So I met some girls at night time and add one of them to msn. Sometimes when we talk at msn and are having nice conversation she just stops chatting in the middle of our conversation. She is showing some interest to me thought. Anyway we were at one party other time and she was talking and flirting with all the guys there. When guys made move on her, she was gone! I don't know exactly what is wrong with her but she seems to be "player". And the worst thing is that I fell for her cuz she seems to be so untouchable. I have never seen girl like this before and I don't have problems with getting girls, since I am little bit player and bad boy myself.

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Sounds like you're falling for her game, obviously. Stop chasing her, she's used to that. If you really want her to like you, be a PUA and be the exception to the attention she usually gets. Neg her, use DHV on yourself, flirt with other girls like she does to other guys, be a challenge. I didn't quite get what kind of effort you're putting into this already, but if you're only going after her trying to get her attention, she will lose interest, like she does on IM. If she's interested in you like you said she is, you should be able to turn this thing around. Good luck on this one!

I have neg her ass off. And she doesn't even know I like her. I haven't run for her once and she also knows I have a lot of friends (girls). Anyway one time we talked about going out and I also said if u wanna go out then contact me tomorrow. She didn't contact me. We haven't even talked about it. Its just so frustrating because she shows some interest also.

She doesn't know you like her, but you did offer her the opportunity to go out together? Doesn't sound like she has no idea. Anyway, I'd say give her up for now (I know how hard one-itis is, I'm experiencing it myself right now) and see if she tries to get back in touch with you within a couple of weeks or so. If she does, act casual and disinterested, again, be the challenge and not the other way around. If you see her at parties from time to time, it shouldn't be hard to create an opportunity to k-close or more at some point if she's genuinely interested. If she's not, you should know by then.

Yeah I offered her to go out like friends and for fun. And yes it is hard for me but I am strong enough. Thanks for your help.

girls like these are a huge headache ... most of these girls have a certain fear - emotional fear of landing in a relationship and having a painfull breakup. i've interacted with these kind of woman ALOT .... i have isolated one of this personality type of girls and asked her alot of questions.

she told me about how painfull her break up was ... she almost cried when she was telling this... girls like these are like attention whores - they need the attention but don't want to get involved out of emotional pain.

it's very confusing because when you encounter this kind of woman you do not know what is wrong .. it's really hard to analyze because they avoid going in depth. You have to accept it's the woman having an emotional block - WOMAN do not ingore attraction - they only ignore attraction if the pain is greater than the pleasure but even then girls hookup with bad abusive men.

the best way to pickup this kind of girl is to kiss close as soon as possible , because she will only confuse you by giving hell alot of IOI but ignoring you most times as well.....kiss closing seals the deal , if she's attracted you shouldn't wait until she is rationalizing it. once you chase you will lose ....

i've lost many times by chasing these kind of woman, kiss closing them on the spot prevents a whole deal of long term chasing and frustration

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So what should I do. I wont start conversation with her, wont chat, wont call her. So the best place to kiss close would be at party. But what should I do when she contacts me? Should I ignore her(tell her I am busy).

Doing it wrong...

The guys making a move on her are probably just pussies, trust me, I don't think any do what I'm about to tell you. Next time you see her, grab her hand and twirl her around and say, "You look pretty." All those guys making a move on her all bullshit, they aren't turning her on and she knows they're just bullshitting to cover up their lack of confidence. No girl is impossible to get, trust me. KEEP chasing her, girls love that. No, it does NOT make you look desperate, it's our fucking role to chase. You just have to do it correctly meaning, don't fight back with cocky/witty remarks or sarcasm. DON'T laugh when you get rejected, just keep shit serious with a smirk and don't stop trying, ignore her objections.

Say less and do MORE.

no do not chase her ... you can talk to her as long you are the first one to break off contact.

chasing her will only make you emotionally attached to the outcome because you invest too much, and she isn't.
with all respect but this actually is horrible advice ..... i've done this all and none of it worked with this kind of woman....all the guys making move on her aren't pussies ... that's just a weird generalisation and judgements. Girls like these want you to chase them , they need attention and in the end they manipulate you .. don't do it , don't chase people who are tend to manipulate.... all attention whores are often manipulative people in general.

do not chase ... that is just another way/ mindset of not being direct.... woman with these kinds of personality types flake every time she agreed to meet you. Do not think at all what you should do.. just be yourself and chill out.
meet her , have fun .. and kiss close her ... don't wait hours to close just kiss close as fast as possible. next time im going to do it in 5 or 10 minutes....

and always laugh when you get rejected .. i don't know why guys need to be all this serious .. it's about having fun.

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