Hi im wade, im new here and i have a problem.

I have only been with one woman in my life and she dumped me about 5 years ago. i haven't had a girlfriend since then.

My problem is a sexual one. Being a pua seem to be about being dominant and taking the lead with girls, but sexually i like to be submissive. I hope i don't get booted for this post because yahoo answers booted me for sharing this. I am only sharing out of frustrastion and got being able to talk to anyone about it.

What turns me on is bdsm and being a slave to a woman, and denied sex while she finds other guys. Anything related to that turns me on also and i find it's a real problem because nearly all women love a dominant guy who wants them and will want to fuck them.

I have tried to be sexual with girls and i have been successful in pulling a few girls and then they will want to have sex, we would start to kiss and then try to have sex but i have to fake being into it and usually it's hard to get an erection because deep down i am wanting the other kinky things.

Why can't i just like normal things like blowjobs and playing with the girl and normal sex. It worrys me that i like these extreme female domination stuff and its the only way i can enjoy something sexual.

It is very hard to be open in the forum about this because it's embarrassing to me, im not sure what to do.

Any advice will be good please

Yahoo answers haha sorry had a good laugh at that one. Man sounds like ya need to join a fetish group or website, try fetlife.com plenty of girls that would be happy to help ya out on there.

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There are plenty of BDSM communities in most cities and there are lots of guys that are into being submissive - you're not the only one. About 5% of females are sexually dominant, and so you are limiting your selection down significantly, but if you find your local community and meet some lovely dominatrices, I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. Good luck!

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yeah you may need to look into SUB/DOM and BDSM communities.

Your chances of finding some normal chick out in the regular world that will accommidate you are pretty small. Most women just simply are not the sexual aggressors and dominant.

A lot of guys in your situation learn to be sexually assertive and dominant so they can get a GF/wife and live a normal life in mainstream society but then find a professional dominatrix to take care of their fetish on the down-low.

do some searches on SUB/DOM sites and BDSM and find some groups in your area.