reading up on 60 yoc

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

There's nothing wrong with talking about sex with a girl, society has painted it as a wrong view.. but the hard and honest truth is - they love it just as much as we do (Some even more!)

When you talk to a girl you need to have a few rules tho:
1. Don't interrupt
2. Listen and nod with what she's saying. This shows interest in her story and it shows you are attentitive.
3. Talk about passions and stuf you love to do.. or that you visited.. but DON'T overtalk.. too chatty guys aren't the most sexual ones most of the times.
4. Don't interrogate.. if you do wish to know things, use statements to get her to answer.

Good luck & Have fun!

≠ LD

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Thanks for the replies. Everyone has some good advice and I see how I can make my convos less boring now. Hopefully it works.

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Life sucks when ya get no buns

hello, i just replied in another thread you started.

Some guys on here have touched upon it.

You have esteem issues that you should work out - poor esteem will colour everything you do with negativity and people will pick up on this vibe.

I would also suggest (as others have) that you work on raising your own self-esteem and inner game - it as a corny as fuck line, but if YOU can't believe in yourself, then WHY should anybody else?

I know I have self esteem issues. The reason why I have self esteem issues is because I fail at making conversations. I used to not care and be fun but now I have to pretend and convince myself I don't care and try hard to be fun.

When I finally feel like I can talk and interest people with what I say then I know I won't be thinking like this though. I don't think it shows too much since no one has ever said anything about it but I'm hoping it's a problem that'll soon work itself out.

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Life sucks when ya get no buns

Here is an idea, maybe it sounds stupid but....

Sit down at home and watch every single episode of Friends, The Office, and Seinfeld - STRAIGHT - one after the other (it will take you a month) .

It will give you a feeling of how "cool" "funny" people talk and banter with each other and doing this for such a long time continuously will "stick" on to you. It will teach you "funny", timing, delivery of lines... I guarantee it will help.

Don't try do. By that I mean don't try to not care just don't worry about trying. Focus more on having fun and be your.