Hey guys I have a challenge at my hands. Met a girl at a club last week who is tall, blonde hair and blue eyes (HB 9 in looks). Now I've approached her once before and found it actually very tough because she's a very posh , confident and arrogant. I'm friends with a few of her friends (through my sister) and they told me to forget her because she's very tough to pick up. The average guy would say yeah sure I'll just game another girl, but I don't care if I fail because everyone else is getting knocked back by her so I have nothing to lose. I know negs would be very good on her but would there be any particular ones people use for arrogant and posh girls who think they're better then everyone else? Another dilemma I need help on is that she goes to school with my sister and knows I'm my sisters older brother and she may not want to flirt with me encase it offends my sister (don't think she would care because they're not friends).

Is their any important steps I should concentrate on to break the confident shield around her?

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The IDC (I don't care) approach is always the best

Dun feel like you have to do anything special, just pick her up like you'd pick up any other HB9 out there. Never feel like you have to do something different than you normally would just cause you might 'really like her' or something like that. Do what has worked for you and has continued to work for you...

GOod luck,.. dun forget field report!! :P

Im pretty sure the reason hes here is because what hes been doing to other girls didnt work on this one.

Its good that you like challenges. Makes life more interesting. Just because pu material says dont dwell on a girl doesnt mean you shouldnt. You can learn amlot from this, become a better player as a result.

Now unto dissecting this chick. Arrogant people are usually very insecure about something. Men who feel poor buy nice cars, women with low self esteem need approval from many men, women who feel ugly dress overly well.

Girls like her are usually very insecure about their looks and how it gives them status.

Next time you talk to her, play nice 1st first if she gives you attitude give her a lot of negs targeted to her looks. Sarcasm usually helps.

"oh im sorry i didnt mean to waste your time. Dont worry ill be out of your way. Though i would like to say your friends are some of the hottest naturally good looking women ive seen." Then chat her friends up. That will trigger her insecurity and try to feel the hottest again. Thats when you work your magicnand capitalize from it.

If it still doesnt work then move on, shes prolly messed up beyond comprehension.

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Bow chika wow wow

'HB8 and higher' - girls are approached by many men, usually AFC men with their corny opening lines. These girls are fed up with this and have a huge protection shield.

Be a good pua, i suggest the following:
1. If you are with her friends, talk to them and ignore her initially;
2. If she says something, ignore her;
3. Ask her if she mind to get drinks for you and her friends;
4. After a while, talk to her, but don't be too interested/needy;
5. user sniper-negs; wipe your face and pretend that she spits hile she talks;
6. Let her do the talkings
7. After a while, when you are comfortable, ask her to tell you what are her best characteristics. If she falls for this, give her some IOI's
8. Don't hang too long. YOU END the conversation. [then you show you are not needy].
9. You go back to her friends, ignoring her, but keep on eye-contact.