I have come to meet a lot of people through family and friends.

I know a lot a really nice, fun decent guys (like I believe myself and most of my closest guy friends to be) who are mostly single and don't seem to attract the cutest girls/women.

The guys who never seem to be without a really cute girlfriend are near enough all pretty irresponsible, immature, and dare I say it 'stupid' guys. I've actually been noticing this more since I've been interested in PUA for a year or so.

These guys who seem to do well with women have, mostly all got one main thing in common: They come from what I would call disfuctional families. Has anyone else found this to be the case at all ?

If this is right, what it going on ?? By being brought up well (or so I thought) by my parents, have I missed out on something ?

I know this sounds like a frustrated rant, but I just wondered what you guys think. LOL

T.P

It's probably their confidence and unpredictability that draws girls to them.

Open your eyes more, I know tons of guys that have cute GFs who are responsible, mature, and intelligent.

Maybe your mistaken their qualities for something else. Perhaps you see a guy acting silly in a club and you call him immature when in reality he is just having fun.

When it comes down to it, ranting about this doesn't help your success with women at all.

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You see those immature and stupid guys with hot girls. What does that tell you about those girls? What are they drawn to? And the most important question: Are they your type at all?

Exactly.

There are far more qualitative girls out there that are just as hot (if not hotter) that are YOUR type. You gotta look and find them, instead of complaining about the girls you can't have.

In fact, the other day I met this really cute girl and started talking to her. I got to know her boyfriend as well.

By the end of the day, I was thinking 'WTF? How can she choose THAT guy to be in a relationship with? The guy's a total pussy and I know I could fulfill her craziest fantasies and give her awesome sexual pleasures that are FAR better than anything this twat can provide her'.

Did that help me? No, and in fact it only slowed me down. I got into negative mindsets (like the ones you have right now). I moved on. Now you move on. Making yourself the victim isn't helping you at all. Focus on the things YOU are good at and project them when interacting with people.

maybe there is more to those guys then what you see

Perfect to a T.

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They did not "get the girl." You lost her. I doubt they are such horrible peopel compared to you. That is the AFC philosophy, that the girls should like them and all the guys they bang instead are the real losers.

What did you say to them? What were you wearing? Had you just rolled outta bed, no shower, no deodorant, no comb in the hair? Maybe not, but my point is that you should always look to improve yourself rather than hanging on the perceptions you have of others who earned, that's right, EARNED something you wanted.

Basic economics: there is no free lunch. Anything requires work, effort, and the loss of some alternative. If you put in the effort, even if you don't become some master pimp, you will be better in life.