Fuck me did I discover that today.

Been with my girlfriend just a couple of days now. Jumped from one relationship into another. We were just asking each other questions, and she said if she was single and someone asked her, she wouldn't mind taking part in group sex, I said the same.

I then said I'd love to have a threesome, and she said "with me or if you were single?" Which is when I said, if I were single, having a threesome whilst in a relationship can be damaging, and she completely agreed about the damaging part, but she then got annoyed with me because I said if I was single I'd like to have a threesome?

SO. She can say that if she was single, she'd have group sex, but when I say it, she gets annoyed. Seriously?

Damn, girls are annoying.

immaturity

she wants to be the one to keep you on edge, not vice versa

is she like 12?

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maybe she wanted you to say with her, the sub text of what you said was, you would like to have a threesome just not with her, don't be afraid to tell the truth, as long as you can justify/frame correctly she has no rational reason to be mad

A girl who will hook up with you with no strings attached is awesome. A girl who will hook up with men with no strings attached, but you are not among them, is a slut.

That's an illogical line of thought many men follow. It's not a gender thing, it's a human thing.

My guess? She's a chick, figured you would get turned on by finding out she has a freaky side. You saying you'd have a threesome while single, well it reached her ears as "I'd have a threesome, but not with YOU hahahahaha."

Honestly? If I dated a girl who said she wouldn't mind group sex, I would immediately explore options for freaky shit. Not hypothetical, but like next weekend. I wouldn't tell her what seemed morale to me, or could complicate a relationship. I'd flat out ask if I should buy handcuffs for our next date.

Women are meant to be loved... not understood.

Haha Mack, she's 22.

DJ_Z, she's definitely into some wild stuff. We've got handcuffs, she loves to be completely dominated and told exactly what to do. I'm a lucky guy.

I would always tell the truth, whether it runs the risk of upsetting her or not, that's just who I am.

getting mad at a girl for using chick logic is like getting mad at a parrot for squawking. You're wasting both your time and energy and getting frustrated will only prevent you from maintaining tight game.

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Just say what you mean and stick by it. No apologies.

She was probably just testing you to see if you're the kind of guy who buckles. If you backtrack and apologize you might put out the fire but she'll lose a little respect for you.

To keep her respect you have to risk pissing her off. Respect is more important.

Oh I'm definitely not going to apologize to her, we're all good now she's moved on from it