Yesterday I saw this cute girl on facebook with some mutual friends who goes to a nearby high school. I sent her an awesome opener and got a good response. Later I sent a second message that was sh*t, just terrible. Today I saw she didn't message back so I sent her a message saying it wasn't me that sent the second message and gave an excuse. I know I really f*cked this up but she didn't block me so should I friend request her, message her again, or just give up? I really don't wanna give up on this. I'm pretty new so any ideas or advice?

If she hasn't replied, give up. Never make up an excuse for something you said or did, nothing turns off girls faster than that.

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In the end, It's not about girls.

if she doesn't reply tell her you are going to stalk her... it's progressive overkill - you just tell something ridicilious which is totally outside her reality- this will confuse her.

1. she will be confused and messages you , thus initiating convo again.
2. she will think you are creepy and ignores you , but she ignores you already so you got nothing to lose.

you will have fun anyway lol ...i like to do overkill when people ignore me.

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lol.. im sorry for laughin dude but this is funny.. and soon enough with experience you'll look back at it and laugh also.

but like the poster above said, NEVER make excuses for your actions..

you should've played it cool.. but since you did send that message explaining yourself.. just play the waiting game for a day or two.. if you get no response than you have nothing to lose.. hit her with something she's not expecting (not in her reality)..

"hey listen, i know your probably still staring at the computer trying to decipher my messages, but let me tell you.. you dont have to take that long to decipher and respond. so im gonna help you out. i'll give you 2 ways to respond: "Hey 'MadeInDetroit' im sorry i took too long to respond, so im doing it now.. btw you're cute. Or "hey 'MadeinDetroit', i havent responded to you because you make me soo nervous. i mean you're hot, look at you. what do you want me to say?"..choose one girl!

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It's Always Forward Im Moving, Never Backwards!

Indeed, like previous poster: never make excuses. people screw up, you screwed up, learn from it and move on. I do wonder how shitty the message was... did you insult her or something?

Next thing is very important: get the hell away from your computer! you will never make this mistake again. dont use stupid fake-face-book to create new contacts. Go out and create them in real life. Then add them to facebook for convenience.

This is PU you are trying to learn. Forget the fable of online gaming. As far as i am concerned, there is no online gaming. Think of what type of girls you are attracting online. Hot girls on facebook? that is no longer facebook: its called: popularity page, which is not valid to get to know people.

So what can you learn from this escapade?

1) dont make excuses, its cowardly.
2) dont use internet for gaming, i consider it cowardly as well


If you have any trouble with real life gaming what so ever, remember, we are always here to help you out!

cheers

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

I'm laughing about it now since it was the first time I ever tried online gaming. I think I'll stick to real life most of the time.

Dude,no one will believe this! You showed some amazing DLV.

She is seeing you as a no-potential currently, because of your actions.

Repairing this is tough, it will cost lots of time/effort and the chance on success is rather small. This is reality.

cool. i think you are going to do just fine

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you