What say you about poems that you write yourself for a specific girl?
Are they effective or would one make me seem too sensitive? Not that I show a lot of feelings.
Also, when is the best time to use one?

Much thanks and love as always.

gay.. unless its humourous

either way dont go there, you are giving her a higher value by doing so. here's how i see it. if it's your profession, its fine. you can tell her a poem if its spontaneous or funny.

i understand what you're trying to get at, and you really like this girl and you're a hopeless romantic. dont do it dude. the only time you can comfortably do it is when she is yours. she is your girlfriend and she is exclusive to you

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I write poems for every girl that deserves it... But only when They deserve it. Its coming from a frame of " heres a reward for your good behavior. My poems are very push/pully and humorous with a hint of sexuality in them. And they work wonders.

Anything you do coming from a non needy centered place will work. As long as it's confidently done and your doing it because you want to not because you wanna make her like you more.

Just yesterday I'm out with my buddy(natural) and he walks right up next to a lady, slides his hand around her waist, pulls her in and whispers something into her ear and she loved it. Instant k close without ever saying a word.

Anything done confidently will be ate up by chicks. Anything

Poems are useful for a girl you're already seeing if that's your thing.

Or if you are in Jr. High/High School and she's into poetry. Shakespeare is decent when you're in high school.

Any other time it is a no go.

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i kinda understand where you're coming from now, fuze. it really comes down to what works for you and what you want out of the pick up.

hey, if its your style, go for it. sticker, field test it so you iron out the problems and it'll probably be very useful. you should post back once you have done this and how any other guy can use that technique maybe you could expand on how it works fuze, post a few up, it seems to be working for you. i hadn't really considered it as a viable alternative but it could be applied. maybe it only works for some guys.

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Haha confidence certainly isn't a problem.

In that case I don't think I should use one now. I'm courting my slutty ex and she sure as hell doesn't deserve one.

I sometimes write funny sexual haikus during the mid-game, girls usually love it. If I fall hard for a girl, she often inspires me to compose a song for her. So the song is not for her, it's inspired by her. If she deserves it, I dedicate it to her.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

A little gay and very beta.

They're tailored to the girl, I throw in a lot of events that happened between us. I'll see what I can muster up

When I see her I'd go " hey u wrote you something, check this out"

I think I met you on a Tuesday at 8 o clock
When I knew I wanted u to lay on top ( tounge in cheeky/ smile) " nah here it goes)

When we first met you panicked
And I didn't understand it
Now I'm prolly the luckiest man on the planet
To have a chick as hot as you to make me a sandwich
...

Lol I'm not in the mood; but I usually say some sweet stuff then bak to push pulley . You kno

Unless it was humorous I wouldn't be very happy to receive one. It'd be something I'd show to my friends and cackle over.

guys just avoid poems unless you willing to put in effort to master using it. it seems pointless though because there's so much other material.. rather invest your time with NLP or something like that.

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I do it simply because I move the reaction it gets. It also builds comfort, rapport and attraction.

maybe its me, but i think its pretty try hard

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Guys have a lot of faults. Girls only have two: Everything they say, and everything they do.

In my opinion it is a very interesting discussion if writing poems works or not. I have made the experience that it often works.
One point is that girls require attention of the men. If you write a girl a poem you will show her that she is important.
Secondly, you need courage if you write and present a poem. I think it is unusual to write a poem. This makes you a little unique.
A further point is that a poem does not have to be very serious. Indeed it is a routine to start some funny and sporadic poems in front of girls.
Therefore, it is ok to write poems. But it is not a solution of missing feelings.

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