I went outside to get a bit of fresh air, and I saw that she went ouside of the club back on to the main road, so hence she couldn't get back in, the bouncers wouldnt let her back in. I took this as my chance to see if I could close the woman, the moment I went outside hpshe recognized me and she grabbed my arm and wouldn't let go, she argued for a bit about why the bouncers were counts and that she only came out for a cigarete. I stopped her and started to kiss her.

Me: so what do you want to do now?

Her: these fucking cunts won't let me back in

Me: well why did you come out

Her: I just wanted to have a smoke

I wanted her to forget about that so I diverted the topic. We started to alk about what to do now, and went from there, after speaking with here I found out that she was from Canada and that she was staying at the Novotel Hotel, so I tried to f-close her, by kino escalation, grabbing gher ass she grabbed mine I squeezed hers and she pushed her hand on dick. I was in the fucking mood, but her friends found her and killed the mood, she didnt want to leave me and her friends had to pull her away from me. But ihad stayed out with her for about 20 mins, and Leonidas gave me some good advice, that we aren't in the business of babysitting, that's not we're here for, we are her to have fun. I agreed with this fact, that these mints are not about looking after girls, it's the other way around, we have to make the girls look after us .

So I left with a positive attitude, we then hit gate crasher and stayed there for a bit, I was still learning club game so I was mostly observing to see if any of the theories I had come up with were viable.

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Field report 25 June 2011

I started the evening off with a lot of negative energy and fearing that I wouldn't get results but it seems rejection wakes me up, it gets me going. After a few rejections I had decided that if I didnt get results I would stay behind and so some club game on my own although this didnt happen as I did get results.

I got 6 number closes and I had given my number to one set as she had said to me to give my number to her instead. so 7-ish but I dont think anything will come of it. I think about 3 of them were solid. The Jackal told me that I should never let them take my number as it's not very alpha male, oh well. This time I know it's 6 as I tested all of em.

First successful set I did worked at a place I worked at before so we made small talk on how shit it was, tried to get some tension with the little silences (I okay with these now where as before I couldn't take it). So I asked for her number. She didn't ask why she just gave it to me, I tested the phone number and as I was testing it I said “if this is fake Ima beat you down”, I think Ill use that more often. We hugged and I moved on.

The Jackal had told me to use two new routines that I kept forgetting when I was in set and each time I had finished a set I kept FORGETTING AHHH.

He also kept reminding me to to introduce myself first but I kept forgetting about that too, I kept just going straight in with an opinion. As the night went on I started introducing my self first then start the conversation. I'm also saying more alpha male things like “you girls are so fucking cute” although I say if like “cos I think you girls are so fucking... (pause and look them up and down) *insert nice word here*” to make it sound more like I've just made it up.

I also kept forgetting to voice record my sets although I did record one of the ones that gave me her number but I don't think I performed well so I won't post it. The rest of the “team” can have a listen if they would like! Listening to it now I think I talk too fast in set because I'm nervous. In this one especially my words get muddled up as a result of talking to fast and at one point I don't let her finish what she was saying. Not sure why she gave me her number... maybe it's because I'm so fucking good looking haha. So yeah, we chatted about piercings for a while, I noticed that she had little holes in her lip so I asked about it. So when silence came I just said “do you wanna gimme your number?!” and she said “ALRIGHT!”.

At this point Jackal shouted "NOTTINGHAM! NOTTINGHAM! NOTTINGHAM!" the name of the simple routine he has been trying to get me to do but I'd kept genuinely forgetting to do in set.

So I said "right well nice talking to you, this is how we say bye in Nottingham"
*goes in for a kiss on the lips*
she turns her head, so I kissed her cheek.
she said "I thought you said you were from Stafford?"
me: "yeah I was born in Nottingham!" (not true)
So i walked in front of her and said "okay lets have a real hug" and hugged her and left!

The best set yesterday was a two set on there way to a club of some sort, was also a set I approached with little of Jackals say-so. I pointed towards them to say I was going to approach but he didn't actually command me to do it which was good since this seeking approval from Jackal to approach is a bit of a problem.

I opened with *snap fingers* “stop here! I need to ask you guys a quick question”
her: okay
me: *holds out hand* “Im ******”
her: *still holding her hands close to her*
me: Shake my hand!
her: *shakes my hand*
me: I come from ***** and Im a *******
them: *introduce themselves with their names*
me: so yeah my question is who laughs more men or women?
them: women! I think women laugh more but men are funny, they make us laugh
me: this is true... Im not into female comedians but... what's that show? On channel 4 called ***** or ***** or is it ******
her: ohhh yeah we know what youre on about we watch that show
me: really! Its really rare that you find girls that actually watch comedy
them: *nod their heads in agreement *
me: yeah as I was saying theres a black girl on there that makes me laugh all the time and she like only female comedian that's actually funny to me
them: *talks about some female comedian that Id never heard of*
me: Ive never heard of her...
them: omgomgomgomg never heard of her blah blah
me: haha okay I might look her up one time if you say shes worth my time
them: mhm she is
me: well I think my favourite new comedian at the moment is *******, hes good at improvisation
them: *nodded in agreement* yeah
me: so yeah are you guys out tonight?
them: yeah were going out now
me: where you going?
her: guess
me: *****
girl: *nods* yeah!
me: oh wait have you just got your hair cut?
her: yeah!
me: ah looks... alright.
them: *laugh with open mouths*
me: well ive never actually been there but ive been told its where I need to be
her: yeah we like it
me: ah im not going out tonight but are you girls out next Friday?
them: yeah maybe could do
me: hmmm well gimme your numbers and we can meet up next friday at ****
them: looks at each other wide eyed
me: okay ill make it easy for you ill take out my phone *takes out phone* and ill let you put the number in
her: took the phone and put her number in
me: im holding you guys to that
her: we will be there!

I sense theyre moving away slowly to end the interaction

me: wait! Hey I need your number too! (HB8 who did less of the talking) Think youre just going to walk away...
me: gives phone and she puts her number in. right well nice talking to you *hugs both*

jackal came in at this point and said a few things, and then challenged her to pick me up she attempted and couldnt, then he challenged me to pick her up and I shook my head and said “nah shes too heavy look shes HUGE”. (She wasn't at all)
so they did their little fake -omg cant believe you said that were going now- thing that girls do. So I randomly went and hugged her again and she hugged me back and we rolled off.

This girl texted me that same night.

I'll finish with one more set. A five set. I approached and did the snapping finger thing and asked if I could ask them a quick question.
I let my hand out to shake all their hands and as I was doing this I was saying where I was from etc.
As I got to girl3 one of them said something like “girl you look as if he was going to bite your hand off or something!”
me: *laughs hysterically* rght so... who laughs more men or women?
Them: *gave their opinions*

All through the interaction they all kept saying how weird it was that I approached them and I kept saying things like “as if... you guys get spoken to all the time!”
them: *shake their heads*
me: you guys look as if youre in shock!
Girl: im nervous this hasnt happened before
me: omg how can you be nervous, I'm one guy and there is four of you, you could all take me!
Actually... probably not
girl: *shakes head*

So I tried to rinse out whatever conversation I could get out of these frozen-like-a-hare-stuck-in-headlights-of-a-truck girls, but silence came and I just said “soo... gimme your numbers!”

Well, now thinking about it, not all of them were like this. One of them had the widest smile on her face throughout the interaction and I told her this in set as well. Another black girl in the set (quite manly and witty too) kept putting in funny remarks into the conversation.

They never said no to the numbers and I'm not sure if this was going well or not. I took out my phone and said I'd make it easy for them all and held out my phone. They all seemed like they didnt want to take it in fear of negative evaluation from the girls they were with. I decided to just take her hand and put my phone in it. She looked at her friend and said “you first”. Her friend put her number in and as I was going to get the other ones number but one of them started walking away. I attempted to get them to stay but I couldn't and they reluctantly walked off. So I think that could have been three numbers if I played it right but I only got one.

Overall it was a good time!


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Any POSITIVE feedback for my growing self esteem would be good!

A clip of me saying some things on my first day sarging with The Jackal:
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Hey volcano, I would like to listen to your set that you recorded. They don't have to be good ones to be uploaded. I talk fast aswell and I want to see if I can relate to you. Thanks

Field Report: 24th June 2011

Today it was just me and Jackal sarging and we were both late. Jackal was late due to teaching dating tips to women and I was late due to seeing some friends who I haven’t seen in a while. For some reason, tonight I was feeling really low and wasn’t in the mood for sarging. The temptation to flake and go home was strong but I knew I couldn’t run away from my problems all the time so decided to fight this through to the end.

Jackal could tell I wasn’t feeling very confident so took it a bit easier on me tonight which I appreciate. My first set was a one set that was probably rushing home trying to get out of the rain. I tried to approach with the who laughs more opener but I didn’t even manage to stop her. This put my mood down even further. I couldn’t understand why I almost had no approach anxiety the week before yet had so much anxiety this week.

Jackal and I sat down in café rouge just to get out of the rain and told me to approach a two set by the window. I opened with who lies more and it turned out they were really friendly. I forgot to introduce myself but it was no problem because they introduced themselves to me anyway. Jackal came in to DHV me and joined in the conversation. I finally got to see him in action and he was controlling the conversation really well and made it sexual quite quickly, something that I had a lot of trouble doing. Jackal went out for a phone call and one of the girls joked that he was calling his girlfriend. Jackal later told me that it was an IOI because she assumed he was pre-selected. Two of the girls’ friends came to make it a four set so I tried to quickly number close before they joined in the conversation and before I ran out of stuff to say. Unfortunately they said they had boyfriends, so I left and joined Jackal outside.

We walked into the Slug and Lettuce where Jackal spotted a two set for me to approach. My approach anxiety through the roof, but with a bit of pushing from Jackal I opened the set. They were really quiet and didn’t seem particularly interested so I ejected fairly quickly. I approached a few more sets with no success so we took a breather outside where I approached another two set having a smoke. These two were a lot older than me but were really friendly. I found out that the more attractive one studied the same subject as me (accounting) so I was able to relate. They both ejected with “its nice meeting you” and went back into the Slug and Lettuce.

Jackal and I then walked towards Broad Street where a two set were running towards us to the clubs to try and get out of the rain. I opened with “you are gorgeous” to the girl running ahead where I got thanks in reply but still couldn’t stop her. I find that I still have trouble stopping moving sets. I might try walking directly in front of them next time so they can’t walk past me.

Off we walked towards the mailbox where Jackal tried to get my mood up by making me sing. Jackal has a very creative way of teaching and this helped boost up my mood slightly. Upon arriving, we went into the pub and Jackal had me approach one three set and a two set. The three set weren’t very interested at all and didn’t particularly open so I left quite quickly. However, Jackal pushed me to go and ask for all their numbers which made all three of them laugh, but no numbers. The two set were slightly more interested but still didn’t contribute to the conversation so I left the set. Then Jackal told me to go back and ask for numbers again so I did and the answer was “we don’t have our phones”. I opened mixed set which was surprisingly easy and definitely something I will try in the future.

Overall tonight I didn’t get any numbers and was a bit disappointed that I let my mood affect me so much. However, I’m proud that I plowed on with the sets that Jackal gave me and I appreciate his help and especially his patience.


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Hey Man,

Enjoyed reading your report I´m proud that you carried on and pushed forward. It takes alot to really push down some heavy barriers. But for you it was just "one of those days" I think. I have those days too. You will get successful though, just stick with everything. One thing that I have found works is to not aim for numbers but to just have fun with everythin. Just let things flow and they will fall together.

That being said, it was great when I was out with you, you are a positive guy and very confident despite your very young age. I´m looking forward to meeting you again this Friday!

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just wondering, i am yet to hit 18 yet (will do in November), but I am wondering if you guys would ride with a young guy and teach me some of the tricks of the trade. At the moment im quite new to PUA, I have approached around 6 times since i found PUA, and 5 times I have been successful with number closes, and 1 of them I actually ended up with a girlfriend from it (my current girlfriend). My game is pretty solid at the moment albeit loosely based on the techniques of PUA, but I would like to perfect my game
I live in Birmingham, and just want to know what you guys think? Also do you think you will still be sarging in Birmingham round November time?
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Field Report Friday 1st July 2011:

To summarise tonight’s performance I managed to acquire four numbers, two of which I know are solid because I have phoned/texted them and received positive responses. The fourth I have not called yet… So, to the night

I was feeling positive walking down to Jackal, the sun was shining and the weather was fine which made me feel that whatever would happen, a great, fun-filled night lay ahead. When I arrived at the Jam House Jackal was already there waiting for me, I could tell he was brooding on some sinister plot or mission for me to perform tonight because he was looking at me in “that” way which seems to make my knees shudder somewhat. I was right.

“Hey Jackal.”

“You, sir! Mr Diamonds!” he said in his usual eccentric voice, “…are going to perform the Nottingham routine tonight!”

“Ah, ok.” Hopefully, whatever this idea would be, I was hoping it would not be too dramatic.

After this brief introduction he explained to me his new idea for getting a more solid number close and kiss-close which he called “the Nottingham Routine”. I liked it. I would attempt it. As he was talking however, I noticed that Jackal’s eyes began darting around behind me. I prepared myself. I knew what was coming.

“Go get that fucking set right now! Go, go,go!” I turned. He pushed me and ran hazardously across the road to the other side of the street to get this set that had suddenly appeared.

“Hey guys stop! Stop a second!” I commanded after I had ran up from behind and over-taken them. They were 8.5s. They looked at me puzzled as I jumped out in front of them. I looked back at them into their eyes. I made sure I paused, I wanted them to hang on my words. I continued…

“Me and my friend were walking along the street and I saw you two and I thought that I just had to come and talk to you because you are both so fucking gorgeous!” They looked at be bewildered before laughing but before they could respond I jumped straight in with:

“Let’s introduce ourselves…Hi, my name’s Diamonds, I come from Nottingham and I study German!”

“Awww, omg what’s happening to us?!” My target laughed as she put her hand on my lower arm.

“Sorry, maybe I’m going a bit fast. Basically the deal is this: I saw two sexy girls that I wanted to talk to, I came and talked to them and here we are!”

“Are we on TV?” Why the hell do I get this reaction so often? “I swear we must be on TV!”

“No you’re not, look I just introduced myself are you two going to do the same?” They both looked at each other and giggled.

“I am Sammy.” Said my target.

“And I am Bryanna” (however it’s spelt!) Replied her friend.

“What are you doing tonight? Where are you going?” Sammy asked before I could even continue! My target was doing my work for me.

“What are you? A clairvoyant? I was about to say the exact same thing!” It was time to try a new idea that Jackal had told me to run and to get them to cold read me. “You know what, I can tell a lot about people, like I can tell you are the leader and the bad one who needs her friends to calm her down when she gets too rowdy!”

“Omg I am not!” she protested as she grabbed and squeezed my arm.

“You are so right!” her friend supported. “I always have to stop her doing crazy things!” I paused a second and looked directly into Sammy’s eyes. She reciprocated. I stepped closer to her.

“Now…” I continued as I carried on looking into her eyes. “You tell me what you think of me. What do my eyes tell you?” She looked into my eyes for a few seconds and time seemed to drag. We said nothing; the tension suddenly rose to a crazy level! She cracked…

“That you should come with us.” She said.

“Wow that was disappointing!” I feigned disappointment.

“Hey!” She said as she took her hand from my arm before slapping it.

“Ok guys, my time is short, my friend is over there waiting for me.” I pointed to Jackal. “But before I go…” I took out my phone. “…give me your number.” They both looked at each other shocked.

“Omg, I swear, I don’t have a phone at the moment! Mine broke.”

“You can say no, it wont hurt my feelings, just don’t lie to me.” I said as my eyes penetrated hers. I felt supremely confident.

“No I swear, that’s why you should come with us!”

“I can’t we’re very busy.”

“Ok, take Bryanna´s. We’ll be at Scrumpy Jacks all night. Come and see us if you have time!”

I felt that she was sincere. Her friend supported Sammy’s assertion. She too sounded sincere.

“Ok Bryanna, give me your number…” she did.

After a quick hug I let them go. For a warm-up set this had gone remarkably well. I was very pleased.

After a few more minutes at the Jam House we began walking up towards the Paradise Forum and into Wetherspoons to do a few more street-sets. When we arrived and got ourselves some soda-water we headed to the outside area of Wetherspoons where I would begin to do street-sets but before I could open anyone in the crowded location, out of nowhere a fight between a white and black guy erupted just in front of the main doors leading into the Paradise Forum. Everyone watched as blows were suddenly exchanged. Jackal, however, decided to get involved. I couldn’t believe what he was doing because both of these guys were huge.

“Stop fighting!” He shouted to them. I saw everyone’s´ heads turn to look at Jackal. He sounded really intimidating. He walked up to them with his hands stretched out forward in front of him.

“Stop fighting!” He repeated as he got in between them. He pushed the white guy firmly back before turning to push the black guy back. His voice lowered and he spoke quietly to both in turn and persuaded them to stop fighting. I was impressed. Out of all the people there he was the only one to do anything. As he walked back he looked at me and asked.

“Where’s my drink gone?”

“I don’t know.”

“He goes to stop a fight and someone takes his drink!” I heard a girl at a table next to us say.

I would later find out from a failed set that the white guy was being an arse-hole and spitting at people as they entered the Paradise Forum and the black guy had responded to this provocation. I also learnt that Jackal had really social proofed himself by getting involved because as soon as I pointed to Jackal as being my friend my set said “OMG that’s the guy who stopped the fight! Tell him to come over here!”

After another failed street set the night just got better with the arrival of Ice Man, our newest member who I really enjoy sarging with. He always has a fresh and positive attitude. I thank him for coming out and really helping to support me!

My second number close was really enjoyable as well as yielding some very positive responses! I feel so proud of myself for this close and how it went. As we were walking past a memorial leading towards the Symphony hall we spotted a five-set with a hot Asian (Indian/Pakistani origin) girl and a couple of hot blondes walking towards us. Jackal didn’t need to tell me move into this set!

I launched myself in front of them “Hey, guys! Stop a second!” They looked at me and spoke to me, I can’t remember exactly what they said but they carried on walking. I planted my feet. I would not follow I would cement myself to the ground. I couldn’t seem to lock-in properly but they were hot so I tried to carry on. “You guys are so fucking gorgeous I could not let you walk by without talking to you!” They laughed and stopped walking but I hadn’t projected my voice enough. I held my ground. I was hoping to hold them. I remembered what Jackal taught me about locking-in. “Don’t fucking move! Don’t give them permission to walk. Be solid like concrete!” I was holding them, but I was flustering on what to say so they began to walk and I lost them. I could here them laughing and giggling at the interaction they just had.

“Sorry man, I couldn’t lock-in. I lost them”

“Did you get a number close?”

“No. I couldn’t even lock them in.”

“FFS Diamonds! Go back and do it properly, this time ask for the fucking number! Remember: Flu Injection!”

“Ok.” I’m used to this now. I so often go back into failed sets. We were now behind these girls so I had to run up from behind and pounce in front of them again.

“OMG guys wait! Listen.” I said as I jogged in front of them and planted myself directly in their path. Technically this shouldn’t work should it? So why does it?!

“We were just talking about you! You are so confident!” Said the Asian girl. I looked at each of the group members and said:

“Yea, well. I’m not going to waste my time by stopping you and letting you get away without saying again that you are fucking gorgeous and you (pointing to the Asian) need to give me your number!” I said loudly with the broadest smile I could create. I wanted this to work.

They all laughed. I had them locked in. They created a semi-circle around me. I felt so good being surrounded by all these hot girls.

“Go on Pria! Give it to him!” Her friends egged on with an attitude filled with fun. My smile broadened even more.

“But I don’t even know you!”

“Ok I’ll make this easy for you. Let’s introduce ourselves. Hi, my name is Peter and I come from Nottingham and I study German.” They all followed suit and I shook each girls hand as they told me their names.

“What on earth are five sexy girls doing out here tonight then?”

“We’re out for Pria´s birthday!” This would be a perfect opportunity to DHV myself by passing judgment on them for this. (I remembered reading that passing judgement on someone establishes you as an authority in their reality.)

“Wow, you guys all came out for her birthday!? You guys are really cool! I think that’s great!” I then gave them each a high five in turn but negged my target for her weak high-five. This set was going so well. I carried on the conversation with general chit chat. I was in a zone and forgot to use routines and to specifically DHV myself. I am proud of this since I am trying more and more to re-balance myself from using specific routines and just flow like a natural. (I was also using a lot of kino) One routine I did try however (given that it was a mission from Jackal) was to cold read them then get them to cold read me. It worked like a treat. (Thanks man.) After about 5 more minutes of conversation Jackal came into set holding an apple.

“Mr Diamonds Fucking Montana! Here have an apple; it will make you look fucking cool in front of these girls!”

I laughed. The girls laughed. “Ok!” I took the apple and stood there casually eating it while I spoke to the girls and entertained them. I know I am still far from being one, but I felt like a PUA.

“OK now, ladies. I have to go now; me and my friends are heading up to Brindley place…”

“Brindley Place is shit!” Pria interjected. “We’re going to Chameleon Bar!”

“Wow you are rude aren’t you? But it´s ok you’re cute!” I responded. Her mouth fell open. I don’t think they are used to negs at all. “Listen…” I continued. “I will ask again. Give me your number!”

“Go on!” Her friends again persuaded.

“OMG ok!” She took out her phone and gave me her number.

“Ok now, I am going to ring that number ok…and if it’s a bullshit number I’m going to be mad.” I said as I turned my body towards her slightly and placed my hand on her hip.

“It’s real I promise!” she urged.

“Get your phone out…” She complied. I called. It was genuine. To be honest I wasn’t sure how solid the number was but any doubt would be dispelled in thirty minutes when I received a text from Pria saying:

“PETE! Where´s our apple?! Pria, Francessa, and laura.” To which I responded…

“Omg don´t be such gold diggers! I knew you were bad news! Lol” I find it prudent to always cover my arse with “lol” in texts which are someone ambiguous. Her response was…

“Born bad news baby! What you gonna to do about it?” To which I responded…

Hereafter the conversation gets a bit much to be shared on a public forum. But it is going well. I don’t really like texting, I’d rather call the girl but this was all for practice. I will need to arrange a date for next week.

My third number-close was taken in a bar. To be honest we rarely do bar game anymore. The vast majority of the time we are busy cruising for sets in day and street game. I think I am starting to prefer it. For this reason I was glad to get some positive results there from. I remained mindful that telling a girl she’s “fucking gorgeous” right off the bat in a bar environment may not be the best strategy. So all the sets I opened in the bar were indirect opinion openers. I would tell the girls that they were “fucking gorgeous” or “sexy” only after conversing for a few minutes. I am glad we practiced some more bar game because it yielded for me the most solid number close of the night as I shall explain later.

It was past 9:30 pm and there were now three of us; Volcano had come late specifically to do some club game later on in the evening. I was pleased to know that Ice Man would be my wingman whilst inside this bar and he performed a sterling job. In terms of his own ability, I can see that he is really improving. He is getting more positive results as well as possessing a bit more confidence. Each time he comes out with us he is improving. It is really great to see and I am proud of his achievements so far!

“Ok man, I’m going into that set over there in the corner.” I´d spotted two 10s and I wanted a number!

“Ok, what do you want me to do?” Ice Man asked.

“Give me one minute, then come in and DHV me. Then I’ll close up.”

“Ok.” He replied. I was feeling really confident. I wanted another number. I headed towards the table at an angle I wanted it to look like I was headed towards the toilets and would “just happen” to stop and notice these girls as I pass.

“Hey guys!” I said as I body rocked in the direction of the toilets. “You know what; I need to ask you a question. Don’t worry I need to go soon.” I shouted above the music. The table was like a round sofa set into the wall so I circled round and sat down right next to my target so that she was now in between me and her friend. She didn’t respond negatively at all to me sitting down. This was because of my body rocking, FTC and huge smile.

“Ok guys me and my friends have been arguing all night about who lies more, whether it’s men or women and I said that I bet girls will say that women lie more!”

“Yea that’s true!” my target’s friend agreed.

“Omg my friends did not believe that a girl would say that! Give me a high five!” I negged her for having a weak high five. I love this high-five gag for some reason. “What about you?” I asked my target.

“Yea I agree.” She was a bit quieter than her friend; she seemed polite, friendly and sweet. Thank god she was also a 10!

“Hey that’s great! I’m so glad you agree! It’s like what I was saying: When a guy lies it’s like: Yea darling I’m taking out the rubbish, but when a woman lies it’s, yea…the baby’s yours.” They laughed. I continued…

“You know, I’m glad you agree with me, in fact I think you are the coolest people I’ve met in the last five minutes!” They laughed, this was going so well. They were being so responsive to me. Jackal later told me this was because of my positive energy and confidence that was radiating from me at the time. I was again in that zone which allows me to succeed with girls. I felt a new feeling, I felt like I was the prize, they were lucky to be talking to me. I don’t mean this in a narcissistic or egotistical manor; only that, at this time I had a healthy love for myself which to be honest I had never truly felt before.

“Hey let’s introduce ourselves. Hi my name is Diamonds and I come from Nottingham and study German and Linguistics!” They introduced themselves; they were Fiona and Helena, students at Aston University.

Moments later Ice Man came to the table. “Hey Diamonds, are these guys cool?”

“Yea man they’re cool, we’re having a great conversation. They agreed with me too that women lie more!”

“Nice, well we are all going to be outside waiting for you.”

“Ok man cheers.” As he left I made sure they knew how cool Ice Man was and in turn myself.

We carried on talking for a few minutes. I wanted to build comfort atop the attraction that I already had. The conversation was going well so I decided to go in for the number close and start talking more like a sexually confident guy. The whole time I was using kino by the way, which always helps to escalate things I find.

“Ok, I’m going to be honest now, I didn’t want to know the answer to some shitty question… the real reason I came over to you two was because you are both just so fucking sexy I wanted to talk to you before I left this bar!” I shouted as I placed my hand on my targets arm. She did not respond negatively.

“Omg!” they said looking at each other before they both turned back to me. I would be bolder than normal. So I leaned in towards my target and looked into her eyes, she didn’t lean back. I kept my hand on her arm and said with just enough volume to be heard:

“Especially you, you are exactly my type. In fact I you are the sexiest girl in here.” Although this was cheesy and probably over-used I know I said it with confidence and success because I saw her pupils dilate. (This is something Jackal told me to look out for as a sexual IOI.) As I normally do I could feel the buzz of electricity building between us so I leaned back to roll off and make her miss the intimacy of that one short moment.

“We are going now.” I said. “For this reason I will not allow you as a sexy girl to escape me. Give me your number and I will get back to you. We’ll arrange a nice date which you can look forward to all week; we’ll both dress up nice, look and feel great! I’ll take you out to a nice restaurant, we’ll have a nice meal, lots of fun, I’ll maybe flatter you some more, we can flirt and you can go red again” Another mission of mine was to get the girl to imagine vividly the next meeting so she could really have something to look forward to.

Meanwhile her friend was watching the interaction drop-jawed.

“But what is your real name. It can’t really be Diamonds?” Fiona asked.

“My name is Peter. Now tell me your phone number because I really need to shoot off.” She gave me her number so I made sure to continue with Jackal’s standard modus operandi and said:

“Ok, I will call you tomorrow at 4pm. If you do not answer I will never call again, so there is no pressure.”

“But I’m terrible with phones! What if I miss your call?!”

“Then make sure you don’t” I said. “It’s a personal rule, I never call a number twice.”

“But that’s stupid what if she genuinely misses it?” Her friend piped up.

“I’m really busy so I don’t have the time to keep calling, that’s the thing.”

“Text me instead please! Text me I promise I’ll get back to you.” Fiona said in an asking way.

“Ok but same rules apply, if you don’t reply, I am not going to text you again. Ok?”

“Ok, I’ll reply.”

It is Sunday now and I have since messaged her a few times and received good responses. With her asking for my facebook details also (I don’t have facebook). We’re kind of in the middle of arranging a date now, so hopefully it will all come together.

Ok so finally on to my last number close, it feels like I have had to write so much! This last one-set I found in the street has to be one of my best, given that I was hurled a long line of shit-tests alongside some really positive IOIs.

As we were walking through the main square towards the Paradise Forum from the Mailbox Jackal ordered Ice Man to go and approach a one-set that was walking towards us. She was really hot, easily a 9 in my opinion. For this reason I was impressed that Ice Man ran right into set without an ounce of AA. Unfortunately for him however he could not lock in given that she was in a rush. To this Jackal commanded:

“Get that set right now Diamonds!” I was still on an overall high so instantly re-engaged the set. She turned slight after hearing me running from behind.

“Hey wait, stop a second!” I said slightly breathlessly.

“Oh no what?” She moaned slightly.

“I saw that you spoke to my friend and that you didn’t stop. But you are so fucking gorgeous that I just couldn’t let you go without trying to talk to you myself!”

“Is this some kind of bet?” She said coldly, she seemed very suspicious of me.

“No this isn’t, I just really wanted to meet you, and you’re hot.”

“What and you saw me in the dark from so far away and you recognised that I was hot? Sure. Where are your friends?”

“My friends are up there they’ve left me to talk to you.” I continued; I wanted to get her name. “This conversation is going so well…”

“It is?”

“Yea it is, so let’s introduce ourselves!” We made our introductions and I found out her name was Elena and she was Russian.

“What are you doing out tonight?” I probed.

“I am just going to catch a train. So I have to go soon.” I could tell this was only a shit-test

“Don’t worry I need to go soon too. But for now let’s carry on.”

“What are you doing apart from talking to random girls trying to pick them up?”

“I’m out partying with friends and not so much picking up girls as I am just talking to people.” I feigned a flabbergasted and insulted look.

“Sure, you are just out to find a girl tonight for your one night stand.”

“I’m out to have fun.”

“Hah by flirting with me? Why would you do that?”

“You’re flirting too, only very badly, and don’t tell me you don’t like the attention.” Each time we spoke we seemed to get closer and closer. It was as though despite all her token resistance her body was giving off the opposite signals. I could feel the charge accumulating.

“I bet you do this every night, get lots of girls numbers.”

“Not particularly, although I do have a lot chasing me.”

“Oh because you must be such a cool guy and you like girls huh?”

“You said it not me.” This argument was great. Although the language was not sexual there seemed to be definite undertones in our speech and body language which cannot be conveyed in this written form. But they were there. It was really building tension.

“I don’t like many girls, I like you.” I smiled. Her head turned away slightly as though she was trying to mask some embarrassment or enjoyment from breaking the cold exterior she was trying to uphold.

“This isn’t working for you…”

“Don’t lie to me or yourself of course it is, that’s why I’m going to ask for your number in a few minutes.”

“Hah! You’re going to in a few minutes why not now?”

“I haven’t decided if you’re cool enough yet.” I was just improvising; I wanted to see how cheeky I could be without provoking a negative response. We carried on talking for a few more minutes and teasing each other. The conversation looped a little because she argued once again that I was just here picking up girls.

“Ok, you know what I need to go soon so give me your number and I’ll call you.”

“Oh look who needs to decide now, I get to decide if I allow you to have my number!”

“You can’t say that because I already decided that you were cool enough for me to ask.” She looked at me and huffed and puffed as she pretended to deliberate whether or not to give he number.

“Well I suppose I could give you my number.”

“Ok then” I said as I handed my phone to her. “Put in your contact details.” She did.

“You have so many people on your phone, OMG you have two Elanas. I am this one…”

“Ok.”

“How do you know Elana is she one of your other girls.”

“To be honest I have know idea who she is.?” I really don’t remember…

“Omg I knew you just have lots of girls that you pickup and enjoy your one night stands with!”

“No it’s not like that!” I shouldn’t have said that. I let my game slip. I was apologising to her.

“Yea and you just came to talk to me a nice Russian girl because you want a nice Russian girlfriend all of a sudden!”

“Whoa slow down, you’re taking things too quickly, we’ve only just met and you’re talking about a relationship!”

“Nooo , I’m not!”

“Well I’m not just out here looking for one night stands, just so you know!” I said sternly. All of a sudden she seemed to go into a submissive mood.

“No, no don’t worry, I believe you! I know, relax.”

“Anyway, I need to go now, so make me look cool and before I go give my a hug.”

“No!”

I leaned in to hug her…

“OUCH!! You´re treading on my toe!” She yelled. She was wearing sandals, her bare toes were exposed. Shit…what a klutz.

Either way we both left and went our own ways. It seemed a pretty successful set. Jackal told me that the fact she was constantly going on about me having other girls was an IOI. So hopefully stamping on her toe didn’t put her off too much and would serve as a memory hook point.

Saturday´s field report will be coming soon. Given that I got 6 number closes and 1 kiss close it will take some time to write. It will be ready ASAP.

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Any positive feedback or constructive criticism would be appreciated!

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My second night with Jackal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPdJzLw9 ... re=related

Meet-up and Wings:
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Hi Diamonds.

Interesting field report for sure. Good to see you have come out of your dip. Since we are all friends now (I even had a hug with Jackal last week in person), and you have asked for constructive criticism and feedback, I’ll give you some.

There is no doubt that getting some number closes and stuff is great for the confidence and all power to you. The trouble is,– at root, you seem to be more or less playing a numbers game. You should be able to get good reactions from a majority of sets. As it is ,I have never seen a crew go through so many sets, dipping out, going around a whole venue before exiting. Having spoken to a fair few people who have been involved, as observers and students, this is a very disconcerting approach – it is a pretty awkward methodology, it embarrasses the sets and it, in the words of someone else “kills a venue dead”

I am genuinely not being critical here, at all, but I think in order to improve it might be good to be honest about the realities of the approaches– once you look a problem in the face you can seek a solution.

As it happens, I was with a mate in Wetherspoons on Friday and I watched you guys open every set in there, as well as opening practically every street set that came past… It was hard to see mate, very difficult to watch. I got talking to one of the two-sets later that night and you really wouldn’t like to know what they said.


Please don’t take this the wrong way, but the matching outfits are funny, but not in a good way.

I would advise trying to move away from the ‘slash and burn’ approach, your overall success will go up and you might not have to spend the whole night chasing people down the street, you could spend it sat talking to interesting new people you have met.

Our group is around 8 strong now, different personalities, all great guys, but what has really defined the last few weeks is the fact that so few sets have been absolute non-starters, the whole thing has been very social and organic, underpinned by strong knowledge and wingmanship. There is no reason that you and the Jackal ( who I can confirm was fully decent when I met him) – couldn’t have a higher open/interaction ratio.

Again, please don’t consider this a criticism, it is meant in good spirit . But opening 50 sets and getting a few numbers and the odd kiss close puts you closer (mathematically) to the AFCS who try it on with every girl in the club and through sheer force of percentages get some good results every now and then. For all the effort, time and energy you are putting in, you have a right to hope for better.

Anyway, just an observation. And again, glad you are in better spirits.

Peace

K

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Meet-up and Wings:
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Hey Diamonds,

I was going to come over, but you seemed to run off at one point! (plus I was with a work friend). As for the rest of us, we are out twice a week minimum so I'll see you this week most likely and will be sure to say hello.

I completely take your point about improving and that is the most important thing, I only bother giving feedback at all because sometimes there is a shorter route to the same destination, and often you can weary the soul with all the twisting and turning.

As I say though, keep it up, you should be proud, but keep your ears and eyes open to the wider picture.

Field report Friday 1st July – Saturday 2nd July

Hey GoldDust! I'm glad you've shown interest in this recording but I really don't feel I want to post it. Ill record some stuff if I sarge next week!

I spent a very long time in Birmingham. About 24 hours with no sleep! I only got 4 numbers. First time I did club game in Brum and I felt quite AFC and very beta male when I walked into these clubs even though I looked pretty good this night. I got 2 little kisses. I wouldn't call them kiss closes as they were both only about 3 seconds on the lips. I had one proper kiss close with date I arranged from a number I got a week ago. (Fucking finally a date!!!!!!! ahh!)

I used very little game this night. I must have just looked really sexy haha

This is really long so I've put the juicy parts in these: ---- interesting stuff here -----

I met up with Jackal, Diamonds and Iceman at about 930 on Friday. Iceman seemed like a friendly guy and the others seemed very positive that night. I however felt quite AFC and nervous as soon as I got there. First approach started off OKAY.

---One of them wanted my dick in her mouth while the other, the one I was sat next to, wanted me gone. I remember her friend certain that I was somebody else that she knew and that I was some guy named ...Tim and that I had dyed my hair. (Maybe my doppelgänger?). I played along and said “Yeah! I've dyed my hair! How did you know?!”. She then started asking me questions like what school I went to, I made stuff up but ended up admitting that I didn't actually know them. The one I was next to asked me how old I was and before I even answered her she said that I was too young for her, then said she was kidding and that her boy friend was actually 20 and she was 24. I looked at her inquisitively and and asked “Does he have a big penis?”, she nodded. She ended up gesturing me to fuck off as if I was some insignificant fly buzzing around her face. I didn't leave, I instead told her I was actually gay. She didn't believe me and asked Iceman if I was gay. He said I was straight. That was it, shed had enough, kept telling me to leave. I eventually did. I could have just moved and sat next to the one that wanted me but I just didn't. It didn't faze me. I felt no more negative than when I first arrived. ---

We left then did same street sets. Got a number off of some Lithuanian HB5 although I wanted her HB7-8 friend she seemed harder to get. Not even Diamonds could squeeze a number outa her.

After all this (skipping a few little details like Police woman proposals) it was me and Iceman left on the scene, we wondered of ages trying to find somewhere we wanted to go. We tried a place I wanted to go to but apparently it was empty at that moment so we decided to go somewhere else. The place was huge but there weren't many people inside.

Me and Iceman went inside, we wanted to get some drinks but I had no money so I went just outside the room to get some cash out. I said to Iceman that after I get this drink, I'll approach a three set that I saw. So we came back from getting cash and these girls had already been approached. Too late. This guy was big, drunk and scary. Fuck that, and this place was dead. We left.

If we had Jackal there approaches would most definitely have been made.

We ended up at a more packed place. More lively. We went straight to the bar to get drinks and there was a 3 set that probably would have been up for a fucking orgy. I just couldn’t move. One of them took Icemans sunglasses off of him and wore them. She took her camera out and started taking pictures of her self and her friends. She asked Iceman to take some pictures of them. I really just wanted to jump into the photo but I felt so AFC I just couldn’t. One of these girls looked at me and said “Don't look at me like that I know that look!”. She smiled and I froze for a bit and sad “What look”. I wasn't loud enough and she didnt hear me. Iceman Gestured and nudged me into her as if to say “fucking do it”. But I couldn't.

I think me and Iceman need to be with someone else to extinguish our negativity. We feed off of each others negative energy and become more nervous. We eventually split up and I went to the bar as I had nothing else to do or no where to go.

-----I was leaning against the bar waiting. A girl came up next to me and her body language said “turn around now”. So I did. She was an HB 7 and smiling and smiled back. I just said “are you going to ***** tonight?” she said “maybe, convince me!” so I said “well I'm cool and youre cool so we can go to **** and be cool together!”. (Its all I could come up with). We had a bit of a conversation. I ended up buying her an aftershock shot (which I really really regret) but I ended up getting her number after lots of struggle as she was quite inaccurate at the time. As she left I said “wait wait, this is how we say good bye in ******”, I moved in for a kiss and she didn't turn away, I kissed her on the lips and tried to hold it but she pulled away and smiled and said I'm going to dance. She might have wanted me to follow her but I wasn't up for it. Dancing isn't for me when I'm sober. I did admittedly drink two beers and about five vodka shots but as Iceman can testify, I wasn't drunk. Desensitised.----

So I went for a cig a few times, spoke to a few random male groups and Iceman joined in too. This warmed me up. I went inside again and opened another male group inside by saying “sorry I'm late”. I Asked them if they “had any luck with the bitches”. They didn't. I asked them “what do you think of them?!” I pointed to a 5 set and he said “nah don't mess with them they're scum”. So as I was about to approach they walked off into the dance floor. I then looked around and saw a pair of legs and arse that I would have happily stared at the entire night. She was wearing short shorts and a white tshirt-y looking top. She was a solid 9.5. I took the .5 off because of her slutty attire (lol). I asked one guy, “what about her?” and he said “I've had her and shes shit in bed” (as if).

------I approached and her body language immediately turned towards me. I asked her an opinion on something and she had quite a long answer. Her whole body was pretty much on top of me and my hand seemed to be placed in just the right place to casually hold her arse. As she was talking to me she held my neck closer to talk into my ear. She asked if I had a -social networking site- and I just said “Just give me your number!”. She took her phone out and we exchanged numbers. She said she was going into dance but I said I needed to go somewhere and did the “Nottingham routine” and we kissed. Nothing heavy as she pulled back just like the other one. She looked back at me and went into the dance floor and I went out for a cig. I should Have followed her... or better yet, lead her into the dance floor but I just don't enjoy dancing! Especially sober. I'll have to soon enough I suppose.----

So inside the club I pretty much had a very good success rate as the two I approached I got number closes from.

I went out to my safe place – out side for a ciggy. I then went back inside to find Iceman and found him dancing on a platform with some other guys. I thumbed him up and went in to find the first girl I approached. I found her and she smiled enthusiastically. She shouted “I haven't got YOUR number!” so I gave her my number. We danced for a bit I ended up holding her from behind while dancing but I felt shut out from her group and decided to go around to talk to a little man, the only man in that group and he wasn't interested. Some guys this night were fucking hostile, especially when I went to the place that was open till 6.

I rolled off when maybe I shouldn't have.

I attempted to approach some mixed sets. Most of the males telling me to fuck off. I then just stood outside smoking by myself, the place was pretty much closed. An HB5 came up to me trying to chat me up and got really close and I played along as some ogre of a man came up to her to give her a rose. This was the second rose she received that night from him. Poor man. He ended up telling me to fuck off so I just did.

I made my way to another club. Walked straight into the smoking area and opened a single set irish girl. She had a flowery coat thing on and we swapped coats. We spoke for a while and she took pictures of me in it and we took a picture together. If I had kinod here maybe I would have came across like I was interested. This girl seemed nice. She was about 24 I think and I would definitely have fucked her. She said she had to go and said it was nice meeting me and she left. It was the last time I saw her that night.

There was an 8 sat on a chair right below me and this other Irish girl. As soon as the other one left I opened this one and she was also Irish. Conversation didn't flow, I seemed to dead and tired I think and just maybe couldn't be asked to say anything. She fucked off and I ended up having to try and make friends with random men around the club. Male and female ratio seemed about 7 to 1 and most of the girls weren't too attractive. Wait I've just remembered one of them agreeing to give me their number but my phone was off to preserve battery for the next day. Bad times.

THE DATE

-----Anyway I'll skip the boring shit. I sat in ***** for hours, then watched tennis on a big screen till 3PM when I was mean to meet this girl. Time went surprisingly fast. She was meant to be there at 2 but was an hour late.

I first got there and saw her sitting on the steps outside the station and I remember thinking wow she's actually pretty okay. I mean, I approach so many girls I hardly remembered what she looked like. An indie girl, and I like how she dresses. I like her body and she has uniquely coloured eyes (greyish blueish greenish) and for that reason I'll fuck her. I rate her a 7 purely because of her bad teeth.

So I said right off as soon as I got there “you're an hour late, I deserve sex for this”. We went walking around town trying to find **** ***** for tea. I finally found it and before going in I said “yeah we come here all the time, we're gentlemen”, she said “somehow I don't believe you”. We chatted inside, then moved outside for a ciggy. Then left and sat on some steps. I did Kino as soon as I saw her, touched her where ever I could. She seemed defensive in the beginning – maybe I should be more smooth about it next time. We walked aimlessly around town just saying different things and .. silly things, talking a lot about sex. I joked a few times about finding and ally to have sex in. We “made out” for a while so things went quite well and if I go brum next week Ill see her again. I did some Gambler style kino through out. Playfully pushing and pulling with her pockets and belt etc. She told me I was cheeky haha and at one point said I was well spoken... which is a first. I also might be seeing another girl next week who's number I got last week.-----

END DATE

Right so after she left I met up for the second sarge. Didn't get numbers as my phone had to be switched off but I did have a good time going up to girls and telling them they can have sex with me for free if they give me their numbers. Funny times.

I ran into a girl I met a few weeks ago who I thought fake numbered me but as I was certain she didn't fake number me back then, I'm now confident she didn't fake number me. When we saw each others reactions were all positive and her chinese friend went telling Diamonds the story of how I chatted them up. I stated that she fake numbered me and she looked confused. So I was so tired I just didn't say anything and shrugged my shoulders. She then offered me her number again. So I made an exception to turn my phone on to take this number.


In response to rainking:

I will have to risk saying that I agree completely with everything you have said. This is a complete numbers game and things at the moment are very fast paced. Although it was good to eliminate approach anxiety in the beginning it's not the way forward from now on as any PUA would agree. Things need to be more subtle. Thing is, as I said before, most sets I actually WANT to approach go really well, so with pre selection, being calm and collected my success ratio would get better and I'd have a even better time than I already do.

Edit: At the moment though, I for one still need a lot of practice with as many sets as I can until approaching people becomes second nature. Selecting who I want is ideal, but approaching as many as possible is what needs to be done at this stage of my development regardless of the outcome. Most if not all good PUA's start with the numbers game.

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Any positive feedback for my growing self esteem would be good!

Field Report-Friday 1st July
Today I was feeling in a good mood and hit the gym to try and put me into an even better mood. My objective today was to have fun rather than go for number closes. I arrived at Wetherspoons in paradise forum at 8.00 to find Jackal and Diamonds doing some street sets. I made my first few approaches with my favourite opener of who laughs more but found it really difficult stopping sets. Jackal told me to project my voice and plant my feet on the ground which worked really well.

We were gradually making our way up towards Broad Street and Jackal made me approach sets which Diamonds was in. This included me saying to Diamonds when he was in a five set “Hey, these are my wives. You shouldn’t be talking to them!” This got us a lot of laughs and DHVed him. Another one included me saying to Diamonds when he was talking to a two set “These girls are mine, get lost”. Diamonds kindly walked off as part of the routine and I spoke to the two set who I found out where from Manchester. I had a good chat with them and found out that a guy they were visiting flaked out on them so were just on their own in Birmingham. I didn’t feel like number closing these two because they weren’t anywhere near my age so waved them off with a “have a nice day”. Jackal also jumped into some of our sets and pretended to mug us. This made our sets laugh and definitely surprised me the first time.

We made our way down to The Mailbox where I bumped into a college friend who I hadn’t seen for almost two years. He was definitely the funny, cool and outgoing guy in class so decided to number close him (lol) since he worked in a pub that could possibly get me free drinks in the future. My first number close of the day . I approached a few more sets with no success and eventually we made our way to one of our main pubs (can’t remember the name) in the Mailbox. We bumped into Volcano on the way and approached several sets in the pub. I jumped into a two set that Volcano was previously in who I found were really friendly. Unfortunately they weren’t my age so didn’t number close them. It’s starting to sound like an excuse now huh?

Jackal threw me into a two set which Volcano was still in so I decided to keep the girl that was next to me occupied. She was responsive but not entirely interested so I eventually ran out of things to say. Also, the girl Volcano was talking to seemed quite aggressive so I ejected from this lost set. I DHVed Diamonds whilst he was in a two set by handing him a drink and telling him we were gonna wait outside for him. From reading his field report he managed to get their numbers which is great

Volcano was outside with a hyperactive drunk girl part of a four set and Jackal told me to go in. I stood there for a few seconds deciding what to say then the Jeremy Kyle show opener suddenly hit me so I decided to use it. I have to say, I got a really good reaction from this opener. I got talking to this Asian girl (Indian/Pakistani origin) and found out that she just graduated from Aston University with an Accounting degree. And accounting is definitely something I can relate to . I had a good interaction with her and tried to number close her. Unfortunately she said no, but I was feeling in a good mood so wasn’t particularly bothered. I find that when there are more guys out sarging, it makes the mood a lot better. I hope this encourages the other guys to come out more often.

We headed off towards Paradise Forum where I got a MacDonald’s because I was extremely hungry. We walked up towards Broad Street approaching more sets which included me asking a policewoman to marry me when I had a drink and half eaten McChicken Sandwich in my hand lol.

Volcano and I eventually split off from Diamonds and Jackal to do club game. Volcano wanted to go to Snobs because he heard several girls mention it but I had never heard of it so it looked like we had to ask directions. We asked directions from a young Asian (Indian/Pakistani origin) two set who didn’t have a clue where Snobs was. Volcano and I were about to walk off but then one of the girls ( HB8 ) started asking me what language I speak.
Me: Have a guess
HB8: Mandarin?
Me: A little
HB8: Cantonese?
Me: Yeah
HB8: Zeen toa fa (“Cutting Hair” in Cantonese but in a really bad accent)
Me: Uh, Cutting hair??
HB8: Yeah!!
Me: Hi 5!! How do you know that?
HB8: I work in a Chinese hair salon
Me: (shocked that she works at a Chinese hair salon) That’s really cool
HB8: I also know Diu liy lao mo (“Fuck your mum” in Cantonese)
Me: Hahahahaha! Hi5 again!! Blah blah blah how old are you?
HB8: Blah blah blah 17….
This set was probably my best set all day but just before I was about to number closed the HB8, her friend pulled her away. I think her friend got bored because we were only talking to the HB8 and I left the number closing wayyyyy too long. Luckily I found out the name of the salon she worked at so told her as she was being dragged away that I would go the next day.

Volcano and I eventually found Snobs but there were hardly any people in there so we didn’t go in. I chose Oceana to go into because I assumed there would be a lot of students there so I wouldn’t have the excuse of saying they weren’t my age. Disappointingly, there were hardly any people in Oceana so we just left after ten minutes. After an hour or so of wasting our time we made our way to Walkabout on Broad Street and made it straight to the bar to get a quick drink. A HB 10 (wow!!) opened me by taking my sunglasses and wearing them. She also gave me the camera to take pictures with her and her two friends. This was a major invitation for me to talk to her but I AFC-ed so bad!! I couldn’t think of anything to say to her at the time so just left it. I went past her and her two friends on the dance floor where she smiled at me. The biggest IOI in the dance floor!! But I was feeling too AFC to dance with them. Volcano was feeling kinda AFC as well but broke out of it when he opened a girl at the bar who he mentioned he got a kiss close from.

After feeling kinda AFC I just said “Fuck it”, put on my sunglasses and went crazy on the dance floor. This funnily enough got shit loads of drunk guys dancing with me (lol) so I guess I had better social proof than being on my own since Volcano was approaching in the smoking area. One girl started dancing with me and took my sunglasses off. She was dancing with most of the guys though so it was difficult to talk to her and isolate her. The rest of the time in the club consisted of me acting like I was drunk on the dance floor and dancing on the platform with other people. I eventually left Volcano at 3.30am because I was extremely tired and hungry.

Field Report: Saturday 2nd July
Today I didn’t sarge with Jackal or the other guys because I was going to my friend’s hotpot party. But I really wanted to get the number of that cute HB8 and since I knew where she worked, I went there for a haircut :p. She was surprised and happy to see me when I stepped in. I gave her a hug and said I needed a haircut so she got to wash my hair where I had a chat with her. She picked one of the stylists for me and after getting a haircut that I obviously didn’t need, her colleague (around her age) washed my hair. They were both talking to me and throwing several shit tests at me which I rarely ever come across. This totally threw me off and I gave quite a few shit answers which clearly didn’t win over her colleague and probably put my target off. My target took me into the toilet to get changed where her colleague shouted “you’re not going to go in there with him are you?”
Me: (whilst facing my target) You wish!!
This is definitely one of the most stupid replies I have ever said. I reckon it’s because I have spent most of my life trying to act uninterested in girls that it comes across naturally.
HB8: I don’t even know your name
I’ve heard this is an IOD but I could tell from my previous reply that I had just blown my chance. I just paid her the 20 quid for the haircut and left asap.

Looking back in Hindsight, I could have come up with pretty good replies to the shit tests that they were both throwing at me and when she was taking me into the toilet I could have quickly number closed her because we were alone. I could even have pulled her into the toilet with me if I was feeling alpha enough. My AFC side got the better of me again. Overall I’m still glad that I went over to the Salon to try and number close her, even though I didn’t have to. Maybe I’ll bring one of my hot female friends and attempt to number close her properly next time . One lesson I learnt from this was, FUCKING number close ASAP!!! If I number closed her earlier, I wouldn’t have had to try and get her number at the salon!!

Field Report Saturday 2nd July 2011:

Note here: In response to previous feedback, I have also included comments on some sets which went bad. The previous report may have seemed too unbalanced because I focused on the good sets. Be mindful of the fact that when you read this not every set goes to plan, I am still at a learner stage; on the other hand I know that I am slowly but surely improving thanks to Jackal and advice I receive from the myriad of PMs I’m now getting. Thanks everyone!

After a great night yesterday I was completely eager and ready to come into town again and hit the streets once more. We met at and sarged in our usual locations as we walked throughout town looking for numbers to close. I am particularly proud of my ability now to not take things so personally, I just keep pushing forward. For this reason I really think my confidence levels are really starting to increase and different areas of my life seem to be falling into place. Part of my mission for tonight was to continue using direct language which includes swearing and calling girls “sexy” or “gorgeous” etc. I’m still new to this so I think more practice is necessary.

My first number close came near Café Rouge on the street just near the Town Hall on the way towards the Bullring from the Paradise Forum. I noticed a short girl running out of a bar, she must have been a waitress because she was wearing her work attire. I stopped her by telling her she was “fucking gorgeous” she loved it. The whole interaction lasted only two minutes; I could see she was in a mega rush so I decided to number close as quickly as possible. To be honest I thought I wouldn’t close the deal given that I had not bothered to create a foundation of comfort atop my attraction. Regardless, I asked and to my proposal she agreed to share her digits. Her name was Maria and she was so friendly.

After this set we mingled around near the Bullring, here I attempted to do a couple more sets that passed us by. Unfortunately these two didn’t go so well. I managed to lock in for a while but for some reason the girls weren’t so receptive to me. I was guessing that I wasn’t smiling enough and didn’t go in with enough positive energy flowing within me. Since it is now custom I decided to, regardless of my performance, ask for the number. Safe to say I didn’t get it! After politely ejecting from these sets Jackal in his usual manor told me to run back up to them and stop them a second time and to just ask for the number again by saying something like “I just had to make sure!” It was hilarious to see their gob smacked reactions. One of the girls put her hand on my arm in a supportive way and said “I’m really sorry, no is my final answer. But thanks so much it was really sweet!” Oh well I guess it’s always worth a shot! I was pleased with the fact that rejection doesn’t seem to affect my mood anymore, I just face the next set with positivity.

My second successful set came as a result of approaching a set from which Volcano had ejected himself. The reasons for his ejection eluded me, but basically the guy was not on form tonight and with good reason too. He had not slept since Thursday night. After meeting us on Friday, he and Ice Man had taken on club game, and given that Volcano’s last train departs at 11pm, he had partied hard all night and not slept during the day because he had a date with a girl. The guy is turning into an animal I swear. Either way his lost two-set were really hot and Jackal ordered me to go back in and seal the deal for the “team”. It was a great interaction for me.

“Hey guys stop.” They stopped. They were a blonde and a girl with darker hair. Both really pretty.

“Omg not again! Someone just randomly came up to us a second ago!” They laughed. They were young and bounced around like excited grasshoppers.

“Yea I saw that you were talking to my friend and thought that you looked so fucking sexy that I just could not pass up the opportunity to talk with you.”

I found these girls to be really energetic so it was a lot of fun talking to them. I managed to hold them in conversation for a long time as we talked about general things. To be honest I can’t really remember what the conversation was about exactly, but I remember we were playfully arguing with each other a lot which I remembered was a lot of fun. I remember that at a point about five minutes into the conversation Jackal came into set and tried to knock me off balance by interrupting the conversation. He had told me that he would do so at some point to train me to deal with outside interruptions. He repeatedly interrupted my conversation and stole the girls´ attention from me until I firmly told him to go away and stop being so rude. He left the set and let me carry on. I found it interesting to try this because it really changed showed me how important it is to be able to re-initialise flow to the conversation and to deal with guys who try to interrupt. After about two more minutes with this set Jackal signalled to me that we needed to head off so I asked for the number of my target and her friend. I managed to get both.

Following this success we made our way back up to the Paradise Forum from where we would go towards Broad Street. I entered a couple more sets on the way whilst Jackal was explaining a few things to us. I managed to stop the sets and get some good responses and some laughter. I was really enjoying myself so tried different openers but I didn’t really feel like I was doing anything special. I wasn’t. Although I didn’t manage to get any numbers from these two sets, I appreciated these girls for being nice, polite and a lot of fun. They congratulated me on my efforts and mentioned that it was pretty brave of me. I didn’t expect at all that a failed set would actually raise my mood. But in a funny way it did.

As we walked though and out of the Paradise Forum we saw a tall slim girl walking ahead of us. We couldn’t see her face and she was wearing a long cream coloured coat but her thin lower legs were exposed. It looked as though she was just on her way home from work or something. I looked at Jackal. He looked at me.

“You can’t let that set get away Diamonds.”

I jumped immediately into action and ran forward in order to get ahead of this girl and talk to her.

“Omg stop!” I commanded. She looked at me puzzled and jumped backwards. I think I went in a little heavy and scared her! She stopped so I paused a couple of seconds as I looked into her eyes.

“You are so fucking gorgeous do you realise that?” She burst out laughing. Her face matched her body.

“Oh thank you! Is this a bet?” She had a strong accent.

“Nope, I just couldn’t let you go without getting to know you.”

“I detect an accent, either you are Canadian or American, regardless, welcome! What brings you to the UK?”

“I’m American, from Chicago.”

“Nice! You are the coolest American I have ever met!”

“I’m the only American you have ever met!” She laughed. I felt my world shrink and turn into a tiny bubble as I found myself locked in and focused purely on my set.

“Don’t ruin the compliment.” I laughed. As I lightly tapped her on the upper arm.

“Ok I won’t.”

“So what are you up to tonight? Just finished work?”

“I’m in a rush actually; I have to go to for a meal at Nuvo.”

“Yea I have to go soon too.” Everything felt right so I decided to talk to her about where she’s from and how long she’s been in the UK. She said she had been in the UK for 12 years so I teased her saying:

“Omg you still haven’t lost your accent? When I spent my time studying German in Kiel I came back to zuh UK and spoke English wizz a German accent.” She laughed at my utterly lame humour.

I felt at this point that I had established enough attraction; I had her locked in, laughing and giving IOIs so I told her some more about my life just to generate some more comfort so she would no longer see me as a stranger. I told her about how I declined to go to Sandhurst and instead took the path to become a German teacher. She congratulated me on both aspects of my life. I asked her the about herself and she reciprocated. At this point the conversation had lasted about five minutes but time was fleeting so I decided to go for the number.

Suddenly Jackal came into set to try something he had considered which he called the “AMOG-reversal routine” on me whilst I was talking to this girl. He’s told me to keep the details quiet but it really made me look much more confident in front of my target.

“Ok I can see we are both in a rush. Give me your number ok. What’s your name by the way?” I said as I took out my phone remembering to look confident.

“Ok. I am Kym by the way.” I must say I liked her; she seemed really nice, polite and sophisticated. I could tell she was really smart too which I always find attractive.
When I began this I was looking to get numbers. Now I seem to be looking out for and appreciating the inner qualities of girls I meet. Something I know consider necessary to do.

I took her number and we went our separate ways. I forgot to tell her when I would call and outline the rules but I was on a high, I was getting quite a few closes tonight I felt like a comet streaming through the night sky. A few minutes later I received a text from her which confirmed the close as being solid:

“Have a great night Peter. I´m going to Nuvo x Kym.”

I am particularly proud with the fact that this close was pretty rapid. I am hoping this is a sign of my slowly improving ability.

To finish I will write about my final set which was a kiss close. I am so proud of this because kiss closing had ALWAYS been a major obstacle for me to get over. It makes me so proud that I am now feeling confident enough to finally initiate a kiss myself!

It was now 10:40, given that the night was coming to a close and the fact we were on our way back up to the paradise forum to de-brief and disengage I let myself relax and stopped looking out for sets to approach. Jackal on the other hand, is always switched on and never stops looking out for sets to approach. I should remember to never let myself cool down.

In the mean time Jackal was telling me some of his new ideas that he wanted me to try when I saw his eyes begin to dart back and forth. I prepared myself because I knew he would order me into set. He did. Straight ahead of us was a hot girl. I ran up to her. Attempted to lock-in but failed, I knew this was because my energy levels were low; I had let everything sink down because I thought we were disengaging. Without much effort I gave up on this set. As I turned back to Jackal I shrugged my shoulders but noticed two hot girls walking past him, a brunette and a blonde. I told myself to turn on the juice again. I wanted a final success.

With my usual impetuous I ran after this set, each running step I took seemed to increase my energy levels and broadened my smile which I would soon be using.

“Hey guys! Stop a second” I said slightly breathlessly. I wasn’t really out of breath I just wanted the whole situation to seem more special to them in that I would run far just to talk to them.

They both leaned back in shock as I jumped out in front of them. “You two are so fucking gorgeous I just could not let you get away from me!” They giggled and looked at each other.

“Omg! Hi What’s your name?” Said the blonde girl eagerly. She had such a gorgeous face and with such an IOI I would make her my target. These two were a 9 and 10. I wanted the 10.

“Wow, I can see it is going to be easy to talk to you.” I said. “What on earth are you two doing out here tonight?”

“We’re going home.” Said my targets friend “We’ve just been to a party.”

“Ah nice, we’re on our way home too, but I decided to stop you because you both looked hot and I have something called a “fundar” it’s a radar that detects fun and it was bleeping like crazy when I saw you. So I had to come and say hi.”

“Hello!” My target giggled as she put out her hand to rather weakly shake my hand.

“You’re making my job easy I’ll have to ask for your number soon.” She giggled and let go of me hand she seemed embarrassed. I couldn’t work out why she felt embarrassed because she was really hot I was sure she had heard what I was telling her so often. Maybe it was the way I was saying it that was different.

“What are your names by the way?” I asked.

“I am Hannah, and this is Sophie.” My target quickly replied.

“Well my name is Diamonds. It is such a pleasure to meet you!”

At this point Jackal came in as my wingman to help me isolate. Firstly by running the AMOG-Reversal Routine he’d been trying as well as a mugging routine both of which made the girls really laugh. Immediately thereafter he began charming my target’s friend and gave me enough space to work on my target. I knew I had loads of attraction already but I wasn’t quite sure what I should do in order to continue. However, I was feeling confident and in a “zone” so I would (for one of the first times) trust myself to fully improvise and not follow any set pattern.

With Jackal still isolating I stepped forward to Hannah, I wanted to get closer. I had hardly spoken to her, the interaction had lasted at most two minutes but I could tell I was doing such a great job so far. I made sure I looked into her eyes deeply. She kept strong eye-contact with me. My mission was to check for pupil dilation. I saw it.

I still wasn’t sure about what I should do but I just considered that I should go with the flow. I remember reading that at a certain point in an interaction it is important to slow down and become more of a seductive character. So this I did. I made one small step forward, she didn’t step back. Our faces were now really close to each others probably about eight inches apart. I could feel my heart actually begin to beat fast and could feel heat throughout my body as the SPAM in our small world began to combust.

As I carried on looking into her eyes, my hands blindly searched for her hands. I needed to start some kino ASAP. I found them. She let me loosely hold her fingers so I took the lead and slid my fingers in between hers and pulled her towards me with a quick jolt. I wanted to surprise her and make her laugh. It worked because as she fell closer towards me she giggled and turned her head slightly. Now that she was close I leaned my head diagonally forward to the side so that my lips were touching her ear. I was so close that I could smell her perfume and feel the heat of her body, I whispered slowly. “You are so fucking sexy.”

I felt her squeeze my hands as she let her head fall onto my chest briefly. She remained silent; I tilted my head back so my face was directly in front of hers again. She looked up at me, we held eye contact. I was going to go in for the kiss. The time felt right. After whispering into her ear I lifted my head back some more and looked at her fringe as though I were checking something and slowly swiped some hair back behind her ears. She had really soft skin. She didn’t mind me touching her face at all. I was definitely going to kiss her.

“What?” she asked softly as her eyes darted side to side searchingly as I felt her hand squeeze mine again.

“You have some stray hair on your face.” I whispered softly.

“So?” She said in a cheeky way as she took her hand out of mine and ruffled her hair before laughing.

“Omg what are you doing?!” I protested whilst re-fixing her hair. “That’s better, you look gorgeous again.” She giggled. After fixing her hair I laid my forearms on her shoulders. This very moment was the time.

I gently took my right arm off her shoulder; I put my index finger softly under her chin and lightly lifted her head. She felt totally compliant. I was hardly lifting her at all. “I want to show you how we say goodbye in Nottingham…” I whispered slowly whilst I took a deep breath through my nose to let her know I could smell her perfume.

“You smell good.”

I saw her mouth fall open slightly; she knew this was the moment too. I leaned forward. Our lips touched, her eyes closed and we kissed. I could clearly taste her strawberry lip-balm.

I pulled away… “Now kiss me again, and do it properly.” She complied by giving me a French-Kiss. We stood there kissing for a few more moments before we both went back into the group conversation which included Jackal and Hannah’s friend. During this time I would every so often pull Hannah towards me and tell her to kiss me again. She complied each time. I was probably over-doing it but I just wanted to make sure in my mind that I could repeatedly have the balls to tell a girl to kiss me again and again. After a while I decided to roll-off and ignore her for a bit and focus my attention on talking with Jackal and her friend who seemed to be having a lot of fun themselves given that there was a lot of laughter. After a few minutes of Jackal entertaining the group he asked.

“Diamonds have you kissed her yet and lifted her up romantically?”

“No I haven’t.”

“Ok you two, look like a romantic couple and kiss properly!” He shouted with enthusiasm. Both of us happily complied. I put my hands under her bum to lift her up as she put both her hands on my face and kissed me again. This time the kiss was actually really long and my arms began to tire.

“Hey you’re actually heavy I need to put you down.” Shit why did I say that?!

“Omg he called me heavy!” I think she was actually kind of pissed so I decided to try and charm her again.

“Ok, I´m sorry, give me a quick kiss and we’ll make up.” I closed my eyes and waited for her lips to touch mine again. Instead I felt the cold sting of a hard slap connect on my cheek.

“Ouch!” It really hurt!

“Now we can kiss and make up!” She grabbed me by the ears (which actually really hurt becuase her nails dug into my skin) and pulled me towards her.

I heard Jackal saying “OMG she’s feisty!” to which everyone laughed. Before we left I made sure to get her number and ran the same MO of confirming when I will call and laying out the rules. As we walked away I spoke to Jackal about the latest move he told me to do.

“I liked that move where you told me to lift her.”

“Yea it’s romantic for them and you get to feel the bum, innit.” LOL

Again if someone would like to give positive feedback. I am receptive.

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