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| Rexus | PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 8:18 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 14, 2011 3:14 pm Posts: 123 Location: London | | I am going for a 2nd date with this girl I number closed while on the bus home after work the other week. From the initial conversation I felt she quite liked me, we went on a 1st date which went “fairly well”, though not much kino (due to where we were sitting) and a kiss on the cheek at the end when she came into hug me. So, overall I think this has the potential to lead somewhere. What I’m wondering is how should I change my approach to negging and teasing when on the 2nd date.
I know obviously when you first meet a HB, busting her balls lol, negging and teasing can be good, but how about at the 2nd date? Should I neg/tease less?
I want to still be fun and a challenge to her, but should I tone this down and concentrate on getting to know her better?
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| Wasted | PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 8:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jun 27, 2011 12:12 pm Posts: 42 Location: The Netherlands | | You're now in a phase where you make her show her interest in you and you may reward her for this.
A well-placed and well-balanced neg can be thrown in just to tease her, and letting her know you're still the same guy as when she first met you. You shouldn't run a different type of game, because you'll seem fake.
Make sure it's well balanced though, and don't overdo it.
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| ProfessorX | PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 9:36 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Jun 27, 2011 9:05 pm Posts: 235 | | Remember, for push/pull to work you have to know when to stop pushing and start pulling.
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 10:13 pm | |
Joined: Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:36 pm Posts: 1253 | | dont get negging confused with teasing.
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| EddieFews | PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 11:29 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Oct 10, 2010 9:47 pm Posts: 1828 Website: http://WWW.LoveIsTheVerb.com Location: NYC | | You push/pull as your getting to know her. Never stop teasing. It's not something you do all the time but you damn sure have to do it. That's who you are, a fun exciting sexual creature. If you make your only focus on getting to kno her you'll b friendzoned before you can say virgin.
And please touch this girl. A lot. Shes going out with you that means she wants to fuck you. It's just your job to make it happen.
Keep the frame of mind " i want her to feel comfterable and sexually turned on"
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| here2play | PostPosted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 12:39 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2010 7:05 pm Posts: 340 | | Unless she is acting holier than thou or trying to get you to be her bitch or trying to emasculate you somehow, why do you need to neg her at all?
If things are going well and she isn't acting like some princess or acting like her shit don't stink, why risk being an ass?
If a gal isn't some uber hot supermodel acting all high and mighty negging will just hurt her feelings and make you look like a dick.
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