Its been a while but I’m back..... well almost!!!!

Here’s my story over the last 6 months….
At the beginning of the year I was going out with my two mates and really having fun gaming… Amongst us we all had our strengths and weaknesses and learned off each other. At some stages we all felt unstoppable.

Anyway… I met my perfect 10 that I really fell for and she fell for me too. It turned into an exclusive relationship and all was rosy in the garden for a while. I was still going out with my PUA mates but stopping at number closes.

To cut a long story short it all went tits up and she ended up finishing the relationship which really cut me up but as they say life goes on……

My problem now is not so much AA but CBA (Cant Be Arsed). I socialise a hell of a lot and am out almost every night of the week with a lot of female friends but when I look around me I can’t find anyone who matches to my perfect 10. I still use game while chatting to women and it still works and I still have it but I know that whoever I’m gaming is not the women I can settle for. I am looking for a LTR and consider game to be a means to an end.

I have also sorted myself a FWB as well, after all we all have needs that have to be
fulfilled!!!!!

My questions
1, Has anyone ever found themselves in this situation before?
2, Will things change or have I just set my standards too high?
3, Is having a FWB detrimental with the way I feel about finding another perfect 10?

Any general advice would be appreciated.

Zigzag

I am new to all this but I have been in similar situation. But I thing that I have learned is that there will always be somebody better. Its true that everything happens for a reason. Right now you may not be able to see anything better but with time other girls will start matching up to her and even better. Good Luck finding the perfect 10 again!

what are your standards ? what traits must she posses ?

high standards are ok .. it will keep the AA low !

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Having standards let alone high ones is not necessary bad its more when they are unrealistic to the point that other girls don't meet them let alone come close. You have to be willing to be flexible and know that you are not going to be able to always get what you want on your list.
Not really. Tho more than likely it most probably limit the number of girls to pick from as most girls are more than likely go for a relationship than FWB.