For the forseeable future I will be PUAing alone. Its it possible to Get girls by yourself? Most of the openers and routines I see tend to include at least one wing. Any tips of hints to aproching a group of girls by yourself?

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Of Course it is.. that's what i'm currently doing now..

besides:
alot of the great PUA's preferr to go alone.. (heard it alot from gurus while listening to David Deangelo's Interviews with dating gurus)

apporaching a group of girls is easy but intimidating..

ask an emotionally relevant question or ask for an opinion on something that they might have an interest in.. once you get them talking, you can easily be the one controlling the conversation, by either bringing up counter points, or creating opposing views with one friend against the other..

ex. i've used when i just got my earings pierced..

"hey guys i need an opinion on something, i just got my ears pierced last week.. what do you think, does it work for me?"

they'll look at my ears for a bit.. then i read their faces.. if one answers positively, i'll look at the other and interpret it like she doesnt like it.. or transition into "does it make me look like a Bad Ass?".. based on their faces, i'll interpret it as one of them liking bad guys.. "look at you, you like the bad guys dont you?".. etc, etc, etc..

the whole time i was in control of the approach..

You may have more of a 'better' fun time with a wing - but by christ you'll learn a lot from some solo sarging!

Fight or flight will kick in, so it's good for improving AA.

It's also good to test your ability to gain social proof in a venue. If you can do that alone, you will SLAY with a wing.

It's a good proving ground to test things out, if it goes tits up - who cares? You learn.

You just have to lose all pre-conceptions of 'do i look weird being out on my own?'

And if you can get the knack you may pick up some new wings or pivots from generally being one cool-assed motherfucker from your previous solo sarges, thus expanding your social circle.

My Two Pence.

Yes you learn a lot more from going at it alone. Lets you grow a set

Wait guys,

You are missing the most important thing here.

When you go SOLO - go in a club and start working on social proof first. Girls ALWAYS look to see who you are with and that you are part of a group or else they think "something is wrong" with you.

Go in a club and open GUY sets . "Hey guys... this place is a cook farm or what, where are all the good looking babes. Where are you guys from?"

Make guy friends.. once you learn how to do this (should be easy talking to guys, right?) you can always solo alone but never really be alone.

Sometimes I come to guys and tell them straight "hey man, I need a wing to hit on these girls, come help me". They are always into it, because most guys are AFCs and they will want to see what you're doing.

my 2 cents

And just to make my point - last time I went alone (in Bangkok, 3 days ago) - went into a bar, set down next to a guy and his girl friend, started to talk with them, after 15 minutes he asked me to open a 4 set of girls across the room... he sent them drinks and told the waiter to say it's from me (I have no idea why he did it....) anyway, a 4 set is too much (they were sitting) so I told him I will open two other girls (also his "drinks from that guy" would be a huge DLV so he fucked it up for me even if I wanted to do it)

anyway, I go to the two set, I open them, I invite them to sit next to me. We go back to where I was sitting... one of the first question they ask me "are these your friends?" (I said "no, I met them here - mistake. Next time I will say "yes")

They probably saw me talking with them (the guy /girl) before I opened them.

GIRLS SEE EVERYTHING. And the FIRST (and maybe ONLY) thing they look at - is WHO you are with.

Personalty when I see a girl alone I think "she must be cool, going / traveling alone" but I guess girls are IDIOTS and they always need someones else conformation / opinion (that's why girls like to GOSSIP, because it's a form of 2nd hand experience, the emotional highs / lows without the risk)

Anyway. Yea, go alone.

The most important thing is this - think that it is JUST A GAME.

You know why?

BECAUSE IT IS JUST A GAME!

GAME
GAME
GAME

Have fun.

The man speaketh the truth. Social proof is easier to build when you're in a crew. But nothing worth doing is easy so as the man says, start opening when you enter, 'work' that room and the perception of you shall be raised. Yeah, with enough Social Proof you can just about blow up anything:D

In daygame, a wing is completely unnecessary and I never use one.

At night, it sometimes can be useful to have a wing, though not completely necessary if you isolate quickly.

If you walk into a bar or club alone and are at all worried about being "seen alone" or something, just reframe it like this - how do you feel when you go to a venue and you're just waiting for a friend to join you? Do you feel nervous that people might see you? No, because YOU KNOW someone's gonna join you soon. Since people don't KNOW that, it's all about the vibe you give off. If you're comfortable walking around a venue, or chilling by yourself, then you will give that off. So, if all else fails, just tell people (and yourself) you're waiting for a friend, and go from there.

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nice! that's the mentality i have when i go out alone.. and it works! it allows me to not feel weird, which means that i dont give off any weirdness..

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i have done it and succeeded .. without any money or other help.

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yes it is,in my point of view a wing man is really more of a risk, its really a way to show him you're tricks, you can be easily amog because of this, i have never used a wingman. dont't worry all that matters is if you know yourself.

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Ya dude, most everything you can do with a win you can do alone. Maybe change up a few routines but it is really easy, sometimes easier because you don't have anyone to mess up in front of so it is a lot less pressured, which can actually make you mess up less.

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