Okay so today I've been thinking. Life for me in the dating world used to be harsh and I mean really harsh. It started with bad onesis after rejection at only 16 years of age. It didn't help that I was a late bloomer so realistically I had the mental maturity of a 14 year old at the time. Then about a year later I was 17 and had grown quite a bit and started dating this girl who turned out to be a liar and a slut. This was a girl I could have easily lost my virginity to but totally lost respect for her and decided to keep my pride.

So when I got to uni I decided I'm just going to go crazy with all the girls. So about a month in I had started texting this girl and a few weeks later I sealed the deal after being very drunk. However the problem is that i have been cockblocked literally around 5 times since that girl and thus haven't been able to go 'crazy'.To put this in perspective; I've been punched when with a girl, Had a girls mates say no twice, Had a girls friend run off crying meaning she went to look after her and also had a dick spread rumors about me in my own flat ruining my social circle game.

This means even after all those girls being interested I've only managed to do it once. To say i'm angry and dissapointed is an understatement.
After losing my V To say the least she was a girl that hardly met my standards.

Now I do occasionally help people on these forums and I genuinely think I've got good game. The situation I'm in at the moment really doesn't highlight the great skillset I have.

I don't get annoyed when I think about It but when my ma says I should lose it to someone who's important then I get angry because It meant nothing to me.
Did it effect you guys a lot emotionally?

p.s This is both a semi rant about my ma saying virginity is important and also getting cock blocked so many times. I just want your opinion really.

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I lost mine at 18 to a 14 year old who was manically depressed, suicidal, in and out of psych wards and addicted to prescription drugs. She meant stuff all to me, she was just a slut who wanted to get laid, so I fucked her, saw her maybe 2 other times and stop calling. I'm 28 now and honestly I couldn't care less, even then I didn't really care.

As for the other problem, man I'd just keep on truckin, play it cool and this whole thing should eventually go away. I've been in a vaguely similar position, what I did was just go pick up total randoms at clubs. When the girls see you getting girls, it's always a good thing.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

When i was younger talking about grammar/high school I had the foolish idea that i would find someone that i was really into and lose my virginity. I was good with ladies, something of a natural comfort builder could of closed many times but i was either waiting for someone better or didn't realize the signs till it was too late.

After a few rejections i decided "screw it" it wasn't going to happen i wasn't going to find someone like that in my life. Mind you i still had oral/etc just not sex itself. I knew a coworker of mine was into me and a slut so invited her over after finals. After i was done without thinking about it i told her "she knew the way out". She called me a jerk and left, though she continuously kept flirting at workplace and wanted to have sex again... which i ignored.

To sum everything up "no" it doesn't matter who you lose your virginity to, after i lost mine i became horribly jaded with women. I knew what they said was lies/bullshit so i called them out on it, i played them off each other etc purely for my amusement. I didn't care if i got with women or not i was just doing things because I enjoyed them. Well women are really into that for some reason and thats when i started racking up girls left and right.

The way i see it, i'm a man my virginity means nothing to me. With a woman she really can't fake her "virginity" but a guy, what difference does a girl know? lol

if you pay some whore to lose your virginity you probably know most woman are.

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Oh no. No prostitutes here my friend. It was through a friend where I met her. It's just I thought I've looked back at uni and got cock blocked so many times that, the first lay is always creeping into my mind, so it's kinda annoying ...

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I don't even need directions from you, but I'm gonna get an erection from you.

My first time i was 19 with some girl who was 25 at the time an a serious cock lover known for it it happend on a night out.
She took advantage of me an i bought her loads of stuff whilst she was fucking one of my friends so there was my introuduction to sex near commited suicide cos of her.

I dont blame the girl only myself id love to fuck her one last time though so i could dominate her an spank her arse like a real man now pua saved my life
But yeah when i lost my virginity i didnt realy enjoy it didnt no what was so good about it to be honest

But now im a sex addict all i think about 24/7 i have images in my head all day of about 5 hb 10s fighting each other for who sucks my cock 1 day it will be reality haha

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Virginity is just virginity. If you are looking for a LTR, then your obviously gonna be with a lot of girls before meeting your oneitis. When you do meet your oneitis, not really likely she's gonna be a virgin too. It doesn't matter who you lose your virginity to. Just lose it.