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PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:05 am 
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Let's say a girl texts you because she feels insecure about herself and wants YOU to cheer her up, but is only semi-interested in you as a romantic partner and sees you mainly as a way to boost her self-esteem. What' the best way to respond to such a text?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:14 am 
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stick it in. make her come to your place. make her do everything. do it on your terms.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:18 am 
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stick it in. make her come to your place. make her do everything. do it on your terms.
EMOTIONAL booty call--http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.p ... oty%20call

It's where she texts or calls you because she feels insecure and wants emotional validation. I'm trying to find out how to respond to that to get her to chase me.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 7:04 am 
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If you're her emotional booty call you're already friendzoned and she has lost interest in you. She doesn't give a shit what she says to you anymore or whether you stay friends or not. What kind of pussy would waste his time listening to some bitches psychotic emotional bullshit anyway? If you have to do that to get laid you have alot to learn


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If you're her emotional booty call you're already friendzoned and she has lost interest in you. She doesn't give a shit what she says to you anymore or whether you stay friends or not. What kind of pussy would waste his time listening to some bitches psychotic emotional bullshit anyway? If you have to do that to get laid you have alot to learn
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Don't invest time in this girl. If your interested, wait out like 4 weeks with no contact. Then reestablish contact and see if she has changed. If she has, she's worth investing your time into. If not, don;t bother.


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If you're her emotional booty call you're already friendzoned and she has lost interest in you. She doesn't give a shit what she says to you anymore or whether you stay friends or not. What kind of pussy would waste his time listening to some bitches psychotic emotional bullshit anyway? If you have to do that to get laid you have alot to learn
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Step 1, break contact, ignore her
Step 2, find other girls
Step 3, get back in contact, but still act busy a lot and make her do a lot of the leg work
Step 4, re-game her

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Step 1, break contact, ignore her
Step 2, find other girls
Step 3, get back in contact, but still act busy a lot and make her do a lot of the leg work
Step 4, re-game her
Close enough


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 10:25 am 
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Hey man,

How many PIVOTS do you have? Pivot her! Tell her what she needs is a good night out, take her to a club, use her as social proof. Then she sees you opening sets, she wants to f you. You get numbers from other girls, take her back to her place and c all over her face.

Use pivots guys! They are awesome!

Option 2 - in the nighclub, ask her if she ever kissed a girl, if she says yes, ask her if she wants to pick up a girl together with you.


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If you're her emotional booty call you're already friendzoned and she has lost interest in you. She doesn't give a shit what she says to you anymore or whether you stay friends or not. What kind of pussy would waste his time listening to some bitches psychotic emotional bullshit anyway? If you have to do that to get laid you have a lot to learn
I know I, as a guy, have a girl that I see only as a friend, it started other way, but I guess I wasn't attracted to her enough.
Now, from time to time I contact her in times I feel I need a boost.
Still, I always know, if she responded in a right way I could start seeing her as a sexy b1ch again. She doesn't, she runs... won't try guessing why exactly...

So, am I wrong to think that if she can change this around on me only if she knew how, that guys can do the same in general? Like in this example... of the OP?


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