At what stage would a neg become an insult? I often have problems seeing this line and results are far from good. Could you please help me define the line?
Also, the other night I hooked up with a chick the other night and was talking to her and thought it was a good neg but apparently was an insult.

Me: So what was your best part of the night?
Her: Prob hooking up n u?
Me: Disco Pogo

Would that be overstepping the line. And just by the way, Disco Pogo is a song.

i dont think it was to bad but there are so many variables mate.

how did you say it ? were you laughing with a sly sort of smile or were you dead faced looking bored ?

how well do you know her ?

hopw insecure is she ?

so on and so forth

to be honest with you id advise you to stop the whole negging thing. from my experience its just so much more fun and attractive just to tease her if she does something a little bit stupid.

if she spills her drink tell her you cant atke her anywhere

if she says her favourite song is ymca laugh at her a little bit.

but just make sure you both know your joking. say it with a smile and share a laugh together.

if you can make a women laugh you can make her do anything.

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It was done over sms.

Don't really know her well, Shes a friends cousin and was here for a wedding, where i closed. She lives in Australia so not really gonna see her much.

ah see im not a big fan of text game manly because of situations like this.

its so much easier in person or over the phone as your able to read there body language , change the tone of your voice etc.

just speak to her in a few days and chat for a while. make her laugh and feel good about you then organise a day 2. coffe or some low pressure situation.

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As far as I look at it, if you have to think of a "neg" instead of it just coming natural to you or a situation you guys are in, it's generally over the top and counter-productive to the goal of her slobbin yur knob. Negging should feel like your teasing a guy friend. Fuck with her when she deserves it and know when to stop. Too much of it is annoying.

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