here is one deffintion of Devlopmental Arrest.

Developmental arrest: a temporary or permanent cessation of development.


i Fear that women may be suffering from wide spred developmental arrest.

i fear that women are sufferent from lack of mental and emotional devopment, on large scale basis.

i know this may be a large claim... but most of us here, are people that can accept harsh truths.

allow me to give some examples of evidence that i think points to this problem:

* A large amount of women still rely on men to do trivle tasks the they do them selvs... (almost like childen might)...... for example, "putting the tiolet seat up for them... opening doors for them.... pulling out chairs.. paying for there meals..

* i understand many of the resons behind it.. from Socail conditoning.. learned behavour... biology.. special SPAM issues..psycology issues... human nature.............. but still, it points to child like behaoure in adult women.

* women seems to act like children, and have simialure mannerisms in many ways that are eerily similar to young kids.... for example ... they often over react to things like ducks crossing the street...(they will often start to giggle and get over exicted,, they may clap there hands, and call them "ducckies"... like children might.

* other examples of distrubing similaritys:... how women often twist and controt there bodys, when they are exicted... like children struggleing to contain theer emotions..

* another example of women having child like mannerisms:. When women are mad and esspcialy when they are mad around guys... they will often adopt child like mannerisms, like Crossing there arms and sulking...... they will change there voice to match a little girls pitch.. they will pout,, they may say things to other guys around them in an attempt to gain sympathy or validation..

* when women hear something about them selves or there gender.. they often lose controle... making it hard to have a adult.. logical onversation.... with evidence... or facts.

* women enjoy being picked up.. thrown around.. spun around....hit with pillow's... much like my 5 year old neice (yes i have one)

* women have a natrual tendency to let the man take care of most problems (many girls will sit here helpless in emergancy.. like if a car breaks down)

* women have a natural tendency to put burdens of blame on men.. expect speical SPAM..... they expect men to drop everything for theer aniversaery, and to be takken out to dinner...

* many women think its okay to hit men,.. but many of those same girls would be horrified if men used the exact same force on them in self defense.

* many women have a "me attitude".... and dont care about there mens sexual needs (at least not beta males)... but they want there emotional needs all met.

it seems like women are living in a country that is 100 years behind the times...like equality never happened.... did they not get the memo?... its 2011?..

i honest think many women are not " growing up"..... like they dont devopemnt an adult mentaility.. (when it comes to men - women interactions)


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my point is... women seem to be very much like chidlen... i am disturbed by the massive amount simialritys i am seeing with women and children..

i understand much of this can be expained with biology,, and social factors... and human nature..

but the fact is..... this is some Disturbing shyt.... and these are just a few examples.. i could go on all day.

it seems like many women are suffering from a form of wide-spred maturity problem... 9i know some women have few or none of tese isseus as well as others)

i think that women may be suffering from Developmental arrest.

Any one care to share there thoughts on all of this?.... or add to the discustion?

You might want to read Arthur Schopenhauer's essay "On Women": http://www.heretical.com/miscella/onwomen.html

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ok... ill take a look at it... thanks... care to share your oppinions.. becuase im fairly distub at what im seeing (i know men have issues also)... but still... im bugged by this

i only read the first parigrahs so far.... i know many might see it as sexist... but i know enough that i should at least read it and consider it.... and its got a few fair points i noticed allready..... interesting... hmm

I largely agree with Schopenhauer on the subject. The way he phrases things is sometimes a little abrasive and he sometimes exaggerates the case but I think his underlying points are valid.
I agree that women have a lot of the traits that you mentioned in your first post but I don't mind. I love women for what they are.

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Women let men fix the toilet. They let men open their doors.... to me this is a type of manipulation and taking advantage of us, not a case of arrested development.

But in many other cases, I agree. The truth is that "adulthood" vs "childhood" is a fallacy - most people remain more or less in the same mental capacity throughout their lives. (envy, can't contain their emotions, shallow thinking, unable to develop to the next level... etc)

There are some - what you would call "intelligent people" "- are about 5% of the population - you see them backpacking around the world at 18-20, completing their Masters by the age of 24, running companies by 30... writing books, being creative... having a wide range on interests.

The rest are.... idiots. I don't think it's a male / female thing. It's called "the human race"

And this "She expiates the guilt of life not through activity but through suffering, through the pains of childbirth, caring for the child and subjection to the man, to whom she should be a patient and cheering companion. Great suffering, joy, exertion, is not for her: her life should flow by more quietly, trivially, gently than the man's without being essentially happier or unhappier. "

And the rest is all bullshit. This is how females behave in OUR male dominated WESTERN society. In the east, for example, women are the ones that run businesses, that run the family household, that are more dominant... the men are drunk, fight, and do little or nothing to further themselves. If you ever traveled in China or Thailand you would know this first hand.

The question is - does this matter? Because we are talking about women in OUR society... so, this is a bigger discussion. The point is that each and every women is different, and that is why we should all game, date, fuck and enjoy the many of them as we can, so when that gem comes along - we can keep her (and hopefully she would be a bi sexual so we could enjoy threesomes with her but that's just my personal preference... never mind

most women are immature.

hell, most PEOPLE are immature.

it just manifests in different ways.

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i agree with many of the things that he said in that essy... but as you have pointed out.. he has a tendency to exaggerates....

i do feel this essay has many valid points....though i feel that the writter may be a bit sexist....

what i mean by that is, he is appraoching this from an emotional stand point.. it feels like his own anger is mixed up into his essay.. and im sure it is.... i wish he would be a bit more neutral , becuase he comes off as bias.

any ways.. thats for pointing that artical out.. i found it very interesing... nothing too suprising of course... girls are fairly predictible... now that i understand more about them.

an interesting read with many good points. thxs

agreed with mack....

woman who cannot lead are not mature ... woman who want to lead are manipulative....

98% of all humans you encounter suffer from developmental arrest , but yes at woman it does occur more often.

but actually on the other side i do understand the immature parts of woman .. i do enjoy childish behaviour from woman , i do enjoy pillow fights and all that stuff. there is a innocent playfull childish aspect when it comes to female energy , you either hate it or you enjoy it.

i think you should pretend that all woman are like they your retarded little sister...... woman are less capable to develop society and culture in general , no i don't hate woman tho alot of woman do disgust me ( during pickup time in clubs ).
from experience .. : not all woman are retarded .... most woman are dysfunctional.

most men are the retarded because they are being raised up by their mom.... men who were the least retarded had a good father son relationship.

woman have so many weird unconcious and concious process .... if you look like her dad regarding appearance or/and personality she is attracted on the spot. woman can do not stand the fact that her sister is fucking her friend ... all these weird red markers.

to my point of view .. woman are more able to be jealous , angry , manipulative ... woman are emotional creatures and this his their whole problem. they are being controlled by emotions primarily. Men are primarily controlled by logic and second by emotions.

all the shit i've heard coming out of a womans mouth .. what a woman says and thinks is different . NONE of what she is saying got anything to do with what she thinks if you take objective verbal meaning of what she is saying.
I do not understand why ancient cultures dedicated all these gods.. like god of fertility to woman.... woman just seem to be more corrupted than men in general. its not like im angry because i know woman are just build this way ... they are hardwired to respond to emotions and all that stuff - they are victim of their own hardwiring , does that mean is should respect them or feel mercy ? no .... i still think that woman are retarded in general , i've learned to respect human beings in general because respecting woman in particular is just out of my reality.

i don't see how you can respect woman as woman .... i don't like my mom either .. even tho she is very nice she constantly tries to manipulate my dad into doing things because she does not have control over her own logic and emotions. most woman are like this... mom wnat her son to like her so she tells her little son to respect woman in general and to be nice to all people..... nice way to fuckup you kids personality... this is the number one reason why guys cannot pickup woman and be a normal mature man , it's because they respect mommy and other people too much.

the sooner you break off from your mom the faster you mature, if i have children im going to be honest and realistic to them....im not going to tell them fairytales and other chode shit like most woman do.

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soooo... if women are children, then we are a bunch of pedos!

i must say...

i've never had a woman clap her hands and squeal "yay! duckies!" as ducks were crossing the road.

nothing even similar to that has happened.

i will say that honor is not inherent in the female nature.

i am sorry. i don't want to sound sexist. but it isn't.

honor is a dedication/understanding/obligation to something HIGHER than oneself.

we (men), most of us at least, have a connection with an unwritten code of honor in our dealings.

we understand that if we fuck up, we have to take responsibility.

we understand that if we slack off, shit won't get done.

we understand that if we lie, we might get busted.

all of these things and many more come from a man's connection with something OUTSIDE of "the self", something higher, something removed from us.

call it god, call it the universe, call it masculinity, call it honor,

honestly, call it whatever the fuck you want. it exists.

it is why men have stood, marched, fought, and died for honor throughout history.

we understand that in many instances it would be better to have death before dishonor.

don't you agree?

i know i do.

find a woman who would select death before dishonor...................

good luck.

they aren't hard-wired that way.

they are very locked into "the self" and it's wants, needs, desires.

i'm not saying these rules apply across the board, but overall, it's very true.

there are brave/honest/honorable women.

and there are cowardly/dishonest/dishonorable men.

but, by and large, we men know that when we meet one another....

whether it be on the battlefield, in the boardroom, on the playing field, or wherever,

that we are willing to sacrifice ourselves for something "outside the self" if the need should arise.

honor. it's a male thing.

in the absence of honor, you will find feminity.

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I agree with the above post. But then again...it's human nature. Women are like that because they are...women. We have to deal with it just like they have to deal with us.

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Here is one:

"Szenes was arrested at the Hungarian border, imprisoned and tortured, but she refused to reveal details of her mission and was eventually tried and executed by firing squad.[1] She is regarded as a national heroine in Israel, where several streets, the headquarters of the Zionist youth movements Israel Hatzeira and a kibbutz are named after her, and her poetry is widely known."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannah_Szenes

But generally, I agree. Maybe it's because we are hardwired to protect them, and they are hardwired to protect the children. A woman would enslave herself, gang bang, will not eat for 10 days... will do ANYTHING to protect her children. But not to protect us.... we are there to get them pregnant and keep the money flowing in their direction.... and that's about it.

Learning PU can be sad sometimes... learning so much about human nature... and it's never good.

is she still alive ? i need to date her !

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there is an old saying:

"women labor for their children, men labor for their families"

but you know what, as cynical and mindbent as i am, i can't help my own nature.

even today, this very moment, if i saw a woman being attacked or something of that nature, i would immediately step in at my own peril.

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