I met her 3 weeks ago in a disco.. she's 25 (I'm 21).. we had sex 1 week ago, she has a boyfriend that lives in Texas now.. we live in london, she's is so quiet.. she don't speak so much on facebook.. she sometimes act like she's not interested on me but finally all is all right..

When I dont speak her for 2 days she says "hi how are you" in the next day

Do u think I need to be rude, more "cold" with she?

Cheers...

haha I tend to avoid females who cheat on their boyfriends as relationship material.

What are you expecting from her? A relationship? Frienship? Occasional sex? What kind of connection does she have with you?! She looks foward to have sex when she contacts you, or do you feel like she wants to keep you as a guy friend?
My first impression (from the little you said... and from experience) is that she might look at you as a satisfaction. Her bf is not around... she is not looking for a friendship... she just wants some1 who can take care of her horny needs... and since you guys dont talk much, you are perfect for that! No strings attatched!
Correct me if im wrong.

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you're right.. exactly as my situation.. I notice you're experienced about this

Shall I ask her to meet up or shall I wait for a signal that let me know she wants to meet with me?? Shall I text her??

She only talk with me when I greet her.. she's "cold" and don't use to greet.. she keeps with moon icon on facebook chat.. seems don't talk so much on facebook

Again, idk what you want from her, but if you had sex with her and she randomly txts you, it seems like you have her locked in. But again, i dont think she is looking for a deep connection with you.
Lets look at the facts: She is older, has a bf (idk how good the relationship is but if he leaves to Texas and they dont break up, that means she wants to keep him... otherwise, why would they commit to a long distance relationship?!), she is not looking for a deep connection with you (i assume).
You are on what i call "the dildo" position. She hides you cause she doesnt want ppl to know she has one. She uses you only when she wants to. She doesnt realy get turned on by you, but thinks about you when she gets turned on... she doesnt expect you to do anything but to satisfy her sexual needs.
Im pretty sure she does not want you to catch feelings, thats why she doesnt contact you too often. I could almost garantee you that if you invite her out to go to the cinema or diner or something, she will gradualy stop contacting you because she will get the feeling you want to get to know her... and she doesnt want that (at least for now!). She wants to be in control or the situation.
What kind of relationship do you want from her? Do you guys meet up in public places? Do you feel like you guys just dont have much in common to talk about or she just doesnt open up? Do you think she feels guilty for betraying her bf?
Give me some info.

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yep, agreed

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man.. you look like you knew me hahahaha.. all you're telling is exactly as my situatioon.. she hides me

look.. when we meet is diferente.. we laugh, we joking.. is good.. i just want sex.. i would like to meet up again to have sex.. what can I do? shall invite het to watch a film in my house? or go walking and drink anything? I just want to have sex 'cause I assume she won't quit his boyfriend... what behaviour should i have?..

thank you man

don't meet her for movies and shit...

that's boyfriend stuff.

rent cheapass hotel rooms, make her split the tab, and do her dirty every other weekend.

keep it simple.

text her "when", "where", and "what to wear", and "ps - don't forget the lube"

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so.. I would like to text her this tomorrow:

"Good Morning Ragazza!!" how are you.... blablabla... then (when she responds)

"can we meet up tonight at 10:30 in kings cross i finished work at 10pm.. we can go partying at camden town and then you can sleep in my house (cause teh last train to your neighborhood is at 12) .. anyway you don't work tomorrow"



is ok that??

i was thinking something more like this:

"friday, 9pm, my cock, your pussy, my backseat. is it a date?"

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hahahahahaha no man you're crazy.. she's not dirty.. i told you she's shy and quiet.. if i say that she's gonna run away of me LMFAO

Mack that's awesome, I was thinking the same thing. Champion, she's not gonna run away. She had sex with you after 2 weeks. You are already on a sexual level with her, why are you being so timid. Don't be cold with her, be RED HOT! Her bf is in Texas, she don't need another bf, she needs to get laid. Lay her. If all you want from this girl is sex, what have you got to lose but the possibility of maybe having sex with her again. Sarge forward and be bold now. I would seriously use Mack2.0 line. I'm not kidding. It tells her you are confident, you know what you want, and what you want is sex just like she does. She is a dirty girl, she had sex with you after 2 weeks. You just don't want to see her that way. I'll bet she's a spitfire underneath the exterior.

Ooooook.. Im gonna do that.. tomorrow am gonna text her

"Hey Shawty.. what you doing tonight? Shall we meet up at 10:30pm? we can have fun tonight"

or write me what would you say her in my situation. cheers

HOLD ON: is this an excuse to meet up with her or you actually wanna go to camden town?
If i was on your shoes, i would definitely not invite... i would SUGGEST! I would be like (on the same day... maybe around 6pm): "hey girl, im going to camden town tonight to check out ____ place after im done working. I heard good things about it. Pass by and say hi if youre around... havent seen you in a while".
She is older... she wants to be in control. She will not have sex when you want to have sex... its when she wants to have sex. Do not invite, suggest with something specific. Dont put pressure. Basically, show her you will go anyways, if she shows up, cool for her. You dont even have to go there if she doesnt txt you. If she txts you around lets say 11 (time that you are supposed to be there already), you say something like "i had to solve a little issue and im still home getting ready to go... if you want pass by and we go together... if not i should be there in 30 minutes"
Dont show her too much interest, do not mention sex or something... she aint stupid, she knows what you want. Show her that you got options.

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ohhh ok man.. i understand... thank u so much

im gonna text her similar as you wrote.. I tell you tomorrow the result hahaha bye

"hey girl, im going to leicester squar tonight to check out a"Zoo bar" after i finish work. people say that's a very good place to partying. Pass by and say hi if you're around... haven't seen you in a while =D bye bye"