So I'm seeing this girl and we are both really into each other, we totally hit it off last night. We did triangular gazing and stuff and it was awesome.

But when I was holding hands with her when we were on a walk, she never put her phone away! She couldn't stop texting and going on Facebook on her phone, it was driving me mad. Why wouldn't she talk to me instead of texting her friends. I know for a fact I'm not boring, she finds most things I say interesting; but she seems to drift off sometimes on her phone and it's really getting to me.

What does her texting obsession translate into?
What should I do to make her pay attention to me and not her phone, any techniques?

Thanks, Blue

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i know a girl like this
and i fuckin HATE HER
on her phone 24/7 their hasn't been one time i haven't seen her on the phone
she just has no self esteem and she takes out her phone instead of dealing with her nervousness
girls like that are really easy to game.....but i wouldn't recommend it..move alone

Nah man, we have something special. She left her boyfriend for me pretty much.

She's not on her phone 24/7, just more than a normal girl would. Maybe she's just addicted to her phone, I don't know, but it's annoying.

Also note; whenever we get down to doing passionate stuff, she never gets it out (her phone ). It's just whenever there's a brief silence really, she checks it every 5 mins, but it pisses me off, because if we're holding hands or something, she'll stop just to text her friend back or something like that; it's a turn-off.

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yeah,

not a good sign.

wtf? is she like 12? does she have adhd?

my ex did that when she was perpetratin

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Verbal is right, she is insecure and and needs constant stimulation. I doubt it is about being nervous at this point and more about needing constant attention/interactions, so when your conversations hits an awkward point, she turns to anyone else to fill it. I have been around women like this and it is aggravating, there is nothing you can really do. You can attempt a talk with her, but this is more than just a bad habit, she will need a core-level change.

Dude, I had to deal with this, only for about an hour or so, but it was pissing me off, so I dealt with it,

This is what I did, (I don't mean to sound like an ass) but just tell her to put it away then make out with her when she does, this should totally work, because when i did it she couldn't get enough of me, and wasn't on the phone to anyone for the rest of the night, unless i was away, then when I came back, she immediately put it away, and it felt great, because it was just, PURE FRAME CONTROL

But don't sound angry and demanding just lean back, or body rock if you're standing and say it really calmly and she should, comply

P.S. PM me and tell me if it worked out for you

Hope This Helps,

Peace,

Troyden

I had an ex like this, and have a girl now that does this. Drives me insane. One thing is to first draw her attention to it. Do this nicely. She may not even aware of how addicted she is. If that doesn't work, pull away severely whenever she's on the phone. No contact, no conversation until she's put it away.

After that, just demand she spend her time with YOU not the phone. After that, nothing to do but get rid of her.

Best of luck, though.

Yeah thanks guys, she seemed much better the other night. What I did was tell her
"I refuse to talk to you until you put your phone away."
Then she tried testing me by keeping it out for a while.

But, all of a sudden, she slipped her phone in my pocket and started making out with me, the freeze out seemed to work.

Thanks , Blue

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Yup, you're definitely going to get banned if I see this shit again from you.

Read the goddamn announcements.