Ok, so to basically summarize it, I start talking to this girl, she shows IOIs I play the game good...and she always says she cant wait to see me and she wants to kiss me blah blah blah. So this one night were drunk and basically make out, she tells me how the last guy she slept with was a mistake so I made a judgement call and didnt do anything passed making out...she doesnt text me or call for a week and two weeks after I said one thing to her and she started texting me everyday again. we hang out and it goes good again and we go to the movies and after we make out etc but dont do anything else. that was last week and after that I texted her one day and she didnt respond and we havent spoke since. did i mess up because I didnt pull the trigger? why did she do this twice...please help me out! Thanks for the help

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J Liu

Could be a million reasons bro, people go cold.. she could have another guy be busy at school/work.. she might have changed her mind? seen the real self of you shine on through.. who knows?

the trick is, you'll never know... If you are keen on this one.. send her another txt after she's had a few days to "chill"

Wondering why will never solve the issue.. This is why you need to have a few options on the go.. Chicks go cold all the time and it could be over the most unforeseen trivial thing which makes no sense.. (to them also, they just know they aren't feeling ya).

The more you stress too the worse it'll be.. use this one as a learning curve because chicks tend not to go cold completely if there is attraction.. you simply have failed at providing the correct amount.. This happens.. now move on.