Hi, I am a 19 year old from Europe and new to the forum, supposed to be studying for exams now but this whole thing is killing me...

If somehow you guys could help me with this one it would be appreciated.

I'll just get to the point:

There is this girl I noticed with who I have a lot of classes in common. While most agree she is a pretty one certainly not all of my mates do so. She is also friends with this girl from my high school who really was at the the bottom of the food chain so to speak, a 2.5/10 at best. I wasn't one of the cool jocks or anything but I think you could consider me a second rate one, so above average.

In college it's pretty much the same story, the girl and her friends are well below me as far as social status is concerned.
nevertheless I've been talking about her for months now until about a little more then a month ago when someone added her on my facebook. (I genuinely don't know but I am grateful to him because I probably wouldn't have said anything to her if he didn't)

So I asked her if she could see when I would have supposed to have send this request because I suspected someone was able to log in on my account, I couldn't care less of course but thought it was a great ice breaker.
She seemed very friendly and was willing to do so, she didn't know how so I explained her.

day after that I said thank you after class and while I suspected a shy "hehe no problem" she seemed very spontaneous and at the time I was convinced she just was very glad I even spoke to her.

So we have exams now and haven't really had an opportunity to talk to her in person again so couple of days ago I send her a message on facebook again saying the one who did it confessed, very casual.
And I haven't received anything back yet.

At first I thought she didn't come on facebook anymore because it is the type that takes her studies pretty seriously but now I saw she answered one of these 'questions'. While there wasn't much to be excited about yet I really am devasted because of this.
At the very least you could expect this to be the type of girl who has the decency to reply, if only to make clear she is not intrested or a short cold one.

Never seen her online either, I see I have another friend in common who I could ask if she isn't online to her either but this is a girl who I think used to have a crush on me and is a friend of my mate's girlfriend, so would be rather rude but would like to know anyway.

while my 'game' is pretty bad I don't think this girl is out of my league as there haven't been a situation yet where I need it... I'll give a link to my facebook and get some random pictures of her too, you decide wether I am just delusional. Apart from the things I've already said my parents are also way more well off then hers, not that this makes any difference at my age but it's just another example of why this doesn't make any sense to me.

after having annoyed everyone who cared to listen about this I am desperate for some advice and well you guys are supposed to be the best at judging this situation.
Ofcourse the obvious answer is leave it be and move on but that is easier said then done. Maybe I need a reality check but such a hard working, natural and pretty girl is damned hard to find these days.

Big thanks to anyone who read it all through
(I realise I look/am obsessed and the post is a little whiny but yeah, anonymity of the internet I suppose

Hey nobis,
You really tried to cover up that "i didn't add you on facebook my friend did" and i hope it worked for you because in your case it must be true! It has never worked for me so I just confess right away why I add and so on,but when my stupid friends want to fuck around with me and add 20 hot babes.. i'm in deep shit but also in heaven if i get lucky hehe..enough about that

All that takes you from meeting her is to talk to her?
If you are so interested, you should talk to her.
You both already have things in common because you both have common classes together, you can ask something about your study. Don't care what others think do what you want to do, its your life!
So just talk to her, thats it, it will require alot of courage but dont fare that.
If you never do it, you will never know. I hope you at least try, it's worth a shot.
If it doesnt work, dont get upset about it, there are plenty of girls out there for you!

Don't think we will have any classes in common next year though, as it's summer now in between only thing I've got is facebook, guess I forgot to mention that.

also really wasn't me :p not that it really matters but I wouldn't gain anything from lying about it when asking advice.

How do you think, if possible, should I iniate contact?