hey guys...I've had this situation with this one girl. I've basically told he before that I had feelings for her and she told me that she thought we were just friends. This was probably 5 months ago. After that we keep talking and recently I feel that I have her interest again.( just my gut feeling)

Basically I want to know IF i should give it another shot or Am I just being thickheaded and not getting the idea. Anyone with advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Don't tell the girl that you are having feelings for her!

Because now you are confronting her and requesting for her answer. Girls don't like that, to be confronted and to make a choice.

Girls don't use logic, they are driven by their emotions/feelings.

The ony chance you have is to kino her: touching, smelling hair, holding hands, kissing etc. This makes her feel comfortable with your touching. If she feels comfortable with this, she will develop feelings for you automatically.

NEVER EVER EVER tell a girl that you like her. You communicate it to her with displays of interest or by pursuing her. I'll show you the difference.

If you TELL a girl you like her, she sees it as a sign of desperation. Essentially you are telling her that her pussy is the only pussy you currently want. Women hate that shit. Girls want guys who are WANTED by other girls. They want guys who emobody the tao of badass. Secretly, all women want guys who will DUMP THEM for another girl if they don't qualify themselves properly. They want the creme de la crop of men, guys who don't "like girls," but have a variety of options and don't tie themselves down unless they have found a girl VERY worth it.

By SHOWING a girl that you like her, you've only shown her that you are INTERESTED. In other words, she thinks you still have access to other pussy and that you are NOT desperate for her. In such a scenario, she STILL needs to qualify herself to you to gain "exclusivity."

In scenario A, challenge is impossible to maintain. You have already handed the reigns of power to her and everything afterwards will simply be a chaotic scramble for attraction.

In scenario B its easy as shit. Any time you withdraw attention and start flirting with another girl, you immediately cultivate sexual tension.

If you have a feeling that there's another chance with this girl, go for it. Don't get Oneitis, but there's no point in giving up on the chance of a possible exercise in libertinage. I do advise however that you act much more aloof this time and have an array of other options beset before you.

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hey guys,

My apologies for not being able to thank you guys sooner for your responses, its been a while since I've been on the message board. Nonetheless, there were some things you guys brought up that I will definitely take with me.

Just to give you guys an update: I kept with it, and things actually worked out really well. So point in case, girls feeling/emotions are always changing, so never feel too discouraged.

Good luck with the new year guys.

Don't tell her, SHOW her.