A while ago when I had no Idea about this community some friends said they will take me out and show me how to meet women. We went out and all I could do was watch in amazement these guys approach women fearlessly, getting # closes and K closes as-if taking candy from a baby. Long story short i thought they were "The Shit"

I haven't seen them for over a year and they said they wanted to take me out. So off we all go out, these guys start their routines off and go approaching women. Just I notice things a bit different this time. All they were doing was running up to groups of women and saying absolutely anything with ALOT of sexual implication. yes the apocalypse opener was used many times, basically these guys in 2 days opened 150 sets and got 2 k-closes. I was disgusted, they were treating these women like whores and playing a numbers game to see what happened. they got a lot of sour, dirty looks, and "fuck offs". I actually went and made some new friends so I didn't have to be associated with them. But don't get me wrong they were funny and out having a laugh some women clicked with their energy and talked. But of all their approaches I would say 90% were HB6 or less.

Now here's me Mr rAFC Jish. I went out to the clubs with them and like them I wanted to approach women, which I did but it wasn't the focus of my night I wanted to have fun!. Over the 2 days I approached 15 women, each of the 15 women were HB8 or above and these were genuine, hard working approaches. I ended up with 2 numbers and 15 approaches which I was satisfied I put an effort into.

So, who did better?

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

Ego-boost topic?

As you know there are different ways to approach sets, and clearly they are using the direct approach. Direct approaches should only be done when executed properly. You don't want to look pervy or like a sexual predator. I'm personally not a big fan of direct approaches which intend to create lust, but I've seen them work.

So how did you approach these women?

Haha ego boost topic. Nah I just have a tendency to write what im thinking at the time, kind of making sure im progressing.

How did I approach, well dance floor approaches, situational openers and just the old "hi" they all worked. Unlike my friends which create sexual tension I am not very good at it, or rather lack the confidence, so while all my approaches did work I'm not sure if I made a point that I wanted them.

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

I know what you mean, honestly. I used to have a friend that hailed himself as a player, yet every time we went out he would get AA until some nasty drunk chick walked up to us and he would go dance with her and shit.

If you don't care how a woman reacts to you, you can do/say whatever you want. Personally, I don't care what percentage of women respond to me, because I don't plan on teaching success. If you have fun, get laid sometimes, and don't commit any felonies, your system works as far as I'm concerned.

Sounds like your friends went backwards. Going 15 for 15 and then only walking away with two numbers is confusing.

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Hi, I'm A. Fahren and I'm an author. I love to travel, socialize, and am hopelessly addicted to movies. That's about it.

who cares what THEY pulled? or who did better than who... focus on what you pull. have yourself motivating yourself- and YOU setting the standards for what is successful for yourself.

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