Jost thought to drop a quick intro before I start posting these total noob posts lol.

26 y/o, had a girlfriend for over a year in high school but never went the whole way with her, since then had a few dry years with what I call 2nd date curse. by the time I grew up some balls(still not fully grown, just swell a little when I drink and once in a blue moon approach) I usually approached only girls Im familiar with or in very comfortable settings (going out with close friends and some1 brings a friend etc.), saying something very straightforward (i like you, when can I see you again etc) but all of the time get very worked up, being over excited about the whole thing etc if i get a green light, get to 2nd date and then either no 3rd or girl's interest get out the window (cat string theory?).

Sexual experience : kissed about 3-4 girls, 1 got naked with (HS gf, no explicit acts) and 1 full ride (nothing to be proud of, a paid experience on a trip to Amsterdam).

Im an extrovert person and have a lot of lady friends and bond up easily with people. also work in a big store so constantly approach people and easy to talk with. very outgoing in life but ALWAYS end up on the good friend spot. I do consider myself good looking and intelligent tho.

A girl hit on me a month ago and that was nice on my ego but I have horrible mid game (lol) and that just ended in the classic for me date + kiss and nothin more.

Reading the game SPAM and discovering all of this is really another (hopefully significant) step in the work Im tryin to do on myself.

Taking this dead serious,
wish me luck.