| Soo heres a situation for you guys that im going through right now. Soo theres this girl, been dating one of my friends (not a very close friend, id say more of a- i know who he is and could pick him out of a crowd if someone mentioned him but dont really talk to him), and theyve been dating for about 4 years now. and from the moment i laid eyes on her i just knew she was something special.
so i first met his girlfriend through my friend (her boyfriend, and still currently boyfriend), at just a random get together where we were having drinks and i actually hooked up with one of her best friends (not really the kinda guy to do that but i just got out of a long-term relationship so it just kinda happened). and just from that i guess they would try to set us up, which resulted in me adding this girl on bbm, and we talked alot and we'd try to set up dates to go hangout together but things ended up not really working out with her friend, but just from talking to her and just from seeing her that night and other times, she just grew and grew on me. we'd talk everyday on end, and since her friend was out of the picture it just looked like i was hitting on her and her boyfriend would get mad at me for talking to her, although she would stand up and say "no i want to talk to him" blah blah. anyways, one day she said, "hes getting really mad, and i dont wanna lose him and i cant talk to you" so anyways i respected that, and i didnt talk to her.
A year passed and another one of her friends took a fancy on me, and i guess her and her friend would always want to do something spontaneous and would always want to go rollarblading or bike riding, and i guess she'd just so happen to make a route by my house to come see me, so through this i started seeing her more and they'd both try and hangout with me, and although i did have that connection with her friend, as soon as she was there and it was the three of us, i just couldnt keep my eyes off of her, just those past feelings crept up on me and she just had me wrapped around her finger. anyways we started talking again and yes she still has that boyfriend who is my so called friend.
anyways, so i started talking to her again and i started to be more straight up and opening up to her telling her i had feelings for her and told her she was beautiful, gorgeous, perfect (insert compliment here) etc. lol you name it i used it probably. and yes, she even told me she did to! i mustve done something right to catch her eye. but anyways we started talking again constantly, all day everyday nonstop.. behind her boyfriends back. which im not exactly proud of but i just am so into this girl. at the beggining it was good, although i had to deal with the friend i eventually got rid of her, besides she was just a friend to start out with so she just continued to be a friend and i just started talking to her less, and with her things were good. talking was good, cute nicknames and flirty stuff, anything you can think of, you name it we did it although we are both shy by nature. and i actually started to hangout with this girl, ive probably hungout with her about 10 times? drunken sex/make out session, sober movie talking cute play wrestling stuff and tickling games and some kissing makeout stuff with some grinding but nothing too outrageous because of our shy slow nature.
and presently we continue to talk everyday, all day, but i havent actually seen her in atleast 3 months, and it just feels like its going into the friend zone vibe (i asked her to hangout and she said no, but then later said if i wanted to hangout with her and her friend((the one who liked me but i ditched for her))). and she says things with her bf arent great (been dating for over 4 years now), they fight all the time but he tries really hard and she just hates letting go to things and ok, thats fine i guess... if it takes alittle time thats ok but i cant wait my whole life on this girl. but lately shes really been bugging me on the nonhangout stuff like ill try to set something up or try to do something and she will find excuses to get out of it and for some reason shes always hanging out with her boyfriend, which is expected kinda, but i got up the courage to ask her and she said, theres something about me that makes her really nervous and scared to see me, although she really wants to (more than i want to apparently) but lately shes been frusterating me, where ive been turning off my phone for a day or two to see if she'll miss me or something and just make up an excuse that my phone is broken and maybe ill get something but i just feel like things are so close but so far from working as ive been doing this for a year and things havent really moved since.
just wondering what you think about this whole situation and what should i do. right now im at the end of 2 days with my phone off and im thinking about sending a stupid facebook message saying "heyy my phones a piece of junk blah blah and hope itll get fixed tomorrow, hope yours having a good sleep and ill talk to you tomorrow! blah" sorry thats alot to take in but theres alot of details, and im sure i could put in more but that should give you a good idea of whats going on, any feedback would be great! asap if anything :p
Last edited by Renzy91 on Sun Jul 03, 2011 10:34 am, edited 1 time in total.
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, been super busy and my phones being a piece of shit again so im tryin to get it fixed, sorry i know its late, hope your having a good sleep hun! ill talk to you tomorrow 
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