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PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 12:46 am 
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This is a thread just for some entertainment value, and maybe questions will come up and people can answer.

When you go out, what is something a person can do that will just bother you immensely? I mean, a girl does something that makes you no longer want to talk to her, etc.

For me, it's when women I've never met before ask me to take pictures of them. there are always exceptions, I mean if it's halloween and some girl complements my costume, wants a picture with me, I'll go with it. But if a woman holds a camera to me and wants a picture of her wtih her girlfriends, I tell them no. I'm not rude, in my opinion, I just calmly refuse.

The reason it bugs me so far has 3 parts. First off the girl doesn't know me, she can have a friend take the picture or take it her self. It always seems to imply that I look like a chump she thinks can talk into it. Second, some women get really offended by it, like they think they are so hot I would do anything they ask. Third, my buddies sometimes freak too, as if I just refused sex with the hottest porn star. Occasionally they'll step in, take a couple pics, talk to the girls and try to tell me now they have an in. I explain how they were just used and the girls will not speak to them again, but they never listen.

It just gets to me. So what about you guys? What's your pet peeve about night life? Or do you agree/disagree with me? It's a forum, let's have some fun.


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If you were walking down the street and a family of tourists asked you in broken english to take a picture of them in front of a tourist attraction would you also say no because they are treating you like a chump and think they can make you do anything?

unless your a bit of a dick, the answer is no, its human decency to do a small favour like that for other people, these girls are our having a good time and just want a picture of all of them together, i see no problem with taking 5 seconds to take a picture and go on with your life, you've done them a favour and you haven't gone out of your way to do it.


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For me, it's when women I've never met before ask me to take pictures of them.
You DO realize this is one of the major ways Pgh girls open guys in that city, right?

Second time I was living on the SSide my first week back I was just headed to this bar where I knew I could pick up a cheep sixer and got stopped by three drunk girls right off of E. Carson to take a pic. I BSed/joked with them for a bit and made sure they knew it was on my terms before I took their pic. After that we all went to a bar. I number closed all three of them, not that I really needed to in hindsight, and while I didn't hook up with them we were party friends for a while. I also had my pick from their social circle from that point.

There are a lot of things, but I try to let most little stuff slide. When we're talking about that city I get irritated when Pittsburgh Blunt turns into Crass & Sloppy.

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I wanted to have some fun and people are psychoanalyzing my pet peeve :p wow

First off, it's only annoying when random drunk girls ask for pictures. If a father with his son wants a pic at the ball game, or a half-dozen tourists want it in front of a skyscraper, I don't care. I explained why it bugs me.

The thread isn't about me, it's about everybody! We all go out, and when we go out we experience things that just irritate us, so come on, share it for some laughs!

Two drunk freshmen last year walked over to me, passing a dozen other guys, to ask for their picture. I said no, and they walked off pissed. My buddy called me an idiot and ran after them, I repeat, RAN AFTER THEM. He talked to them for a minute, came back and talked a big game of how now they would chill with us because he took their picture. They never did. College girls in Pittsburgh just wanna add to their facebook profile, and they will look for the biggest chump to act as their picture-bitch haha!


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I agree with you about the picture thing, the girls are just using you. You can use it as an ice breaker, but its saving a sinking ship, you're much better off opening with another random girl.

Anyone who is giving you shit about not taking drunk girls pictures doesn't know what they are talking about.

Anyways, the biggest pet peeve of mine is guys who fuck with me whenever I'm in the middle of picking someone up. This could be random guys or my friends even. The other day I was at the bar and this guy at the table behind me (sitting with 3 other dudes, I was with a group of 6 females and 1 other male friend, but all females were just friends sadly) thought it was hilarious to hit the back of my knee and then snigger about it with his friends when I turned around and act like he didn't do anything.

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Hmm I usually ask people if I can take a picture of them. Makes me feel good to help others out, because people are thankful and some are to scared to ask so they're glad I offered to help out. When it comes to girls...when they ask me, I just take a picture of myself and give the camera back. "O, I thought you wanted a picture of me?"

Girls don't really annoy me when I'm out, their behaviour usually makes me laugh. Guess the only thing is when they take my stuff (shades or w/e) and don't plan on giving them back...

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when girls ask for pictures is an opener... take the pic and game them, i can not believe you did not know that!

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TheMagicalHindu, it is sad to hear that when you go out you ever have to deal with guys that do some 8th grade shit like that. I mean damn, I can only think of one time where I got SPAM like that, and it was like 4 years back.

And I stand by my picture stance, it should be law! lol. Of course I am exaggerating, but it is interesting how most people so far think I'm off my rocker for having this opinion.


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my pet peeve is when they take pictures of thier foods... WTF its food ... then post it on face book something like " (pic) yummy!)

also about the whole picture thing lastt week i saw a female and male arguing pretty intensley and one of those night life scene photogrophers shows up with his camera ready to take a pic of pply at the place, this bitch goes from angry/ pissed off to put arm around guy and smile for the pick. WOMEN ARE FAKE.. hahhaha


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one of my pet peeve at the clubs is when a girls smokes.. i'm not a smoker so i tend to stay away from girls like that. i dont mind it but if i can avoid it, i will. another thing is when you are dancing and having fun AND you know the girl next to you is dancing to try to get near you but.. you dont want anything to do with her and you move away and somehow she follows you( i'm talking about a girl that you really dont want to hit on, not even worth being on the scale). Really drunk girls who are just a mess and all over the place, Very unclassy!. Plus i dont see why you guys are hounding the OP on how he doesnt like taking pictures for people. Hence why its a pet peeve of his! so get off his back about it.

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Agreed, Reaper. It can get annoying when that woman has decided to hang on you all night. Makes life...tricky hahaha. I used to have a buddy that, when we went out, would hit on the nastiest women, and at least one would always try to flirt with me. I'm not such a dick that I won't have a conversation with a girl, but I'm not dancing with the rancor. And I will gladly walk away to get another drink and leave them all to their conversation for 5 minutes lol.


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to the original poster, I love it when a girl asks me to take a picture. Because she automatically assumes I am going to take picture of her, I grab my bro/wingman, and we just smile and take a picture of us, and hand her back that camera, and politely tell her thank you...
9/10 its game on from there...

But for me, the number one pet peeve in the club, is when a chick is feeling you, and your both having a moment, and the ugly b*tch of the group just HAS to interrupt it thinking she is helping her friend. Like wtf, recognize game b*tch, go be ugly somewhere else lol...just my pet peeve lol.


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My pet peeve is when you're gaming a chick out at the club, u bring her home and find out she's got a cock.


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i dont think thats considered a pet peeve.. i mean has this happen to you more then 10 times? cause pet peeves are something that happens majority of the time and it annoys you...... from what i am reading.... you seem to attract alot of transsexuals. Correct me if i am wrong.

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