I am at High School and have never kissed a chick I know. I struggle to tract any girl that knows me on a personal level because when Im actually trying im someone completely different. There is also the problem that a cant get a gf becoz of this. Is there a special teqnique for it that wont make them think im up to something funny becoz im not acting like myself, thats what usually happens.

Change your mindset> The reason why you try to be someone else is that you think the real 'you' is not good enough. But the funny thing/paradox is that girls are attracted to the real 'you' and are annoyed by the fake you.

Let me repeat what Oprah Winfrey always says: "You have to love yourself, before someone will love you"

You absolutely have to act like yourself, the key to this is that you have to know there is nothing wrong with who you are even when someone says "you're weird" or shit tests you like that. You also have to set yourself as an alpha in the eyes of this person you're trying to attract, a woman will never want a weak man. Dhv when possible too. I have had success fucking friends, it is not too complicated but I would not suggest casual sex with good friends

I think one of my problems is that i try to be too open with them or I just get stuck as 'good friends'.

How could I prevent that?

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“If you can't ignore an insult, top it; if you can't top it, laugh it off; and if you can't laugh it off, it's probably deserved." - J. Russel Lynnes

For one, you should always remain somewhat a mystery and be aloof. And you constantly get stuck in the friend zone because quite frankly, women are not attracted to you. Your personality must exude confidence in any situation and you must be a leader. This is imperative in success in any interactions with women. You have to have control. Work on your behavior, I assume your body language is a mess, no offense

Most people get friendzoned when they do things for the girls happiness despite their on. These are also the same people who are the quote on quote "dorks" in highschool. The people trying to make everyone else happy. You have to just be yourself and take risk. Risk looking like a fool. Risk failure.

Ok telling a struggling guy to "be himself" isn't exactly the best advice.
IT'S BULLSHIT ADVICE!!!!! I've approached about 5 or 6 female friends, all of which told me to "be myself" and it NEVER helped.

What you should do is to be YOUR BEST SELF. Hard as it is to believe, it does exist.
Who is your best self? It's the self that is RELAXED, SMILING, CONFIDENT and COMFORTABLE and HAVING FUN. You must not think of your desired outcome when communicating with Wimmin. The only thing you should be thinking about is NOW. That's the self that naturally attracts Wimmin.

To achieve all this, you need:
-Good clothes; they don't have to be expensive, just clothes you're comfortable in.

-A good smile. Look at pictures of Pierce Brosnan, Harrison Ford, Tom Cruise... Look in the mirror and PRACTICE your smile.

-Think about now. Yea the stuff posted ^^^ up there...

-Sometimes relaxing is very difficult. I myself a working on that right now. There are various techniques you can do but I notice that I am most relaxed when I'm listening to PUA material in my mp3..

Read the stuff posted in the beginner's thread.

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Ex-name: stelphie, origin: a combination of 'Steph', an HB I had one-itis on at the time of registration; and 'Selphie', a videogame character I thought was hot.

Would you guys say ignore, normal or full attention for someone you know.

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“If you can't ignore an insult, top it; if you can't top it, laugh it off; and if you can't laugh it off, it's probably deserved." - J. Russel Lynnes