Little help if you can mate
Met this girl she's a hb9-10 in my books.

Last month she came on to me chatting and telling me about her self dhv herself. I gave her a few negs and showed some higher value for my self.

Anyway because I was working at the time (bouncer) I couldn't really do a routine on her so I left it at that and after a while she walked away

End of the night she said by got my facebook name and gave me a kiss before going home (she was sober)

I saw her again last friday she kept stareing at me with puppy dog eyes and have me a big hig.
During the night some HB-1 wanted my mobile so I grabed the HB-9 and made her do the whole save me pretend to be my girl friend thing and she loved it and was even talking about it the next day.

Anyway at the end of the night she sàid when am I going to see you properly, so I told her monday night 9pm I will phone you.

Monday night I phoned once and she didn't answer so I left it at that.

The next day she rang me for general chit chat and told me sorry I can't come out because I'm busy most days and after a little chat I said well let me know when your free. Iv not heard from her since and she didn't answer my last text telling her what days I'm available.


Anything I did wrong ? And what do I do next? Did I fail a shit test?

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Sounds like she wanted to talk and you were more concerned with setting up a meet. Try not to setup a meet the first phone conversation unless its going really well. Talk for 15-20 mins before suggesting meeting up.

I tthink your fine tho, just give her a call today and chat it up. get to know her a bit

Agree with above, I dont think you've blown it at all, sounds like your doing quite well. The move with the HB1 sounds similair to something AFC adam teaches and you pulled it off like a champ!

thanks guys
that gave me a good morral boost

so should i ring her tonight say 9pm ish like i arranged the last time or better to wait untill tomorrow give it a little more time?

and just chat about our day.. i did actualy save a little girl that fell in the canal today so hopefully that will dhv me a little more

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Excellent way of dealing with the HB-1, you sound like your in there mate, let it cool for a day or two, then give her a ring, ask what shes up to, you know, the like, then set up a meet.

call tonight.. no need to wait. you didnt blow anything. Do while your still on her mind. She want to fuck you bro

There are a few things I dont like..

I dont like telling a girl " I will call you at 9pm on X date.."

you must remain unpredictable. the right move would have been NOT to call her after telling her that youre gonna call her at that precise exact time..
then calling her the next day and be like " sory i didnt call u yest, i was busy etc"

but avoid this whole scenario by not putting yourself in it in the first place.
if she asked you "so when are we going to meet properly" you should have said taken that opportunity to set up the date instantly, and in between that time and the date, you keep warming her up.

the 2nd thing i dont like is the part when you told her to let you know when shes free.. this is pretty DLV because you are basically saying that whenever she has free time, you will be there waiting and jumping on the opportunity to meet her. but you are the busy guy, you are the one who should let HER know when you are free...

after your little phone chat, when she said shes unavailable, you shuold have been like "ok cool, well, nice talking to you, bye!"

not in a 'im pissed cuz you said your unavaiable' way but more in a 'i dont give two shits about your unavailability' way.

oh, and one more thing, you should NOT have sent her that additional text telling her what days you are free... you should only be sending that kind of text after she ASKS you

Ok so latest news
Tryed to ring her last night phone was off
Later on she said sorry about phone being off we exchanged about 5 texts
And she said I'm going bed now I will phone you tomorrow afternoon (this was midnight-ish)
Well today
No calls or texts so far!
Starting to think maybe I should just brush this one off as practice?

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naw text her something like "im sick of this dilly dallying, i wanna bone the shit out of you"

Lmao
Doubt that will work somehow
I'm just gona leave it plenty more hb in the clubs, I'm at a loss with this one

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So I froze on this chick
She text me last night saying let's go out wed.
I told her ok but can't be out all night as I'm going on a big hike with work the next day
She said-thats ok you can just take me for a meal and then for a ride on ur bike

Seemed a little pushy/cheeky to me
I joked and said yeah sounds good but your paying
She laughed and said NO xx

How should I play this and what should I be like on wed?
Is she testing me to see if I'm a push over?

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Maybe I'm mis-reading this, but from what you say it sounds like she was looking to hook up that same night. It doesn't sound like she's the type that plans dates; she probably likes to keep it spontaneous.

Not much to be gained in making more effort to schedule a date. If I were you, I'd tell her I've got plans Wed but why don't you swing by the club and maybe we can hang out after I get off work?

Don't think that could work as I don't finish untill 3.30am or later at this club

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Fair enough. All the same, I don't trust this girl not to flake on Wed. Just doesn't seem like a planner. I suspect that she's been on a lot of rotten dates and that she simply hates dates. Understandable. You said she's a 9/10? These kinds of girls don't have to go through the agony of an actual first date, so they don't.

If I were you I'd just try to find some pseudo-spontaneous way of bumping into her. If you're going out on a weekend night with your mates, send her a text to meet up with you. "We're at such-and-such place, having a blast. You should come!" Not knowing the logistics or particulars of your situation, it's hard to come up with a more specific plan.

At any rate, best of luck! Let us know how it goes.