So a girl has a boyfriend, and she doesnt like him, but due to the boyfriend's mum recently dying, she can't break it up with him.
However i have known her for almost a year, and she was always in the rocks with him, him having flirt with other girls.... him doing drugs behind her back... blabhlabhablah
When i first started uni with her, we would never give eachother eye contact, but id occasionally catch her checking me out. So when day i added her on facebook and it took a whole semester for her to start talking to me after she saw me out one night.
At the start it was very flirtatious on facebook... then an easy number. Ever since then its developed into her telling me the situation and still knowing that she is very attracted to me. She has randomly texted me at midnight (trying to hide that she has a prob) and has said "I just like you as a person"(not as a friend. blabhlabh) There have been numerous times where we'd be close to meeting up whilst shes out with her boyfriend... and she hasn't told me.
Her boyfriend is jealous as fuck of me.... eventually its grown to the point where there has been lack of texting between us....... Til recently i texted her on her birthday "Happy birthday you geek. Hope it was enjoyable

" she texted back a novel... thennnn tonight she texted me saying "Hey do you wanna catch up for a coffee sometime

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My question... should i go for coffee or say something like "Maybe we should wait until uni" or even "I dont think its a good idea we hang out anymore" .... thoughts?